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- No ke aha e hoʻopunipuni ai nā wahine, ma kahi o ka haki
- 1. Palekana ʻo ia i ka naʻau
- 2. He mea eli gula ʻo ia
- 3. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopunipuni no ka mea aia ʻo ia i kahi pilikia pili
- 4. Ua launa ʻo ia me kekahi kāne e hōʻoluʻolu ai iā ia
- 5. Manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hoʻokō ʻia kāna mau moe kolohe
- 6. Ua huikau ʻo ia e pili ana i kona manaʻo
- 7. Loaʻa iā ia ke kākoʻo naʻau mai iā ia
- 8. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke pale aku i ka hoʻowalewale
- 9. Ke loaʻa ʻole ka manawa a kāna hoa
"Ma kahi o 45% o nā wahine i ka launa pilina e hoʻopunipuni i kā lākou mau hoa, ma kahi o 60% o nā kāne", i ʻōlelo ʻia e ka psychologist a me nā mea hoʻoponopono maʻi ʻo Kauka Lonnie Barbach.
No laila hoʻopunipuni nā kāne a me nā wahine. Akā no ke aha e ʻike maʻalahi ʻia ai nā kāne ma ke ʻano he cheaters ʻoiai e pakele ka wahine hoʻopunipuni i ka leka hoʻomaopopo?
ʻĀ, no ka mea, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā wahine ma ka hoʻopunipuni a hūnā iā ia mai kā lākou kāne. E loaʻa paha nā kāne hoʻopunipuni, ʻoiai ʻo ka nui o ka wahine i ʻike ʻole ʻia e ʻike ʻole ʻia.
I loko nō hoʻi o kā mākou moʻomeheu komohana, mahalo nui ʻia ke kāne i loaʻa ka nui o ka wahine, ʻoiai ʻo ka wahine i loaʻa ka nui o ka wahine leʻaleʻa e hoʻowahāwahā ʻia a ʻike maikaʻi ʻole ʻia.
Eia nō naʻe, hoʻopunipuni nā wahine. Akā no ke aha? He aha nā kumu nui o lākou no ka infidelity?
Eia kekahi, e nānā i kēia wikiō ʻike e pili ana i nā ʻano o ka hoʻomaloka.
No ke aha e hoʻopunipuni ai nā wahine, ma kahi o ka haki
Loaʻa i nā kāne a me nā wahine kekahi mau pono. ʻAʻohe hewa o kēlā. Kūlohelohe ia.
No laila he aha nā kumu o ka hoʻokamani?
Ke manaʻo kekahi wahine ua nele kekahi mea i kāna pilina - a ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hana ma o kēlā pilina - hoʻoholo paha ʻo ia e ʻimi no kahi ʻē aʻe. He mea maʻamau kēlā no ka hapa nui o nā wahine e hoʻopunipuni.
No laila, no ke aha i loko o ka pilina? ʻĀ, no ka pono nui o nā wahine i ka palekana. Makemake lākou a pono i kahi pilina paʻa. Ma ka hele ʻana i waho o ka pilina - a me ka hoʻokō ʻana i kāna mau pono ma laila - a i loko o kahi pilina i ka manawa like, hiki iā ia ke hoʻokō i nā pono ʻelua.
Hana nā wahine i nā manawa ʻē aʻe no ke kumu like e hana ai nā kāne:
Paʻakī ka haki ʻana ʻoiai ke loaʻa ʻole nā pono o ke kino i ka male.
E aho lākou e hoʻopunipuni a noho i kahi pilina ma mua o ka haʻi ʻana i nā nūhou a hana i ke ala paʻakikī.
No ke aha e hoʻopunipuni ai nā wahine: ʻO nā kumu maʻamau i pili i nā wahine hoʻopunipuni
ʻO nā kumu e hoʻopunipuni ai nā wahine i kā lākou kāne ʻaʻole ʻokoʻa i nā kumu e hoʻohuli ai i nā kāne e hana pono ʻole. Ma lalo iho nei kekahi o nā kumu maʻamau no ka wahine e hoʻopunipuni ai i kā lākou mea nui ʻē aʻe.
E kahaha paha ʻoe e pili ana i kekahi o kēia mau kumu no ka pili wahine ʻole.
1. Palekana ʻo ia i ka naʻau
Ke hopohopo nā wahine hoʻomaka lākou e ʻimi nui i ka ikaika a me ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo e hiki i kahi kāne ke hāʻawi. Inā neʻe kahi kāne i kēia manawa, hiki paha iā ia ke hiamoe me ia i kēlā pō. Pane kēlā no ke aha e hoʻopunipuni ai nā wahine i kā lākou kāne.
E hōʻoia i ka palekana o ka palekana o kāu wahine me ʻoe. I kēia ala, emi iki paha ʻo ia e nānā i ka ikaika a me ka hōʻoia hou ma kahi ʻē.
2. He mea eli gula ʻo ia
Aloha maoli ʻo ia iā ʻoe, a i ʻole me ʻoe wale no kāu kālā?
ʻO kekahi mau wahine he ʻeli gula maoli. Mālama nui lākou e pili ana i ke kālā āu a me nā leʻaleʻa hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi ma mua o kāna mālama iā ʻoe. ʻO kekahi o nā kumu maʻamau e hoʻopunipuni ai nā wahine i mare ʻia ma muli o kā lākou mau ʻimi gula.
He mea ʻole ke hoʻopaʻa aku i kēlā wahine no ka mea hoʻopunipuni kēia mau wahine i kā lākou kāne, pinepine ʻole. E loaʻa mau nā kāne me ke kālā hou aʻe a hana mau ʻo ia i ka mea like.
3. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopunipuni no ka mea aia ʻo ia i kahi pilikia pili
Manaʻo ʻo ia he pilikia pilikia kāna. Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ʻo kēlā me kēia manawa o ka pilina e piha i nā ʻālohilohi aloha a me nā haunaele wahine. ʻO ka pinepine inā luuluu ka wahine i ka pilina, ʻoi aku ka nui o kāna hana i nā lawehala.
Loaʻa nā a me nā lalo o kēlā me kēia pilina, he ʻāpana ia o ka pāʻani. ʻO ka pahuhopu ka pili pū ʻana a hana i nā mea i waho.
Akā nona, Hele paha ʻo ia i ke ala maʻalahi a haʻi iā ia iho ua kūpono ia. ʻO ia kekahi kumu e hihia ai nā wahine ke pili ka wai i ka wai kūpikipiki.
4. Ua launa ʻo ia me kekahi kāne e hōʻoluʻolu ai iā ia
Maopopo iaʻu ua ʻike ʻoe iā lākou. ʻO kēlā mau kāne kāne ikaika me kā lākou leʻaleʻa a me ka walaʻau kamaʻilio. ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻamau no ka hāʻule ʻana o kahi wahine male ʻole no kēia mau kāne.
Hāʻule lākou i nā mahalo a me ka ʻano palaha o kēia mau kāne.
He aha ka hoʻomaka ʻana ma ke ʻano he leʻaleʻa 'huli koke paha i mea ʻoi aku ma mua o ka leʻaleʻa maʻamau. Hōʻike kēlā no ke aha i loaʻa ai i nā wahine nā hihia ma kahi o ka noho ʻana i loko o nā palena o nā paia i uhi ʻia.
Aia kekahi ʻāpana o ka poʻe hoihoi e pili ana i ke kumu e flirt ai nā wahine male a he aha kāna mau manaʻo ma hope o ka hana ʻana i kēia.
Aia kekahi mau wahine male e makemake ʻole e komo i kahi ola maoli, holoʻokoʻa piha.
Iā lākou, ke komo nei i kahi hana ʻuʻuku, me he mea lā ʻole he manaʻo make ʻole. He ʻano leʻaleʻa o ka pīhoihoi i hāʻawi ʻia i kahi manawa o ka flirtation, ʻaʻole kēia nā wahine e ʻimi nei i kahi hihia.
5. Manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hoʻokō ʻia kāna mau moe kolohe
ʻO ke kāne maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana i ka impotency, ka hana erectile a i ʻole kahi wiener liʻiliʻi no ka laki.
Manaʻo kekahi mau wahine i kēia kuleana iā lākou e hoʻopunipuni i kā lākou mau hoa. Makemake lākou e hoʻokō ʻia ko lākou mau moekolohe, ʻoiai kā lākou hoa aloha.
6. Ua huikau ʻo ia e pili ana i kona manaʻo
E like me kou ʻike e like ka manaʻo o ka wahine me ke kai.
Hahai lākou i ka ebb a kahe.
I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke haʻalele i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kou maikaʻi, i nā manawa ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻopau i ka hoʻopiʻi e pili ana iā ʻoe. Ke lele aku kahi kāne ʻē i ka manawa kūpono hiki iā ia ke hoʻohuli koke i kāu wahine iā ʻoe a lanakila iā ia nona iho.
7. Loaʻa iā ia ke kākoʻo naʻau mai iā ia
Makemake nā wahine e hoʻomaopopo. Pono lākou i ke kākoʻo naʻau. A inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia, e hele ʻo ia e ʻike ma kahi ʻē.
I kekahi manawa lilo kahi poʻohiwi e hilinaʻi i wahi moe e hiamoe ai.
ʻOiai he mea nui ia e loaʻa ʻoe i ka noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau no ia. I hiki i ʻolua ke loaʻa i ke kākoʻo manaʻo mai kekahi i kekahi. Ma waho o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻo kēia kekahi o nā kumu moe o kahi pilina olakino.
8. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke pale aku i ka hoʻowalewale
Pehea ʻoe e hana ai inā e paʻi nā kaikamahine maikaʻi iā ʻoe ma nā wahi āpau āu e hele ai?
ʻAneʻane pā pinepine ʻia nā wahine. ʻAʻole ia he mea ʻē e komo ʻo ia i kekahi manawa, no laila no ke aha e hiki ai i nā wahine ke hoʻopunipuni ma muli o kā lākou hoʻolaha e hāʻawi i ka hoʻowalewale.
9. Ke loaʻa ʻole ka manawa a kāna hoa
Pono nā wahine i ke aloha a me ka launa ʻole i ka moekolohe ʻole. Inā kūleʻa nui ʻoe hoʻomaka ʻo ia e mālama ʻole ʻia.
A ʻo kahi hopena, hele paha ʻo ia e ʻimi i ka pilina naʻau ma kahi ʻē.
E hoʻolālā manawa mau kekahi i kekahi.
ʻO kahi maʻa mau ke loaʻa o hoʻokahi ahiahi o ka pule no kēlā me kēia, a ʻo kekahi wale nō. E ʻike iā ia me he ʻano lā lā lā, e like me kāu e hana ai i ka wā e hoʻāʻo nei e lanakila i kona puʻuwai.
He mea paʻakikī paha i nā kāne ke hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu o ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana o nā wahine, me ka nānā ʻole i ka hopena psychological o ka infidelity a i ʻole ka luʻu hohonu ʻana i nā wahine male.
Akā i ka hopena, he kumu ko kā kēlā me kēia kanaka no nā hana a lākou e hana ai.
No laila, no nā kāne e heluhelu ana no ke aha e hoʻopunipuni ai nā wahine, he mea nui e mālama pono i kāu wahine, hoʻolaʻa i kou manawa a me kou ikaika iā ia a e ʻike pono ʻoe i kāna mea e pono ai.
ʻO ia nā mea hana maʻalahi no ka mālama ʻana iā ia me ka hauʻoli a noho pū ʻana ʻoiai ke kipaku nei i ka pili wahine ʻole.