Anter
- Mai ʻōlelo ʻino e pili ana i kāu wahine i ka lehulehu
- Māhele mau i ka hana o ka hale
- E mōakāka loa
- Loaʻa ka moekolohe hou aku
ʻO ʻoe a me kāu wahine ma ka hui like? ʻAʻole wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka male wale ʻana. ʻLelo wau e pili ana i ka hoʻi ʻana o kāu wahine i nā mea ʻē aʻe. ʻLelo wau e pili ana i nā mea liʻiliʻi o ka male. Ke ʻōlelo nei wau e pili ana i ke kōkua ʻana i kāu kāne i ka wā i hāʻule ai ʻo ia. Manaʻo ʻoe ʻo ʻoe a ʻo kāu wahine kēlā ʻano hui? Lana koʻu manaʻo. No ka mea hana kēlā ʻano male. No ka mea ʻo kēlā ʻano male male e hana i kahi ʻano launa ʻole pilikino ʻole me kekahi. Inā ʻaʻole, eia kekahi mau ala e hoʻomaka ai e kūkulu i kahi kime nui i ka male.
Mai ʻōlelo ʻino e pili ana i kāu wahine i ka lehulehu
ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaka e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i ka nui o nā manawa a nā kāne, me kaʻu kāne hoʻi, i lawehala ai i kā lākou hoa kāne i mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻAno hewa ʻole ia i ka nānā mua ʻana, akā ke ʻōlelo maikaʻi ʻole ʻoe i kāu wahine i mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe (ʻoiai inā he leʻaleʻa wale ia) hiki iā ia ke hōʻeha i kona manaʻo iā ia iho. ʻAe wale kēia i ka male deteriorating i ka holo lōʻihi.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo nā kāne e ulu pono ana a me he mea lā he hauʻoli ʻole ka mea e kamaʻilio nui ana kekahi i kekahi i ka lehulehu. No laila, ke hāpai nei wau inā ʻoe a me kāu wahine e pono ai i kahi booster intimacy, e hoʻomaka i ke kamaʻilio ʻana iā lākou i kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe. E aloha kāu ipo a makemake ʻia i nā lā e hiki mai ana.
Māhele mau i ka hana o ka hale
Hiki i ka hana ʻana i ka hale ke lilo i wahi paʻakai o ke ola. Eia naʻe, he ʻāpana ia o ke ola! ʻOiai ʻo ʻoe wale nō a me kāu wahine i kēia manawa, aia nō ka hana hale e holoi ʻia a holoi ʻia ka holoi lole. He mea nui ia ʻoe a me kāu wahine e aʻo ai i mua e hoʻokaʻawale i nā hana ma lalo o ka waena a no laila ʻaʻole like kekahi kaumaha.
I ka manawa ʻo wau wale nō ka hana ʻana i ka hana hale, ka kuke ʻana, a pēlā aku. Akā i ka manawa a mākou i manaʻo ai he hui mākou ma nā mea āpau, me nā hana hale āpau, ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke ola no mākou ʻelua no ka mea ua mahalo nui mākou i kekahi i kekahi.
E mōakāka loa
Transparency i loko o kekahi pilina e lilo i makakoho akā, transparency ma ka mare ka pono. Kūkulu kaʻoiaʻiʻo i ka hilinaʻi a hilinaʻi i ka pilina. ʻO ka ʻoi aku o kou pono me kāu pākana, ʻo ka ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pili o kāu pili no ka mea e ʻike ʻoe kekahi i kekahi ma ka hohonu, a me ka pae pili loa.
Ma kēlā ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hana nā mea huna a wahaheʻe i nā paia a me ka mamao o ka male. ʻO ka wahaheʻe i kāu wahine e hōʻino wale i ka hilinaʻi e haki i ka pili aloha. ʻIke wau i kēia no ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. I loko o kaʻu male ponoʻī, aia kahi hūnā a me nā wahaheʻe i hana i kahi mamao loa a hoʻopau i ka hilinaʻi. Ua lōʻihi ka lōʻihi o ke kūkulu ʻana i ka hilinaʻi a ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ola pili ola olakino hou.
Loaʻa ka moekolohe hou aku
Moekolohe! E hoʻolohe, ʻike wau he nui nā mea hoʻonāukiuki i ke ola e lilo i ka moe kolohe me kāu kāne me he mea ʻole ʻole. Akā ʻaʻole. ʻO ka moekolohe ka mea mua e hemo ʻia ai ka puka no ka mea ke nānā ʻia ia ma ke ʻano he hana extracurricular ma kahi o kahi papa nui. Nui nā noiʻi ma laila e kuhikuhi nei i ka wahine he NEED, ʻaʻole wale kahi makemake, no nā kāne (a me nā wahine). He hemahema ia no ka mea hoʻokokoke aku ia i nā kāne i kā lākou wahine ma ke kino a me ka naʻau. ʻO ia ke kumu e ulu pono ai nā kāne i ka pilina me ka pilina pili kino.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ke kūlike ʻole, ʻaʻole hauʻoli ka pilina e pili ʻole i ka moekolohe ma mua o ka hauʻoli o nā kāne. ʻO kēia no ka wā e hōʻole mau ʻia ka moekolohe, manaʻo nā kāne ua hōʻole loa kā lākou wahine iā lākou, ʻaʻole wale i ka moekolohe. Kūpono pololei ka hōʻole ʻana i ko lākou iho manaʻo, ke olakino manaʻo, a me ko lākou manaʻo pilikino. Pono kēlā mau mea āpau i kahi wahi olakino e loaʻa ai kahi pilina olakino.
ʻAʻole pili kēia papa inoa no laila e ʻoluʻolu e ʻike i nā mea hou aʻe i hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine e hele i ka hui like. No ka mea aia ʻoe me kāu wahine ma ka hui like, hana ʻia nā mea hoʻokalakupua me kahi pae hohonu o ka pilina ma loko a ma waho hoʻi o ka lumi moe.