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- 1. Nā kuleana i hāʻawi ʻia i nā mea male
- 2. ʻAʻole nā kānaka kāne kāne i ka papa ʻelua
- 3. Legitimacy i ka honua o ka makua
- 4. MAʻOLE nā mea āpau
He kumuhana wela ia i nā hoʻolālā politika no nā makahiki he umi. He kumuhana polarizing ia, e waiho ana i ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i nā mea āpau a i ʻole kūʻē kūʻē iā ia. He pilikia ia no nā pono kīvila. He pilikia ia no nā kuleana kanaka. Akā ʻaʻole pono ia he hoʻopuka i nā mea āpau.
A eia mākou, i ka 2017, ke kamaʻilio mau nei e pili ana i ka male kāne male.
I ka 2015, ua hoʻoholo ka ʻaha o ke kānāwai ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa i ka mōʻaukala e pale i nā kuleana āpau he 50 i nā kuleana o ka male kāne male. No laila, ʻaʻohe mea inā ʻoe e aloha, inaina, a i ʻole e nānā ʻole i ka male kāne male, eia ia e noho ai.
Ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa hou ma waena o kēlā me kēia ʻaoʻao o ka laulaha, e kamaʻilio wale mākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ke kūlana: hōʻole ʻia nā kāne a me nā wahine i ke kuleana e aloha ai, hakakā, hoʻomanawanui, a aloha hou, i ka hauʻoli male no ka mea nui. manawa lōʻihi.
I kēia manawa ua hāʻawi ʻia iā lākou nā kuleana like me nā kāne a heterosexual ʻē aʻe, e nānā i kekahi o nā pono a lākou e ʻoliʻoli ai ma ke ʻano he kāne male a wahine wahine hoʻi.
1. Nā kuleana i hāʻawi ʻia i nā mea male
Aia he 1,138 mau pōmaikaʻi i hāʻawi ʻia i ka poʻe male, mahalo ʻia e ke aupuni. Heluhelu hou i kēlā - 1,138! ʻO nā mea e like me ke kipa ʻana i ka haukapila, mālama olakino ʻohana, a me ka faila ʻauhau hui ʻana i loaʻa inā loaʻa inā male ʻoe i kekahi mea ʻokoʻa nā hua hānau ma mua o kāu. ʻAʻole nui hou!
Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo ʻole i ka hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kāu mea ʻē aʻe koʻikoʻi ma ka haukapila ma hope o ko lākou loaʻa ʻana i kahi ulia kaʻa nui a i ʻole kahi ʻoki nui. ʻIke ʻoe i ka ʻeli, ʻo ia ohana ma ka hopena o ka lā wale nō! ʻO ia ka mea no ka manawa lōʻihi loa, ua waiho ʻia nā kāne kāne a me nā wahine i ka lumi kali a ʻo ka mea a lākou i aloha nui ai i hoʻihoʻi hou ʻia mai ka hale. Nānā pinepine ʻole ʻia nā kuleana e like me kēia i ke kūkākūkā ʻana o ka male kāne like, akā me ka ʻōlelo hoʻoholo ma 2015 e ʻae ana i nā kāne male e male, i kēia manawa hiki i kēlā mau kānaka ke ʻoliʻoli pū i kēia mau pono pū kekahi.
2. ʻAʻole nā kānaka kāne kāne i ka papa ʻelua
Ma mua o ka 2015, he kumu noʻonoʻo maoli kēia a i ʻole kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana i hiki ke hana ʻia.
“Aloha ʻoe, ke nānā nei ʻoe e male?
"ʻAe, ʻo mākou nō!"
“Uku ʻoe i kāu ʻauhau? He kamaʻāina ʻoe no U.S. Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe i kēlā mau mea āpau e pili ana i ka "hana like ʻia o nā kāne āpau?"
"ʻAe, ʻae, a ʻae nō hoʻi!"
"He kāne heterosexual ʻoe?"
“ʻAe, ʻaʻole. He kāne kāne mākou. ”
“E kala mai, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kōkua iā ʻoe. Me he mea lā he poʻe maikaʻi ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke male. ”
Hoʻopili ia ma o nā puke ʻAmelika a moʻomeheu ia e hana like ʻia nā kāne āpau. ʻO ka hopena o ka hoʻohiki o ke kūpaʻa ʻo "... hoʻokahi lāhui, ma lalo o ke Akua, hiki ʻole ke wehewehe ʻia, me ke kūʻokoʻa a me ka hoʻopono no nā mea āpau.”Manaʻo wau ko mākou mau makua hoʻokumu, a me nā alakaʻi he nui i ukali, kamaʻilio i ke kamaʻilio, akā ʻaʻole i hana nui i ka hele wāwae. ʻApelika-ʻAmelika, nā wahine, a me nā kāne a me nā wahine wahine i ʻeha i kēia hoʻokamani no nā hanauna he nui. Akā me ka neʻe ʻana o nā pono kīvila, ka neʻe ʻana o nā kuleana wahine, a i kēia manawa ke kānāwai nui i 2015 i hiki ai i kekahi kāne male kāne e male ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, ua haki pinepine nā mea pale i waena o nā pae o ke kamaʻāina.
3. Legitimacy i ka honua o ka makua
Ke hānai maikaʻi nei nā kāne like ʻole i nā keiki i nā makahiki he nui, akā me he mea lā he kapu no nā hui kūʻē. ʻAʻole kēia wale no nā kāne a me ka wahine like, akā he nui ka poʻe (ʻelemakule, ka poʻe kuʻuna) e hoʻokolokolo i ka poʻe e hānai keiki mai ka male male. ʻO ka male ʻana a me ka hānau ʻana o nā pēpē hoʻopaʻa paʻa mau ʻia, no laila ke hāpai aʻe kahi kāne i nā keiki ma waho o nā palena o ka maʻamau, maʻa mau ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana. Me nā kāne male i ʻae ʻia e male, hiki iā lākou ke hānai i kā lākou keiki i ka wā e male e like me ka makemake o nā poʻe kuʻuna.
ʻOi aku ka nui ma mua o ka manaʻo o nā malihini piha, ʻo kahi male kāne hānai e hānai keiki ana i ka wā e male ana hiki ke kōkua pū i ke keiki. Ma mua o ka ʻōlelo hoʻoholo i ʻae ai i ka male kāne male ma nā mokuʻāina āpau, ua nānā paha nā keiki i ko lākou mau mākua a ʻano ʻokoʻa lākou no ka mea ʻaʻole male nā mākua i ka wā o ka makua o kā lākou mau hoa aloha. Hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo e hana ia no kahi kūkā a huikau paha o ke kamaʻilio no ka makua a me ke keiki ke hōʻoʻo lākou e wehewehe. ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia e male. I kēia mau lā, ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai kēlā kamaʻilio e like me ka hiki i nā kāne male kāne like ke hānai i kā lāua mau keiki ʻoiai e male hauʻoli ana.
4. MAʻOLE nā mea āpau
Ma hope o ka male ʻana, hoʻohenehene maila ke komikina ʻo John Mulaney e pili ana i ke kaumaha o ka hoʻololi ʻana i kāna poʻo inoa ʻē aʻe mai ka ipo wahine, i ka fianceé, i ka wahine. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia i ke ʻano o ka manaʻo o ke kāhea ʻana iā ia wahine ma kahi o kāna ipo wahine wale nō. Aia kekahi mana ma hope ona; me he mea lā ua lawe hou i ke ʻano iā ia.
ʻOiai nā manaʻo a Mulaney e pili ana i kāna hoʻololi ponoʻī i ka male, ʻo kēlā hoʻololi kekahi i pani ʻia nā kāne like ʻole mai nā makahiki he nui. Aia a hiki i ka wā e ʻae ʻia ai ka male male, ʻo nā poʻo inoa a lāua i paʻa ai he kāne kāne, ipo wahine, a ipo paha. ʻAʻole lākou i loaʻa ka manawa kūpono e kāhea aku ai i kekahi i kā lākou kāne a wahine paha.
Ma laila is mea kūikawā a ʻano ʻē e pili ana i ka hoʻololi i kēlā mau poʻo inoa. ʻAʻole wau i makemake e like me ka nui o ka makua ma mua o koʻu hoʻomaka ʻana e kāhea i kaʻu wahine ʻo "kaʻu wahine". Me he mea lā ua hele wau ma luna o kahi paepae. Me he mea lā he pilikia liʻiliʻi paha ia, akā ʻo ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka kāne a me ka wahine i ka manawa kūpono e alualu ai i kēlā paepae ka pōmaikaʻi nui loa i loaʻa iā lāua mai ka mana o ka ʻaha hoʻokolokolo.
ʻAʻohe mea e makemake e kapa ʻia ʻo "hoa". Hoʻohālike ia iā ʻoe e like me ka ʻāpana o kahi loio. ʻO ke kāne a me ka wahine he poʻo inoa kapu, ʻo ia nō ke kumu i paʻa nui ai nā luna kānāwai iā lākou no nā makahiki. ʻAʻole lākou i makemake e hoʻokuʻu i nā kāne male i ke ʻano kūikawā o ke kāne a wahine paha. I kēia manawa hiki i kekahi mau kāne ke loaʻa i kēlā ʻike. Lilo i ke kāne a me ka wahine, ke kāne a me ke kāne, a i ʻole ka wahine a me ka wahine nā mea nani āpau. Ma laila is he kaumaha i kēlā mau huaʻōlelo. I kēia manawa e loaʻa i nā kāne a me ka wahine like ke keu pono o ka haʻi ʻana iā lākou i kā lākou lā male.