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- E kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe
- Ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻole
- Nā manaʻolana kūpono ʻole
- ʻO nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia e haehae i nā pilina.
- Hoa kākoʻo ʻole
- Kālā kālā
- ʻO ka hoʻopunipuni a me nā ʻano like ʻole o ka hoʻomaloka
- ʻAʻole lawa ka manawa i lilo wale
- Luuluu
Hoʻomanaʻo i ka wā o ka pilikia nui i kou ola aloha ma mua kahi āu e hele ai no ka ʻaina awakea i ka pō Pōʻalima? Ah, aloha ʻōpio. I ka ulu ʻana o nā kāne a aʻo e pili ana kekahi i kekahi, lilo kā lākou pilina i mea uku nui aʻe ... a ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī. Kūleʻa kēlā me kēia wahine i kā lāua aloha, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hāʻawi lākou āpau i kekahi mau pilikia pili pilina ma ke ala.
ʻAʻole pili kahi pilina! Eia kekahi mau pilikia pili pilina maʻamau i kēlā me kēia wahine ke hālāwai i hoʻokahi manawa i ko lākou ola.
E kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe
He mea nui ka moekolohe a me ka pilina ma nā pilina, no laila he kūlohelohe ia ʻo lākou kekahi o nā pilikia pili nui loa. Ke pili paʻa nei iā ʻoe a manaʻo maikaʻi, ʻo ia ke kumu e maʻalahi ke maʻalahi i ka wā e piʻi ai ka pilikia.
Pili pinepine nā pilikia pili i ka wahine me ka moekolohe ma nā ʻano like ʻole, e like me:
- ʻAʻole lawa ka moekolohe: ʻO kahi pilikia maʻamau a kekahi mau kāne e alo nei, ʻo ka nele i ka moekolohe i kā lākou pili. Hiki i nā kāne ke pale i kēia pilikia ma ke kūkākūkā ākea a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i nā mea e pono ai a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia e pili ana i kā lākou pili pili kino.
- Luʻuluʻu ka wahine: Loaʻa paha i kekahi mau kāne i kekahi mau moe kolohe ʻaʻole i hui pinepine ʻia e kā lāua mau hoa. ʻO kēia, a me ka noho like ʻana no nā makahiki he nui, hiki ke alakaʻi i kekahi e ʻike i ka luhi o ko lākou ola wahine. E nānā i nā ala e ʻono ai i nā mea me nā pāʻani lumi moe, nā pahu moekolohe i kēlā me kēia mahina, roleplaying, nā mea pāʻani a me nā mea hou aʻe.
- ʻO ka moekolohe ka mea maikaʻi wale nō i ka pilina. Ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka mea i luna aʻe, ʻo kou ola moekolohe wale nō ka mea maikaʻi e pili ana i kāu pilina. E manaʻoʻiʻo paha ʻaʻole paha, e noho pū kekahi mau kāne ma muli o ka pōmaikaʻi o ko lākou lumi moe, ma kahi o kā lākou pono e pono ai. Inā ʻoluʻolu ʻoe i kahi pilina kino me kāu hoa akā ʻaʻole hiki ke kū me ka mea hoʻokahi ma ka lā hoʻokahi, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e haʻalele i kēia pilina a nānā i kekahi e hoʻokō i kāu mau pono āpau.
Ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻole
He mea nui ke kamaʻilio ʻana no nā pilina olakino a mau loa. Eia nō naʻe, kuhikuhi nā pilikia pili maʻamau i ka ʻike ʻole o nā kāne a pau i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kekahi. Hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i ka huhū, huhū, a me ka hoʻokele waʻa o ke kuhi hewa ʻana. E nānā i nā ala e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia a kamaʻilio pū kekahi me kekahi me ka ʻole o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa.
E wehewehe i kāu hoa i ke ala āu e kamaʻilio ai. ʻO kahi laʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo: E paipai kēia ʻike i kāu hoa e ahonui a me ka ʻike maikaʻi e pili ana i ka huki ʻana iā ʻoe.
Nā manaʻolana kūpono ʻole
ʻO ka neʻe pū ʻana a male ʻana paha i kāu ipo ʻaʻole ia he ʻano e hoʻololi koke lākou i ka pilikino. Inā he maikaʻi ʻole ka noho ʻana ma kā lākou iho, e lilo paha lākou i hoa noho me ka haunaele. Inā ʻaʻole lākou i makemake i nā keiki ke hele mua ʻoe, mai manaʻo e hoʻololi kēia i ke ala.
ʻO nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia e haehae i nā pilina.
Hōʻalo i nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia e ka hāmama me kekahi ma mua o kou noʻonoʻo ʻana e pili ana i ka mea āu e makemake ai mai kahi pilina. E aʻo e ʻae i kāu hoapili ʻoiai lākou a neʻe i mua a ʻike i kekahi e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kona ʻano i kāu mau pahuhopu.
Hoa kākoʻo ʻole
Kū kekahi pilikia pili maʻamau ke kākoʻo ʻole ʻia kahi pahuhopu a me nā makemake. Ke pili nei ʻoe i kahi pilina e makemake ʻoe e mālama i kāu pakanā e like me ka hiki ke lilo i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai. Makemake ʻoe e hāhai lākou i kā lākou mau moemoeā a hana lākou i nā mea āpau e hiki ai ke kōkua iā lākou ma ke ala - a manaʻo ʻoe i ka like o ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana.
Kālā kālā
ʻO kekahi o nā pilikia pili maʻa mau e ʻae nā kāne he pilikia me ke kālā. ʻO ka lawa ʻole o ke kālā a ʻike ʻole paha i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i kāu mau ukana kālā a me ka nalo ʻana o nā hana, ka nele o ke kālā, ka mālama kālā maikaʻi ʻole ʻana, ka ʻaiʻē, a me ka hoʻolilo kālā nui ʻana nā pilikia āpau e hiki ai ke hoʻokau i ka pilina.
E kūkākūkā i kāu kālā ke lilo ka pilina i mea koʻikoʻi a kūpaʻa hoʻi e pili ana i kāu hōʻaiʻē i loaʻa iā ʻoe. Hilinaʻi kekahi i kekahi inā loaʻa ke kālā paʻa a mai paʻa ka kamaʻilio ʻana.
ʻO ka hoʻopunipuni a me nā ʻano like ʻole o ka hoʻomaloka
ʻO ka hoʻopunipuni kahi pilikia nui i nā pilina i kēia lā. Ua hana ka pūnaewele i nā ʻano hoʻopunipuni āpau i maʻalahi me ka hoʻoiho ʻana i kahi polokalamu. ʻO ka Sexting, nā mea e pili ana i ka naʻau, porn, sneaking a puni, a me nā pilina kino me kahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o kāu ipo aloha nā pilikia nui āpau e hōʻino ai i nā pilina, i kekahi manawa me ka hiki ʻole ke hoʻi.
He mea paʻakikī ka infidelity i ka broach me kāu ipo aloha, akā no ka pono ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kou pili e hōʻike i kāu hoa ke ʻike ʻoe i ka naʻau a i ʻole ke nānā kino ʻana. ʻAi aku ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hāʻawi hou i kāu pilina. E wehe i kāu mau pilikia ma ke ākea a i ʻole me nā pō lā a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio ʻana maʻa mau a ʻimi paha i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne e kōkua ai e hoʻoponopono i kāu pilina.
ʻAʻole lawa ka manawa i lilo wale
Pili kekahi mau pilikia pili pilina i ka hoʻolilo ʻole ʻana i ka manawa hoʻokahi. Heʻoiaʻiʻo loa kēia no nā kāne a hānau keiki. Ma waena o ka hana a me nā kuleana o ka ʻohana, manaʻo ʻoe i kekahi manawa e like me nā hoa noho ma mua o nā hoa aloha. ʻO kēia no ka mea ua hooki oukou i 'ka launa pū' ana kekahi i kekahi. Hiki i kēlā ʻano ke hana i kahi hoa aloha i ka mahalo ʻole ʻia, hoihoi ʻole, a me ka pīhoihoi o ka naʻau.
Kāhea i kāu kahu pēpē punahele a hoʻokumu i kahi lā lā manuahi ʻole keiki i hoʻokahi manawa ma ka pule me kāu wahine. ʻAe kēia iā ʻoe e pili hou ma ke ʻano he kāne, ma kahi o nā mākua. E hele i nā lā a mālama i kekahi i kekahi e like me ʻoe e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻokele kekahi i kekahi.
Luuluu
ʻO ka luuluu kahi pilikia maʻamau i nā pili lōʻihi. ʻO ka noho pū ʻana me ke kanaka hoʻokahi no nā makahiki he nui ke ʻano e lawe i ka 'spark' mai kāu hui ʻana. Manaʻo paha ʻoe ua ʻoi aku kekahi i kekahi. Mai hoʻoluhi a hāʻawi pio paha. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohuli i kēia manaʻo ma ka ʻimi ʻana i nā ala hou e hoʻohui ai me kāu hoa. E nānā i nā mea hou e hana pū e like me ka huakaʻi a i ʻole lawe i kahi leʻaleʻa. E kōkua kēia iā ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa ma luna o kahi mea leʻaleʻa a pīhoihoi hoʻi.
Nui a hewahewa nā pilikia pili pilina e luhi nei i nā kāne i kēia lā, akā ʻo kēia mau puʻupuʻu i ke ala he mau hīnaʻi hiki ʻole ke hiki. E wehe i kāu mau laina o ke kamaʻilio a hoʻomanaʻo i ka manawa e hoʻōla i nā ʻeha āpau. ʻO kēia mau ʻālelo aʻoaʻo ʻelua e lawe iā ʻoe i kahi pilina aloha.