Anter
- 1. Pehea e hoʻohauʻoli ai i kāu wahine?
- 2. E ʻoluʻolu mai hoʻololi i kāu kāne!
- 3. E loli kāu wahine
- 4. Pau ka heluhelu ʻana i kēlā mau puke moʻolelo aloha
- 5. E hoʻomau i kou mau maka i lalo
- 6. Pehea e haʻi ai i ka manawa
Aia kekahi kāne i nā makahiki i hala aku nei i noi i kahi kaikamahine e male iā ia. Ua ʻōlelo ke kaikamahine ʻaʻole, a ua lōʻihi ke ola a ke kāne. Hiki iā ia ke hiamoe ke makemake ʻo ia, ʻaʻohe mea nāna e mālama ka lua o ka lua ʻaʻole ia i flush, ua pāʻani ʻo ia iā FIFA i ka lā holoʻokoʻa, inu pia a he ola kupaianaha kona. Mai hele a koʻikoʻi; pahenehene wale nō kāua!
ʻO ka ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka maikaʻi loa no ka male hauʻoli e mālama i kāu hapalua ʻē aʻe ma ke ʻano he kamaliʻi. Kuhi paha kēia a hewahewa loa akā hilinaʻi iaʻu e holo pono ana ia. Ke huhū a paʻakikī paha kāu hoa, e hoʻopili iā ia pehea ʻoe e lima ai i ʻelima mau makahiki. He paʻakikī ke ʻike i kāu hoa ke hoʻopiʻi inā aia he mau tone o nā hana i hana ʻole ʻia e kali ana iā ia e hana. No laila, ʻo ke ala ʻoi loa e noʻonoʻo ai iā lākou ma ke ʻano kamaliʻi! Hilinaʻi iā mākou ke haʻi mākou i kēia ʻōlelo leʻaleʻa no ka male hauʻoli.
He paʻakikī ka male ʻana akā he nani maoli nō o ke ola. ʻAʻole ia e pili ana i ka kaohi ʻana a me ka kaohi ʻana i kekahi i kekahi akā akā e pili ana i ka waiho ʻana i kekahi i kekahi e hana i nā mea e pupule ai ʻoe. He mea nui e hoʻokuʻu i nā mea. He mea nui e ho'ōki i ka hana ʻana i nā kuahiwi mai nā molehills. A he mea nui e hakahaka i nā manawa no nā hewa, ke kala ʻana a me nā ʻakaʻaka he nui. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoponopono i kekahi i kekahi, no laila ʻo ka mea maikaʻi e hana ai e waiho lākou i ka ʻole a hoʻomau i ke aloha.
Loaʻa iā mākou kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hehenehene loa no ka male hauʻoli, e ʻike iā lākou!
1. Pehea e hoʻohauʻoli ai i kāu wahine?
ʻĀ, ʻo kēia paha ka ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka maikaʻi loa no ka male hauʻoli: ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe. ʻO ka mea ma mua e ʻae i kēia, ʻo ka ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. E hoʻokō ʻia ke kuikahi male piha ke ʻike ka kāne e noho mau ana ʻo ia i ka nalo ʻana o kahi paio. Pololei mau kāu wahine. He mea ʻole.
2. E ʻoluʻolu mai hoʻololi i kāu kāne!
ʻO kēia ka mea mua loa a kahi kaikamahine hou i hoʻomaka e hana. E ʻoluʻolu e hoʻokū. Ua male ʻoe iā ia no ka mea ʻo ia no laila no ke aha ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻāʻo a noho pū me ia. E manaʻo ʻia paha kēia ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka no ka male hauʻoli akā he mea nui loa ia. Ke hoʻāʻo ʻoe e hoʻololi i ke kāne ua male ʻoe iā ia e hoʻomaka ʻo ia e mahuka aku iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kēlā.
3. E loli kāu wahine
E kala mai e haki iā ʻoe akā eia kekahi ʻōlelo leʻaleʻa ʻē aʻe no ka male hauʻoli no ʻolua. ʻAe, he ʻoiaʻiʻo e loli kāu wahine. ʻAʻole ia e noho i ke kaikamahine palaka, ʻāhiu āu i aloha ai. E makua ʻo ia a e hoʻomaka i nā hoʻoholo kūpono. Nāna, aia mau ka manawa kūpono no nā mea āpau, a ʻaʻole paha ʻoe makemake i kēia i nā manawa. Noho pū me ia no ka mea ʻaʻohe mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e pili ana.
4. Pau ka heluhelu ʻana i kēlā mau puke moʻolelo aloha
ʻAʻole loa ʻo ia ʻo Noa mai ka puke noke a me Heathcliff mai Wuthering Heights, no laila ʻaʻohe wahi o ka moeʻuhane a me ka makemake e pili ana. ʻO kēia ka ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka maikaʻi loa no ka male hauʻoli. Ke noho nei ʻolua i ka honua maoli i loaʻa i kekahi mau pilikia maoli. ʻAʻole e loli a hoʻoponopono ʻia paha kahi puke moʻolelo aloha.
5. E hoʻomau i kou mau maka i lalo
Pau ka manawa e nānā ai i nā wahine ʻē aʻe inā ʻaʻole maikaʻi kāu wahine me ia. Hiki iā mākou ke hōʻoia iā ʻoe ʻaʻole maikaʻi iā ia. ʻAʻole maikaʻi kekahi o nā wahine ma laila ke nānā kā lākou kāne i nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe. No laila e mālama iā ʻoe iho i kahi pilikia nui a mālama i kēlā mau maka i lalo.
6. Pehea e haʻi ai i ka manawa
ʻĀ, ʻo kekahi ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka no ka male hauʻoli e ʻike pehea e haʻi ai i ka manawa. Inā nīnau kāu wahine iā ʻoe ke haʻalele ʻoe e haʻi mau iā ia ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi hola ma mua o ka manawa maoli. Hilinaʻi iā mākou ke haʻi mākou i kēia. Hoʻokomo i kēia, a hoʻomaha ʻoe. ʻAʻole mākaukau ke kaikamahine i ka manawa kūpono, no laila pono ʻoe e hāʻawi iā ia i kanaono mau minuke keu e kiʻi pono i kēlā liner a me kēlā mau curl maikaʻi. A ke haʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe, e hoʻi ʻo ia i ka home ma ka 11 pm i kahi pō keikikāne e hana aunoa i kēlā 1 am. Ke hele ʻoe i waho me nā keikikāne kūlohelohe i ka nalo ʻana o ka manawa.
Hoʻopili ʻana
ʻO kēia kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka wahine hoʻomākeʻaka maikaʻi loa no ka male hauʻoli. E hoʻāʻo e hoʻokō iā lākou i kāu, a e kōkua lākou iā ʻoe. Kūleʻa kēlā me kēia pālua a me kēlā me kēia male ma kāna iho, a me kahi kōkua iki, hiki ke hele maʻalahi i kahi ala lōʻihi.