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- Ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kahi transactional a me nā male ʻē aʻe?
- ʻO nā pilina transactional he frenemy ma mua o kahi kuʻikahi.
- Transactional vs. pili
- He aha ke ʻano transactional?
- Ke ulu nei i ka pilina transactional i kahi pilina maoli
ʻO kahi pilina transactional kahi manawa hoihoi. ʻO ka mea mua i noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea e like me ka male male hoʻonohonoho a kūʻai aku paha i kāu kaikamahine e loaʻa ai nā ʻoluʻolu no ka ʻohana.
ʻO ka pilina transactional kahi e mālama ai nā kāne i ka male ma ke ʻano he ʻoihana. ʻAno e like me ka lawe ʻana mai o kekahi i ka bacon, a kuke ka hoa ʻē aʻe iā ia, hoʻonohonoho i ka pākaukau, holoi i nā pā, ʻoiai e nānā ana ka mea ʻai i ka pōpeku.
ʻO nā hana kuʻuna kuʻuna he laʻana maikaʻi loa o ka pili transactional.
E nānā pū kekahi:
Ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kahi transactional a me nā male ʻē aʻe?
He aha ka pilina transactional i ka mea mua, a no ke aha e hoʻāʻo nei ka guru aloha makahiki hou e hoʻowalewale i ka pilina miliona o nā kāne ma mua me ka haʻalele ʻole.
I loko o nā ʻoihana ʻoihana, pili ka pilina pili i nā pono. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ke manaʻo nei ka poʻe i loko o ka pilina he aha kaʻu e hele nei i waho o kēia.
No laila e hoʻohālikelike kākou i nā ʻano pilina transactional.
- Kālele ana i nā pono ponoʻī
- Nā hopena hopena
- ʻO ka hoʻoikaika maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi ʻole
- Nā Manaolana a me ka Hoʻokolokolo
- Kūʻē nā hoa i kekahi i kekahi
ʻO nā pilina transactional he frenemy ma mua o kahi kuʻikahi.
Hāʻawi nā kāne i ka pili transactional a lawe, akā mālama lākou i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea hou aʻe ma mua o ka mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai. ʻAʻole mālama ka male maoli i kēlā mau mea.
Transactional vs. pili
ʻO ka pilina maoli kahi anakahi. ʻAʻole kūʻē nā kāne i kekahi i kekahi; ua manaʻo ʻia lākou ma ke ʻano he mea hoʻokahi e ke Akua a me ka Mokuʻāina. ʻAʻole mālama nā kāne maoli i ka mea a lākou e hāʻawi ai i kā lākou mau hoa; i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hauʻoli nā kāne maoli i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kā lākou mau hoa.
Aia kekahi pilikia o ka poʻe e loli ke hele lākou i kahi pilina. ʻO ia ka mea e paʻakikī ai nā mea.
No laila, pehea ka hana a kekahi me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kā lākou hoa me ka ʻole o lākou e hoʻohana i ko lākou lokomaikaʻi?
ʻOi aku ka nui o nā pilina transactional ma mua o ka symbiotic a me ke kaulike. Aia kekahi mau ʻano o nā pilina e like me ke kauā ma mua o kahi hui.
ʻO nā pilina transactional ma ka liʻiliʻi ma ka ʻaoʻao o kahi ʻano "olakino" o ka pilina. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ia, ʻo ia ke kumu e loaʻa ai i kahi flak mai nā mea manaʻo aloha o kēia ao.
Akā pili ka hāʻawi a me ka pilina me ka moekolohe i ka wahine moekolohe ma mua o ka male. ʻO ia ka pilikia nui me nā pilina transactional.
ʻO ka male maoli e pili ana i ka hele pū ʻana i nā mea āpau ma ke ʻano he hoʻokahi mea. ʻAʻohe hāʻawi a lawe ʻana.
ʻO ʻoe a me kāu hoa like like; ʻo ka lawe ʻana mai kāu hoapili like ia me ka lawe ʻana i kekahi mea mai kāu ʻeke.
ʻAʻole ʻokoʻa ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu hoa ma mua o ka hoʻopukapuka ʻana iā ʻoe iho. ʻOi aku ia e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu lingerie wahine lingerie a i ʻole viagra.
He aha ke ʻano transactional?
Nui nā mumbo-jumbo ma nā ʻano pilina kanaka a me nā ʻano pilikino e pili ana i kēlā mau paʻa.
E mālama i nā mea maʻalahi, ʻo ka transactional pilikino kekahi mea hana ʻole (maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha) inā ʻaʻohe mea e loaʻa.
Kohu like ia i ka manaʻo maʻamau inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā manawaleʻa āpau a me nā hana hoʻomāinoino e holo a puni ka honua.
Hana ʻia nā mea he nui i kēia honua ma ke ake a mai ukali paha i ke kumumanaʻo maʻamau a me ka noʻonoʻo maʻamau - nā mea e like me ka infanticide, genocide, a me ka pia ʻona ʻole.
E hāʻawi wale ke kanaka me ka hana transactional inā hiki iā lākou ke lawe. Pili lākou i kēia i kā lākou pili a pau, me kā lākou hoa aloha.
ʻO ka pilina aloha aloha ke mālama kekahi i nā mea a lākou e hāʻawi ai a loaʻa mai i kā lākou wahine.
He hana ia, no ka mea ua aʻa ʻia i loko o ka subconscious a me ke ʻano o ke kanaka. ʻAʻole ia he maikaʻi ʻole, ʻo ia ke kumu e pakele ai i ka hoʻolaha o nā psychiatrist hou o ka makahiki hou.
No kahi kanaka me kahi ʻano transactional, ʻike lākou i nā pilina āpau, me nā mea aloha, ma ke ʻano he transactional relationship.
Ke ulu nei i ka pilina transactional i kahi pilina maoli
Inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina transactional, a makemake ʻoe e hoʻololi i kāu pilina i kahi pilina maoli. Eia kahi papa inoa o nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hoʻololi iā ia.
- Mai haʻi i nā hewa i hala
- Mai helu i kāu hāʻawi i ka ʻohana
- Mai noʻonoʻo i kāu wahine ma ke ʻano he hoʻokūkū
- Mai nānā i kāu pakanā ma ke ʻano he ukana
- Mai haʻalele i kahi lā me ka hāʻawi ʻole i kāu hoa
- Hana pū i nā mea
- Hana pū i nā mea āpau
- Hana mōhai no ka hauʻoli o kāu pakanā
- Hoʻomaopopo i ka kānalua o kāu hoa
- Hāʻawi i kou ola i kāu hoa
- Māhele ʻia nā kuleana āpau
- Māhele ʻia nā kuleana āpau
Inā ua hoʻolōʻihi ʻoe i ka manawa e heluhelu ai i ka ʻaelike male, ʻōlelo ʻia e kaʻana like ʻoe i kēlā mau mea.
Ma hope o kēlā mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e ʻōlelo maʻalahi ʻia ma mua o ka hana ʻana, akā hana ʻia nā ʻano mai nā ʻano maʻamau. Hoʻokumu ʻia nā ʻano maʻamau e ka hana hou ʻana a me ka hana.
ʻAʻole ia e hana i hoʻokahi pō, akā inā ʻoe a me kāu hoa e hoʻomaʻamaʻa maoli ia, a laila hiki ke lilo i ʻano maʻamau. Wahi a nā noiʻi, he 21 mau lā ka lōʻihi e hoʻolilo i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa noʻonoʻo i ʻano maʻamau.
ʻAʻole lōʻihi ka lōʻihi o kahi mahina no ke kākoʻo ʻana i kekahi i kekahi a me ka hōʻalo ʻana i nā mea e pono ai. He ʻoiaʻiʻo nō inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pili lōʻihi. ʻOi aku ka koʻikoʻi inā ʻoe e hoʻolālā e noho i kēlā pilina no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ka ʻāpana paʻakikī o ka ulu ʻana o nā pilina transactional i nā pilikino maoli ka makemake o nā hoa ʻelua e loli. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī ma muli o ka pilina o ka transactional symbiotic, a noʻonoʻo paha ka poʻe ʻaʻole pono e hoʻoponopono i kahi mea i haki ʻole.
Ke holo pono ʻole nā mea āpau, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i nā ala hou e hoʻonui ai i ke aloha i kāu pilina.