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- ʻAʻole hoʻopau kahi male male palena
- Nā kumu hoʻomana
- Mau keu pono
- Hiki ke hoʻolaulea
- Nā pōmaikaʻi ʻauhau
- ʻO kahi maikaʻi ʻole o ka hemo male palena ʻana
- Nā koi faila
Hana ʻia kahi male male palena ke nānā ʻia e ka ʻaha ka male male a male ʻole paha o ka male. I nā mokuʻāina kahi i ʻike ʻole ʻia ka hoʻokaʻawale kānāwai ʻana, hiki i nā kāne male ke faila i kahi palapala i ka ʻaha a hāʻawi ʻia i ka male male palena.
ʻAʻole hoʻopau kahi male male palena
E like me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ke kānāwai, ʻaʻole e hoʻopau ka male male male ʻana i ka male male ʻana akā hiki i nā kāne ke noho kaʻawale a noho male ʻole kekahi i kekahi. I ka wā o ka hemo male palena ʻana, hiki i ka ʻaha ke hoʻokaʻawale i ka waiwai o ka wahine a waiho i nā lula no ka mālama keiki ʻana, ke kākoʻo keiki a me ke kākoʻo o ka wahine e pono ai i kēia wā.
ʻO kēia ʻano kaʻawale ka mea i ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano he kaʻawale kānāwai, he male hapa, hemo male kūpono a hemo male mai kahi moe a me ka papa. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻo kēia hemo he ʻano hoʻokaʻawale male ia e ʻike ai ka ʻaha; Eia naʻe, noho paʻa kou male ʻana.
Koho nā kāne male no ka hemo male palena ʻia ma muli o nā kumu like ʻole, eia kēia mau kumu i:
Nā kumu hoʻomana
Koho ka hapanui o ka poʻe no ka male male ma muli o nā kumu haipule. Pāpā kekahi mau hoʻomana ʻaʻole e hele i ka male no ka haʻalele male no kahi kūlana. Eia nō naʻe, i kekahi manawa ke pili ʻole kēia mau ʻano, a ʻaʻole holo ka male, hiki i nā kāne ke koho i kēia ʻano male male.
Hāʻawi iā lākou e noho kaʻawale i kekahi me kekahi a mālama pū i kā lākou kānāwai haipule.
Mau keu pono
ʻO kahi kumu maʻamau no ke koho ʻana i kahi hemo palena ʻole ka mālama ʻana i nā keu pono olakino.
Ma muli o kēia hemo ʻana e ʻae iā ʻoe e noho male ma ka pepa, hāʻawi ʻia iā ʻoe i ka uhi olakino piha ma lalo o ka ʻinikua olakino a kāu wahine i hāʻawi ʻia iā lākou e kā lākou wahi hana.
Eia pū me ke kumukūʻai nui i loaʻa i ka ʻinikua olakino, ʻike kekahi mau kāne i kēia ma ke ʻano he hopena i kahi pilikia nui loa.
Hiki ke hoʻolaulea
ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa e hele ka poʻe no ka hemo palena palena no ka mea manaʻoʻiʻo lākou hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoponopono i kā lākou mau pilikia a me nā ʻokoʻa. Hiki i kahi male male palena ke ʻae i nā hoa ʻelua e noho kaʻawale mai kekahi i kekahi a hoʻomaopopo iā lāua i ke koʻikoʻi o kā lāua mea nui ʻē aʻe.
Ma kēiaʻano mahalo lākou i nā hana a kā lākou hoa i hoʻokomo ai i ka pilina a hoʻoholo lākou e hoʻāʻo i kā lākou male. Ke hiki ke kuʻikahi, hele ka poʻe no ka male male palena palena ʻole a hana pū i kā lākou pilikia pilikia male.
Nā pōmaikaʻi ʻauhau
Ma muli o ka pau ʻole o ka male ma o kēia ʻano male male, hiki i nā hoa ʻelua ke faila no kā lākou hoʻihoʻi ʻauhau ma ke ʻano he mau kāne male a faila pū pū. Hāʻawi kēia i nā poʻe ʻelua i kahi pōmaikaʻi ʻauhau a lāua e mahalo ai ke noho pū ʻole.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi wahine ke noi a faila paha no ka hemo palena ʻole o ka ʻaha; i mea e loaʻa ai kēia ʻano hemo male, pono ʻae nā kāne ʻelua e ʻae a ʻae e hoʻopaʻa i kā lāua male male ʻole. Aia kahi laʻana o kēia ʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke haʻalele i kāna kāne e noho me kahi kāne ʻē aʻe a noi i ka hemo male palena.
ʻO kahi male male palena e ʻae iā ʻoe e noho male i kekahi akā noho kaʻawale.
I nā kūlana i pili ke kolu o ka mea, e haki ka male, a e ʻae wale ka ʻaha i kahi hemo loa a haki i nā paʻa kānāwai āpau o ka pili.
ʻO kahi maikaʻi ʻole o ka hemo male palena ʻana
ʻOiai ʻo kēia ʻano hemo he nui nā keu no nā kāne ʻelua, he nui nā mea maikaʻi ʻole pū kekahi. ʻO ka mea mua, e like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma luna, hāʻawi wale ʻia kēia male male ke ʻae nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua iā ia.
Inā hōʻole kekahi i ka ʻae ʻana i kēia male male, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke koi ʻia i loko. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki i kekahi kanaka ke koho i ka haʻalele loa i nā makemake o ka wahine a e hele i ka ʻaha hoʻokolokolo hou e loaʻa ia.
ʻO ka lua, hoʻopau ka male male palena palena i ke kuleana no ka hoa ola e noʻonoʻo ʻia ma ke ʻano heir o ka wahine i make a hiki i ka wā a i ʻole hāʻawi ʻia ia i kā lākou makemake. ʻAʻole hoʻokaʻawale ka hoʻokaʻawale palena ʻole i ka waiwai a me ka waiwai o nā ʻaoʻao.
ʻO ka hope loa, me ka hemo palena ʻole, ʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke mare i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe no ka mea ua male ʻia kekahi i kekahi. Manaʻo ka nui o nā mokuʻāina he moekolohe inā moe kolohe ka hoa me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe i kēia wā.
Nā koi faila
Loaʻa i nā mokuʻāina āpau nā koi manawa ʻokoʻa a me kahi noho e pono ai nā kāne e hui ma mua o ka faila no ka hemo loa. Loaʻa kahi laʻana o kēia e noho ai ʻoe i nā mokuʻāina no hoʻokahi makahiki ma mua o ka hiki iā ʻoe ke faila no kahi hemo.
Me ka hemo male palena, haʻalele nā ʻaha i kēia wā kali, a hiki iā ʻoe ke faila no ka hemo male palena ʻoiai ua neʻe ʻoe i kahi mokuʻāina i hoʻokahi pule ma mua.
He hoʻoholo nui ka hemo male, a pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ma mua o ka faila ʻana. Mai hoʻoholo wikiwiki a noʻonoʻo i kou ʻohana ma mua o ke koho ʻana no ka hemo ʻana no ka mea he hana paʻakikī ia na lākou.