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- No ke aha e hoʻopau hopena ai nā pilina?
- "Hoʻokahi" e hoʻopuka i nā ʻano hūnā iā ʻoe
- ʻO ke kanikau no ka nalo ʻana o ka "hoʻokahi" ʻaʻole ia e mau
ʻIke ʻoe i kēlā manaʻo ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ke hui ʻoe me kekahi a loaʻa kēlā huna ahi koke? ʻO kēlā mau butterflies āu e ʻike ai i kou ʻōpū ke hele lākou i loko o ka lumi? Maopopo iā ʻoe kaʻu mea e kamaʻilio nei. Ke pā aku ʻolua iā ia mai ka hoʻomaka, ke kamaʻilio ʻana no nā hola e pili ana i nā mea āpau, e loaʻa ana i hoʻokahi hola o ka hiamoe no ka mea he ʻano hauʻoli kou i kou hui ʻana me "ka mea hoʻokahi." Kupaianaha kēlā manaʻo aloha! No laila hoʻomaka ʻoe e ʻike pū i ka wā e hiki mai ana a ʻike maopopo ʻoe aia ka mea ʻē aʻe ma ka ʻaoʻao like me ʻoe.
Ma waho o kahi, pau. ʻAʻole wale ʻoe e kaumaha loa i ka puʻuwai, akā kahaha e ka pūʻiwa no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike e hiki mai ana. Maikaʻi loa nā mea āpau, ma ka ʻaoʻao like ʻolua ... ma ka liʻiliʻi ua noʻonoʻo ʻoe. He aha ka pilikia? ʻIke wau ʻaʻole hōʻoluʻolu kēia inā ʻeha ʻoe i ka haʻihaʻi, akā e hoʻolohe iaʻu. Makemake wau e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i ke kumu o ka mea āu i manaʻo ai e lilo i kou hoa aloha mau loa, a ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa āu i loaʻa ʻole ai.
I kaʻu hana, ua hana wau me kekahi mau mea kūʻai aku i hui me nā poʻe me nā ʻano āpau ma kā lākou "papa inoa," a hauʻoli hauʻoli lākou ke noho pū lākou me kēlā kanaka kūikawā. Minamina, hoʻopau ka pilina i kahi ʻano abrupt loa ma muli o nā kūlana kaohi a hoʻololi ʻole paha. Eia nō naʻe nā kūlana no nā kumu maikaʻi loa, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole makemake ia e like me ia.
No ke aha e hoʻopau hopena ai nā pilina?
ʻO nā pilina āpau (aloha, aloha, ʻoihana, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe) keʻa i ko mākou ala e hōʻike iā mākou i kā mākou mau hoʻokolokolo a me nā pilikia i hoʻoholo ʻole ʻia. hele lākou i ko mākou ala e hoʻomālamalama i nā ʻano kupaianaha o mākou iho a mākou e ʻole nei e ʻae nei, ka ʻona ʻana a me ka ʻike ʻana. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana. Ehia mau manawa i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kekahi mau ʻano e pili ana i ka “hoʻokahi” nāna ia i hoʻonanea loa iā ia? Ua ʻōlelo paha ʻoe, "ʻO ia a i ʻole ʻOia i lawe mai i nā mea maikaʻi iaʻu!" E koho 'oe? Ua lawe mai lākou i nā mea ʻoi loa i loko ou! Eia nō naʻe, ʻo kāu hana ka mālama i ka maikaʻi o kāu hele ʻana. Ua hoʻokō lākou i kā lākou hana ʻuhane me ʻoe ma ka ʻumeʻume ʻana iā ʻoe i kā lākou mau ʻano e hōʻike iā ʻoe i nā ʻano kupaianaha āu e ʻike ʻole nei iā ʻoe iho. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole ia kā lākou kuleana e noho ai.
"Hoʻokahi" e hoʻopuka i nā ʻano hūnā iā ʻoe
ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻike a mahalo ʻole i nā ʻano i kekahi kanaka a mākou e ʻike ʻole ai a mahalo ai iā mākou iho. "ʻO ka mea" ʻaʻole i hoʻopuka wale i kēia mau ʻano āu, akā ua hoʻomaka lākou i nā ʻano i hūnā ʻia i loko ou. ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe ke hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe a i ʻole kekahi mea inā ʻaʻole ʻoe. ʻAʻohe mea "hoʻokahi," no ka mea ʻo nā mea āpau āu e hālāwai ai ʻo ia nō kēlā. ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka āu e launa pū (ʻaʻole hou wale i ke aloha) he hoa ʻuhane, no ka mea ke aʻo nei lākou iā ʻoe i nā haʻawina ʻuhane a me nā papa hana ola.
ʻO ke kanikau no ka nalo ʻana o ka "hoʻokahi" ʻaʻole ia e mau
E manaʻoʻiʻo iaʻu, maopopo iaʻu ua haʻihaʻi wau no ka lilo ʻana o kahi āu i manaʻo ai ʻo ia ka "hoʻokahi." ʻAʻole paha makemake e like me kēia manawa, akā ʻo kēia manaʻo he manaʻolana pōkole wale nō ia. ʻO ka hōʻino wā lōʻihi wale nō ke ʻaʻole e ʻapo maoli i kēlā mau ʻano kupaianaha āu i ʻike ai a i ʻole a i ʻike ʻia me "hoʻokahi." E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole ʻoe i hōʻole ʻia, hoʻokaʻawale wale ʻia lākou no kekahi kumu. ʻO ke kumu o kekahi pilina no mākou e aʻo a
e ulu i ke aloha; no kekahi mea ʻē aʻe a no mākou iho. ʻAʻole ke kumu o ka pilina e hoʻohauʻoli ai iā mākou ma muli o ka pilina, a i ʻole e hoʻokō i nā mea ʻole i ko mākou ola. Pono ʻoe e hana ma waena o ka ʻeha i hiki ai i ke kumu o kou pilina, a pehea e lawelawe ai iā ʻoe.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole paha ma laila ke kino o "kahi", nā ʻano āu āu i aloha ai e pili mau ana iā lākou. No ke aha mai? Ma muli o ka mea āu i aloha ai e pili ana iā lākou, ʻo ia nā ʻano kupaianaha kikoʻī i loaʻa i loko ou. Ke hoʻopuka ʻoe i ka mea ʻoi loa i loko ou, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana like me "ka mea" nāna e hoʻopuka i nā mea ʻoi loa i loko o lākou iho pū kekahi. ʻAʻole pono e ʻimi iā ia i nā maka o kekahi kanaka, nā lima, a i ʻole ka moena. E kāpae i ka noʻonoʻo inā ʻo ka mea aʻe āu e launa pū ai, ʻo ia ka “hoʻokahi;” no ka mea ke nānā aku nei ʻo One i kou mau maka a ke kali nei iā ʻoe e ʻike iā ia i nā manawa āpau. ʻO ke kanaka e nānā ana i hope i ke aniani nāna e hoʻopuka i ka mea maikaʻi loa iā ʻoe.