Pehea e hana ai i ke aloha i kāu male

Anter

• 1. Pāʻani footsie
• 2. Hoʻokipa hou i kāu lā mua
• 3. E hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea liʻiliʻi
• 4. Honi e like me kou manaʻo It
• 5. Hoʻā i kekahi ihoiho
• 6. E hāʻawi i nā makana noʻonoʻo
• 7. Kaʻanahele i kahi huna
• 8. Pili
• 9. Kākau i kahi leka momona
• 10. Nā lepili nani
• 11. Romance i ka manawa ʻaina
• 12. E hāʻawi i kāu nānā pono ʻole
• 13. Loaʻa i kahi lā lā maʻamau

He aha ke kaikamahine i moeʻuhane ʻole e komo i loko o kona keʻena e ʻike i nā pua rose i hāwele ʻia i ke alaloa e alakaʻi ana i ka lumi moe? A ʻo wai ke kanaka i noʻonoʻo ʻole i ke kahaha o kāna kaikamahine iā ia me kāna mea inu punahele ma hope o ka lā lōʻihi?

ʻO ke aloha i nā pilina ka mea e huki like ai i ka poʻe. Hoʻomaopopo lākou iā lākou i aloha ʻia, hoʻomana a kūikawā hoʻi i kā lākou hoa. ʻO nā mea i kūpono e like me ke aloha he ʻokoʻa ia no nā mea āpau, akā ʻaʻohe mea e hōʻole ana i ka wā e pili ana i ke aloha aloha - makemake mākou i nā mea hou aʻe! ʻO nā mea hou aku, pīhoihoi hou, aloha hou aku.

E like me ka nui o kā mākou makemake i nā mea ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole like ka pilina o kēia ao me nā puke aloha. Akā ʻaʻole ia he kumu no ka pili aloha ʻole o kou pilina!

ʻO ia ke kumu a mākou e nānā nei i 13 mau ala hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i ke aloha i kāu male.

1. Pāʻani footsie

Hōʻike nā haʻawina i ke aloha kino, e like me ka hoʻopaʻa lima ʻana a i ʻole ke pāʻani ʻana i nā footsie, pili nui i ka hauʻoli o ka pilina. No laila i ka manawa aʻe e hiamoe ana ʻoe i kahi moena a e waiho pū ana paha i ka moena, no ke aha e pāʻani pū ʻole ai i kahi pāʻani momona a leʻaleʻa hoʻi o ka footsie?

2. Hoʻokipa hou i kāu lā mua

ʻO kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi e hana ai i ke aloha i kāu male ʻana ma o ka hana hou ʻana i kāu lā mua.

E hoʻomaka me ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kahi pākaukau ma ka hale ʻaina like āu i hele ai i ka wā āu i hele mua ai.

Mai laila mai, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohui i nā kikoʻī nani e like me kou makemake.

ʻO kahi laʻana, e koho i kāu wahine ma ka puka o mua (ʻoiai ʻoe e noho pū nei.) He ala leʻaleʻa a me ke aloha kēia e hoʻomanaʻo ai a kūkulu i kou pili naʻau.

3. E hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea liʻiliʻi

ʻO kahi ala maʻalahi loa e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hana i ke aloha i kāu male ʻana ma ka mālama ʻana i nā lā kūikawā i ka noʻonoʻo. ʻO ka lā nui o kāu male male ka mea nui, akā pehea nā milestones ʻē aʻe e like me kāu lā mua, ka manawa mua āu e honi ai, a i ʻole nā ​​"mua" ʻē aʻe āu e makemake ai e hoʻolauleʻa? ʻO ka lawe ʻana i kēia mau mea i kāu wahine e hōʻike iā lākou mālama ʻoe.

4. Honi e like me kou manaʻo It

ʻO kekahi o nā mea aloha nui loa hiki iā ʻoe ke honi i kāu hoa. Hōʻike ka noiʻi ʻaʻole kēia e hoʻonui i ka dopamine ma o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka ʻōnaehana uku o ka lolo, akā ʻoi aku ka makemake o nā wahine i ke kāne inā he honi maikaʻi ʻo ia.

5. Hoʻā i kekahi ihoiho

I kekahi manawa ʻo nā mea āpau a pau e hana ai i ke aloha i loko o ka pilina kahi ʻano ambiance iki. I ka manawa aʻe ke aloha nei ʻoe, no ke aha e hoʻopihapiha ʻole ai i kou lumi moe me nā ihoiho pou a i ʻole ke kukui ʻana i kahi ihoiho a kau i ka papa ma ka ʻaina awakea? Hoʻokumu kēia pā maʻalahi i kahi lewa maikaʻi no ke aloha.

6. E hāʻawi i nā makana noʻonoʻo

ʻAʻole pono ke aloha iā ʻoe i ka lima a me ka wāwae. ʻAʻohe kumu e lawe ai ʻoe i nā makana elaborate home i kēlā me kēia lā. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻomau no ka pilina lōʻihi. Akā ʻaʻole ia he kumu ʻaʻole liʻiliʻi a me nā ala noʻonoʻo e hōʻike ai i kāu wahine e noʻonoʻo ana iā lākou.

Kūʻai iā lākou i kā lākou pahu kokoleka punahele a i ʻole kekahi mea liʻiliʻi a ʻono hoʻi e like me ka ʻōmole o ka wai ʻauʻau a kuke iā lākou i kā lākou pāʻina punahele.

7. Kaʻanahele i kahi huna

ʻO loko o nā mea hoʻomākeʻaka kekahi ʻano mea hūnā e hoʻohanohano ai kāu hoa. Hōʻike nā haʻawina i nā hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi, e like me nā mea e pili ana i nā ʻakaʻaka pilikino, hoʻonāukiuki i nā manaʻo leʻaleʻa e hoʻonui ai i kou ʻano.

ʻO kēia mau mea huna hū aloha ʻia no ka mea he mea ia āu e kaʻana like ai me kāu wahine, no laila ke aloha ʻoe, e hoʻomanaʻo pū me kāu hoa e pili ana i kahi hoʻomākeʻaka a hoʻomanaʻo paha.

8. Pili

I ka manawa hea kāu i pili hope ai me kāu wahine? ʻO ke aloha ka ala maikaʻi e hoʻonui ai i ke aloha. ʻAʻole wale ia e hoʻohaʻahaʻa a makemake ʻia i kāu hoa, akā hana kupanaha ia no ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka kemika moekolohe.

9. Kākau i kahi leka momona

ʻAʻohe mea i aloha nui ʻia ma mua o kahi leka aloha. ʻO ka manawa aʻe āu e makemake ai e hana i kahi mea momona no kāu wahine, e kiʻi i kahi pepa a me ka peni a hoʻokuʻu i kou mau manaʻo i waho.

E kamaʻilio e pili pū ana i kāu mau mea hoʻomanaʻo punahele, pehea ʻoe e manaʻo ai, a i ʻole nā ​​kumu no ke aloha nui iā lākou. E mālama nui kāu wahine i ka leka no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana.

10. Nā lepili nani

ʻAʻohe ou manawa nui e hana i ke aloha i kāu male? E hoʻāʻo e hōʻailona i kāu hoa i kahi kiʻi. ʻO ka manawa aʻe e hele i ke kiʻi o nā kitties ʻelua e hūnā ana ma Instagram (Mai makaʻu: aia mau nā kiʻi pōpoki nani ma Instagram) e lepili i kāu wahine i loko me ka lepe "ʻO wau a me ʻoe. Meow;) ”

ʻO kēia aloha maʻalahi a momona hoʻi e minoʻaka ana no ke koena o ka lā.

11. Romance i ka manawa ʻaina

ʻO wai ka mea e ʻōlelo e ʻai mau i ka papaʻai i mua o ke kīwī? E hoʻolālā i kahi ʻaina awakea aloha no ʻelua a ʻai pū i ka papa ʻaina. He ala maikaʻi loa kēia e hoʻonui ai i ka kamaʻilio male ʻana a e hoʻonui ai i kāu palapala paʻa.

E hoʻonui hou i ke aloha ma ka waiho ʻana i kahi pua i loko o ka ipu a hoʻonoho iā ia ma ka papa, e kau ana i kahi jazz palupalu, a me nā ihoiho kukui i ka lumi ʻaina.

12. E hāʻawi i kāu nānā pono ʻole

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi ana i hana ʻia e ke Kulanui ʻo Baylor ma kahi o 50% o nā kāne me he mea lā ua nānā ʻia lākou e kā lākou hoa lawena kelepona paʻa lima. I nā lā o ke kūpona ʻana o ke kelepona paʻalima a me ka hōʻoluʻolu koke ʻana ma ka pūnaewele, ʻaʻohe mea e like me ke aloha e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu hoapili i kāu nānā pono ʻole no ke ahiahi.

13. Loaʻa i kahi lā lā maʻamau

He aha hou aku ke aloha ma mua o kahi lā? Hōʻike ka noiʻi e pili ana nā kāne me ka lā maʻamau i ka pō e hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou pilina pili, hoʻonui i ke kamaʻilio a me ka kemika moekolohe, a ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hemo ʻana ma mua o nā kāne ʻē aʻe.

ʻAʻole paʻakikī ke aʻo ʻana pehea e hana ai i ke aloha - ʻoluʻolu ia. Nui a maʻalahi a manuahi nā ala e hōʻike ai i kou aloha no kāu wahine e ʻike ai iā lākou he aloha a he kūikawā. E hāhai i kekahi o kā mākou 20 aloha i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a e hele ʻoe i kahi male hauʻoli a olakino.