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- 1. Honua huakaʻi
- 2. ʻIke i kahi moʻomeheu hou
- 3. Meaʻai haole
- 4. E loaʻa mau ana kekahi mea e kamaʻilio ai
- 5. ʻ Foreignlelo haole
- 1. ʻO ʻoe mai ʻike pinepine kekahi i kekahi
- 2. Nā hanana kūikawā nalowale
- 3. Nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole
- 4. Hiki ke pipiʻi
Me ka honua e lilo nei i kauhale honua, pili ka poʻe mai nā lāhui like ʻole a hoʻomohala i ka hoihoi a me nā manaʻo i kekahi i kekahi. Puka paha kēia mau manaʻo i ka pilina pili, kahi e lilo ai ka pilina me ke ʻano e aʻo ai e pili ana i ka kemika a lākou e kaʻana like ai.
ʻO ka lōʻihi lōʻihi ma waena o ka ʻāina ke hana ʻia ke noho ʻelua i kahi lāhui ʻokoʻa a i ʻole mokuʻāina. ʻO kēia ʻano pilina ka mea pono ponoʻī a ʻoiai, ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi ke hele mai me ka palena ʻole.
No laila, eia kekahi o nā pōmaikaʻi a me nā maikaʻi ʻole o ka pili mamao ma nā ʻāina ʻē a ʻo ka mea ʻē, e launa pū ana me kahi haole. E ʻike ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili honua ma ka ʻāpana ma lalo-
Nā pōmaikaʻi o ka launa pū ʻana me kahi haole
1. Honua huakaʻi
Hele mai ka launa pū me nā huakaʻi he nui i nā ʻāina ʻē. No ka mea ʻelua ʻolua mai nā ʻāina ʻē aʻe, ʻike ʻoe e huakaʻi pinepine ʻoe i nā ʻāina ʻē e hui pū kekahi me kekahi.
ʻN kēia mau huakaʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i ka mea nui loa ma o ke kipa ʻana i nā wahi a ʻolua e kamaʻilio nei ma o ka pūnaewele a kiʻi pū i kekahi mau mea hoʻomanaʻo no ko ʻoukou hoʻomanaʻo.
No laila, inā makemake ʻoe i ka huakaʻi a laila pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo a aloha me kahi haole a huakaʻi i nā wahi hou. ʻO ka launa pū me nā ʻāina ʻē e ʻae iā ʻoe e mākaʻikaʻi i nā wahi hou i kahi ʻāina hou!
2. ʻIke i kahi moʻomeheu hou
Ke hoʻoholo ʻoe i ka lā me kahi haole, loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manawa kūpono e ʻike ai i kahi moʻomeheu hou loa mai kahi āu i maama mau ai. E aʻo ʻoe i ke ʻano o ke ola a me ka hoʻokele waiwai. Hiki paha i kēia ke hoʻololi i ke ala e pili ai i ka poʻe a me nā kūlana a puni ʻoe.
Ke hui pū nei ʻoe me ka poʻe pili i ka moʻomeheu ʻokoʻa, loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻike a me ka hoʻomaopopo.
Hiki i ka launa pū ʻana me nā ʻāina ʻē ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomohala i nā mākau kaiapili kūikawā a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi manawa e aʻo ai e pili ana i nā moʻomeheu ma mua o kāu.
3. Meaʻai haole
Hiki mai ka launa pū ʻana me ka manawa kūpono no ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i nā meaʻai hou i loaʻa ʻole iā ʻoe kahi manawa e ʻono ai.
Kaawale mai ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka meaʻai, e ʻike ʻoe pehea e hoʻomākaukau ai nā pā inā ʻoe hoihoi.
Ke kipa aku nei lākou iā ʻoe e noi iā lākou e lawe iā ʻoe i kekahi o kā lākou mea ʻono i loaʻa ʻole ma kou ʻāina home. Inā makemake ʻoe i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i nā kuke ʻokoʻa i nā lā ma kahi ʻē e hiki i kēia lā ke kiʻi iā ʻoe i kēia pono kūloko.
4. E loaʻa mau ana kekahi mea e kamaʻilio ai
E leʻaleʻa ka pilina me kahi haole i ke ʻano e mau ana kekahi mea e kamaʻilio ai.
I kahi pilina mamao loa, ke pili ana ʻoe i kekahi e noho ana ma nā ʻāina ʻē e ʻike ʻoe i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi loa o nā ʻāina ʻelua. ʻAʻole ia e hoʻohālikelike akā e haʻi pū kekahi i kekahi i nā mea nani i kou mau ʻāina a me kēia e ʻike ʻolua e kamaʻilio ana no nā hola me ka pau ʻole o nā kumuhana e kamaʻilio ai.
5. ʻ Foreignlelo haole
ʻO ka launa ʻana me kahi haole ʻaʻole i kamaʻilio i ka ʻōlelo like me ʻoe e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi manawa e aʻo ai i kahi ʻōlelo hou.
E hele lōʻihi kēia ma muli o kou loaʻa hou i kahi mākau hou e hoʻohui i kāu vitae papa hana a hiki i ke akamai e hoʻokau iā ʻoe i kahi hana i kekahi lā. Ma waho o ke aʻo ʻana i kahi ʻōlelo hou e ʻakaʻaka pū ʻoe i ka leo o kāu hoa ke kamaʻilio lākou i kāu ʻōlelo. Hāʻawi ka launa ʻāina ma waho iā ʻoe i ka manawa e hoʻonui ai i kou mākau ʻōlelo.
Nā maikaʻi ʻole o ka launa ʻana me kahi haole
Ma hope o ka nānā ʻana i nā mea maikaʻi o ka launa pū ʻana me nā haole i kēia manawa e nānā iā mākou i ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ke dālā.
1. ʻO ʻoe mai ʻike pinepine kekahi i kekahi
Ma loko o kahi pilina lōʻihi hiki ke paʻakikī ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i kekahi i kekahi i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e makemake ai.
E ʻike wale ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi manawa kikoʻī a no kahi manawa kau palena ma mua o kou haʻi hou ʻana i ke aloha. Ua koi ʻia ʻoe e kāohi i kou makemake e noho me kāu hoa ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki ke noho pū me lākou i nā manawa āpau. Inā ʻoe i ka pilina ma nā ʻāina ʻē, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia he pilina ikaika maoli kāu me kāu hoa. Inā ʻole, nui nā manawa kūpono ma ka liʻiliʻi o kekahi o nā hoa e hana ana i ka infidelity.
2. Nā hanana kūikawā nalowale
Hiki i ka launa pū kūwaho kūwaho i kekahi manawa ke koi aku i nā kāne ʻelua e haʻalele i nā hanana kūikawā a kā lāua hoa e like me nā lā hānau a me ka hui ʻohana. E hoʻopaʻa ʻia paha kāu hoa ma ka hana i hiki ʻole iā lākou ke loaʻa ka manawa e huakaʻi ai e noho pū me ʻoe i kēlā manawa koʻikoʻi o kou ola.
No laila, i ka manawa aʻe e hoʻoholo ai e lā me kahi lāhui haole, e noʻonoʻo i ka hiki ʻole ke loaʻa he mau manawa ʻo ʻoe wale nō i nā manawa nui o kou ola ʻoiai ʻoe e makemake e noho me kāu hapa maikaʻi i kēia mau manawa.
ʻO ka launa pū me nā ʻāina ʻē e pili ana i kahi mehameha. ʻAʻohe ala i waho o kēlā.
3. Nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole
ʻO ka pili lōʻihi lōʻihi no ka manawa lōʻihi e hoʻonāukiuki paha i nā manaʻo ʻino ma ke kaua ʻana a i ʻole ke pane ʻole ʻana paha kekahi o ʻoukou i nā leka a kāhea paha.
E hiki mai kēia i ka wā e hoʻāʻo nei kekahi ou e hoʻopili e hoʻomaka i nā nīnau e like me, "No ke aha ʻo ia e pane ʻole ai?" a i ʻole "No ke aha ʻo ia ʻaʻole e leka uila hou?". Kuhi paha kēia mau manaʻo i kekahi o ʻoukou me ka wiwo ʻole a hoʻomaka paha e kiu i kā lākou hoa ʻike wale nō ʻaʻole hoʻopunipuni ka hoa a hiki paha i kēia ʻike ke lohi a ʻeha ka pilina. ʻO kahi con ikaika loa o ka launa pū me nā ʻāina ʻē ka palekana ʻole e pili ana.
4. Hiki ke pipiʻi
ʻOiai i ʻōlelo ʻia ma ke ʻano he keu, ke kumu kūʻai ka huakaʻi ʻana ma kahi mamao aku e hālāwai me kāu mea kūikawā.
ʻO kēia ke nui loa ka mamao ma waena o ʻolua, a ʻaʻohe ou mea e kālā ai kāu huakaʻi. Inā ʻoi aku ka nui o nā lilo no kāu ʻeke a laila pono ʻoe e haʻalele i ka pilina a neʻe i kou ola ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pili i ka pilina. Hiki wale nō ka launa pū me nā ʻāina ʻē ke kaumaha ʻole ia ma kāu ʻeke.
Mai nā mea i luna, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike maopopo i ka pili pili honua, e like me nā ʻano like ʻole o ka pili aloha ʻana, hele pū mai me nā mea maikaʻi a me nā mea maikaʻi ʻole. Hāʻule pū nā pros a me nā cons i ka male ma waena o kēia mau mea, inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi pili lōʻihi i hana ʻia. No laila, aia i kēlā me kēia kanaka ke kaupaona i nā pono a me nā maikaʻi ʻole o ka launa pū ʻana a inā hiki ke ʻimi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo pilina mai kahi loea pili ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana inā paha e pili i kahi lāhui ʻē ʻaʻole paha. No laila, e hoʻolōʻihi i kou manawa a ʻike i nā mea e pono ai nāu.