Anter
- No ka makua me ko Asperger mau pilina e hāʻawi i kā lākou pono pilikino
- Hoʻomaopopo pinepine ʻia nā kāne ma mua o nā wahine me Asperger's
- ʻO ka noho ʻana me kahi hoa Aspergers pono i ka ʻae ʻia
- Kūleʻa kēlā me kēia pilina
- ʻ advicelelo aʻoaʻo pili Aspergers
ʻImi nui mākou i ke aloha aloha i kā mākou moʻomeheu me ka nānā ʻole i kā mākou ʻokoʻa. I nā pilina, ʻimi pinepine mākou i kahi pane i lōkahi ʻia mai kā mākou mau hoa e manaʻo ʻia ua hōʻoia ʻia, heleuma a paʻa i ka pilina. Ua kuhi ʻo John Bowlby i ka huaʻōlelo "hoʻopili". Loaʻa i nā mākua nā pilina pili like ʻē aʻe mai kā lākou hoʻololi ʻana mai ka wā kamaliʻi. Hoʻokomo ʻia mākou e hoʻohui mai ka hānau a ʻimi i kēlā pilina i loko o ko mākou ola. ʻO kēia mau adaptation pono i ke keiki e hoʻomau i ka mana i ka wā makua. Me kēia ʻano ikaika, ʻimi pinepine mākou i nā hoa e hoʻomaikaʻi iā mākou, a me lākou e hōʻike ai i nā hiʻohiʻona maʻamau o ka noho ʻana i ka honua i kā mākou pili aloha, pili, a me ka male.
ʻO Asperger kahi maʻi maʻi neurodevelopmental. Hiki i nā kāne me Asperger ke hālāwai mua i kahi pono i loko o nā pilina a ʻike pinepine ʻia kēia mau ʻano he nani. Akā aia kekahi mau pilikia e pono ʻoe e makaʻala inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ana e noho me ka wahine Aspergers.
Eia ka mea e pono ai ʻoe e ʻike ke noho pū me Aspergers wahine-
No ka makua me ko Asperger mau pilina e hāʻawi i kā lākou pono pilikino
ʻO ka ʻāpana o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā pilikia interpersonal ʻo ia hoʻi ka noho ʻole ʻana. ʻOiai kā lākou mau hana e hōʻino ai i ka lole o kā lākou hui pū ʻana. Makemake mau ka poʻe me Asperger i ka pilina i ko lākou ola a i kā lākou Aspergers male. Hāʻawi ka ʻume o ka pilina i ka palekana, paʻa, a me ka pilina; nā mea i hoʻohiki ʻia i loko o ka male e pale ai i ke ʻano o ka ʻike. ʻO kekahi poʻe e noho nei me Asperger's, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, e ʻimi paha i kahi ola kahi e waiho ai lākou i kā lākou mau wahi o ka ʻimi ʻana.
Hiki i ka noho ʻana me ka wahine Aspergers ke lilo i mea paʻakikī no kā lāua mau hoa.
Hoʻomaopopo pinepine ʻia nā kāne ma mua o nā wahine me Asperger's
Aspergers kāne a me nā pilikia i ka pili - Ma waena o kahi kaiāulu e paʻa ana i nā ʻano nohona like ʻole no nā kāne a me nā wahine i ka male ʻana, e loaʻa i ka dinamika i loko o kēlā me kēia hui ka hōʻike pilikino ʻana. Hoʻohui ʻia, me nā papa ʻē aʻe o nā uniona e pili ana, ka lāhui, ka kāne like, ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo e hiki ai me kā lākou mau papa o nā pilikia a me nā ikaika.Hiki i nā haunaele ʻē aʻe i loko o ka male male e like me ke kālā a me nā keiki ke hoʻohui i nā papa ʻē aʻe o ke koʻikoʻi ma luna o ka noho ʻana me ka wahine Aspergers.
ʻO ka noho ʻana me kahi hoa Aspergers pono i ka ʻae ʻia
Loaʻa iā mākou a pau nā mea i manaʻo ʻia i kā mākou waiwai e like me ke kanaka a me ka ʻāpana o ka hui ʻana o ka male. Ke loaʻa kahi hoa ʻo Asperger i kapa ʻia ʻo High Functioning Autism hiki i kēia ke hōʻike me nā dynamics ʻike ʻole ʻia i loko o ka pilina e kaomi ana i waho a i ʻole kūʻē paha i nā hoa o kēlā me kēia ao o ka hilahila a me ka hūnā. ʻO nā pilina ma waena o ka wahine Aspergers a me ka wahine ʻē aʻe hiki ke loaʻa kahi hopena lōʻihi e alakaʻi ai i nā pōʻaiapuni hoʻomau mau, ka hana home, nā hihia, nā maʻi noʻonoʻo, ke olakino olakino, nā manaʻo stigma, hilahila, kaumaha, a me nā nalo. Ke noho nei me ka wahine Aspergers, e ʻimi ana i kahi e kamaʻilio ai e pili ana i nā pilikia: ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hōʻailona, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana a me ka ʻae ʻana i ka hōʻailona, e hana ana i nā wahi palekana e hoʻomaopopo ai i nā ʻano kaiāulu a me nā hopena pilikino i loko o kēia mau pilina e nalo pinepine i nā wahi kuʻina o ka pilikino a me ka lehulehu. o nā pilina.
Kūleʻa kēlā me kēia pilina
Hiki i kahi pae o ke kiʻekiʻe o ke koʻikoʻi o nā ʻōuli. Kūpono kēlā me kēia kāne a me ka male. Akā ʻo nā wahi maʻamau o nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo, a me nā lawena e pili ana i ka ʻohana, ka hana a me ke kaiāulu: nā mokuʻāina hyperarousal, nā pilikia interpersonal, ka pīhoihoi o ka nohona, ke aloha, ka pilina kino, ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe, ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana, nā pilikia kiʻekiʻe no ka OCD, ADHD a me ka hopohopo.
ʻO nā wahi ākea o ka nānā ʻana i nā wahi o ka hoihoi kūikawā. Hiki iā lākou ke nānā no nā hola e hoʻāʻo ana e haku i kā lākou makana. Hiki i kēia makana ke alakaʻi iā lākou e lilo i poʻe loea i kā lākou ʻano o ke aʻo. Akā hiki ke alakaʻi i ka manaʻo o nā kāne a me ka palekana ʻole ma waena o ka male. Noho ka noho me ka wahine Aspergers i ka nui o ka hoʻohiki ma ka ʻaoʻao o kā lākou hoa.
Hiki paha iā lākou ke leʻaleʻa e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kā lākou mau pono me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i nā nuances o ka kamaʻilio pānaʻi ʻana; nā hōʻailona kaiāulu, nā helehelena maka, ka ʻōlelo kino. ʻOi aku ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā mākau noʻonoʻo paʻa i ka maopopo ʻole o ka naʻau: ka ʻōlelo o ka pili. Pono pū ka pilina pilikino ʻo Asperger a pilikia hoʻi no ka hoa ʻē aʻe. Ma waena o nā pilikia male a Asperger, ʻo kēia ka mea paʻakikī loa.
ʻO ka nele o ka pilina a me nā pane kūpono ʻole i ʻike ʻia i ka male ʻana e like me ka hemo ʻana o nā hakahaka e pono ana e hoʻopiha. ʻO ka huhū i hiki ʻole i ka wahine ke hāpai i ko lākou mau pono naʻau, malia paha ka huhū o ka lawe ʻana i kahi kuleana mālama, hiki ke alakaʻi i nā makaʻu mua a hoʻonāukiuki i ka hakakā a me ka huhū o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua e ʻaihue nei i ko lākou hauʻoli. Ke noho nei me ka wahine Aspergers me ka ʻole o kahi e hōʻike ai i ka dinamika ola a hoʻohui me nā kāne ʻē aʻe me nā ʻike like, hiki ke ʻano like me ka ʻike o ke aloha thwarted.
ʻO ka mākaukau e kaʻana like i kou mōʻaukala a pilikino i ka mōʻaukala o ka male ʻana i kekahi me Asperger ka mea nui e hiki ai ke hōʻemi i ka haunaele o ke kaʻawale.. Inā ʻaʻole i kaʻanalike ʻia ka hōʻike ʻana o kou mau manaʻo he naʻauao ia e hana pēlā i kahi ʻano kākoʻo ʻoluʻolu kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka pānaʻi a me ka pili o kou mau naʻau.
ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi a ʻo ka ikaika o ka noho ʻana me Aspergers hoa wahine he ʻoiaʻiʻo. Hiki ke ʻano o ke kākoʻo he hui o nā kāne ʻē aʻe, kākāʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pākahi a i ʻole nā ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne. ʻO ka palekana ka maʻa mau o ka loiloi i ka mālama ʻana. Inā ua piʻi aʻe nā mea a hiki i kahi i ʻimi ʻia ai ke kōkua loea, e hana ana i kāu haʻawina home e loaʻa ai ka mea lapaʻau kūpono he mea nui. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo lawa e pili ana i kēia kuhi. Loaʻa i kahi mea lapaʻau i loea i ka hāʻawi ʻana i ke kākoʻo i nā kāne a kahi wahine i loaʻa ai kahi maʻi Asperger, a ʻo ia hoʻi kahi kumu e hana ai i ka ʻokoʻa o ke kūkulu ʻia ʻana o nā ikaika e kū nei a hana ʻia nā pilikia i loko o kahi ala kūkulu a paʻa. Noho paʻakikī me ka wahine Aspergers paʻakikī a kōkua iki mai kahi mea hoʻoponopono hiki ke hoʻololi i kāu pilina.
ʻ advicelelo aʻoaʻo pili Aspergers
Inā ʻaʻole i hiki mai ka pili i kahi i manaʻo ai ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki ke noho me ka wahine Aspergers a laila hiki ke kōkua. Ke hoʻolohe nei i kahi e lohe ai pehea ʻoe e ʻike hou ai i kekahi i kekahi a maopopo i ko kēlā me kēia hoa i loko o ka honua pū kekahi me ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā manaʻo paʻa paʻa, e ʻimi nei i nā ala e hoʻokumu ai i nā hana maʻamau, nā kuleana pākahi o ka nohona maʻamau o kēlā me kēia lā, nā hana e mālama ai i nā pilina naʻau, hoʻoholo ponoʻī, mālama ʻana i ka hakakā. . ʻO nā pilina e hōʻoia i ka ʻike i ʻike ʻia e ʻae nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua e ʻimi i nā ala e kākoʻo ai kekahi i kekahi.