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- He aha nā manaʻo e pono ai ke kanaka?
- 1. ʻO ka pono e lohe ʻia
- 2. Pono e komo / ʻae ʻia
- 3. Ka pono no ka palekana / hilinaʻi
- 4. ʻO ka pono e waiwai / prior Prior / manaʻo o ka mea nui
- 5. Ka pono e manaʻo makemake / pilina
ʻOkoʻa kēlā me kēia pilina e pili ana i nā mea e pono ai nā kāne a kekahi, a me nā mea a lākou e makemake ai mai kā lākou pili.
Eia nō naʻe, aia nā pono nui e pono ai nā kānaka e kaʻana like i nā mea maʻamau, nā pono e manaʻo ʻia e hoʻokō ʻia i mea e hoʻokō ʻia ai e kahi hoa aloha.
He aha nā manaʻo e pono ai ke kanaka?
Eia ka papa inoa o 5 mau manaʻo e pono ai i ka pilina e ʻike ai nā kāne, a hana e hoʻokō ai kekahi i kekahi.
1. ʻO ka pono e lohe ʻia
Nānā ʻole i ke kumuhana, i mea e mahalo ai a koʻikoʻi i kā lākou hoa, pono e lohe ʻia kēlā me kēia kanaka.
ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo e ʻaelike like ʻoe me nā mea āpau a kāu hoa e ʻōlelo ai, akā pono ʻoe e hoʻolohe a mahalo i ko lākou manaʻo.
Pili kēia i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i ka ʻaoʻao o kēlā me kēia hoa, e hōʻike ana i nā mea a lākou i lohe ai mai kekahi i kekahi, a me ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā mea a lākou i aʻo ai mai kahi ʻē aʻe, a i ʻole ka hoʻohana ʻana i kēia ʻike i kā lākou pili e hele nei i mua.
2. Pono e komo / ʻae ʻia
Pehea ʻoe e hoʻomohala ai i ka pili aloha?
Pono kēlā me kēia hoa e like me ka ʻae ʻia e kā lākou pakanā no lākou iho, me ka nānā ʻole i nā kīnā, kīnā ʻole, a i ʻole nā insecurities.
Pono nā lālā o kahi kāne e manaʻo he ʻāpana lākou o kekahi mea i ʻoi aku ma mua o kā lākou. Pono kēlā me kēia hoa i ka home i kā lākou pilina, a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi e kaʻana like i ka mea a lākou e manaʻo ai a manaʻo ai, me ka ʻole o ka hoʻokolokolo a me ka hōʻole ʻia.
A, ʻo kēia kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomōhala i ka pili aloha naʻau me kāu hoa.
3. Ka pono no ka palekana / hilinaʻi
Pēlā nō, pono i kēlā me kēia hoa ke manaʻo he hiki iā lākou ke hilinaʻi i ke kanaka a lākou e pili aloha ai, a palekana lākou i kā lākou pilina.
Hiki i kēia ke hoʻohālikelike i nā mea like ʻole i nā poʻe like ʻole akā pili paha i ka palekana i kāu pilina, palekana e kaʻana like i nā mea āu e makemake ai, me nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo āpau.
Pono ka hilinaʻi i kekahi pilina, aloha a i ʻole ʻē aʻe.
Pono kēlā me kēia kāne e hoʻopaʻa i ko lākou manaʻoʻiʻo i kekahi i kekahi a hilinaʻi hoʻi e pale kekahi iā lākou, a manaʻo lākou ua aloha ʻia lākou.
4. ʻO ka pono e waiwai / prior Prior / manaʻo o ka mea nui
He mea nui loa ia no kēlā me kēia kanaka e manaʻo he mea nui lākou i kā lākou hoa, a hele mai lākou i mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, nā hoʻohiki ʻē aʻe, a me nā ʻano ʻē aʻe i ke ola o kā lākou hoa, ma loko o ke kumu.
ʻAʻole ia e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole pono i ke kanaka ke kūʻokoʻa, a i ʻole nā hoa aloha, a i ʻole kahi ola ma waho o kā lākou pilina. Akā pono e manaʻo kēlā me kēia hoa e kekahi.
5. Ka pono e manaʻo makemake / pilina
Mahalo, pehea ʻoe e loaʻa ai ka hoʻokō ʻana i ka naʻau?
ʻIke, he mea nui ia no nā lālā o nā kāne aloha e makemake ʻia e kā lākou hoa, a i ʻole e ʻike i kahi pae o ka pilina me kā lākou hoa. Akā, ʻaʻole pili kēia i ka moekolohe.
Hiki ke manaʻo maʻalahi i ka pilina, a i ʻole ka pili kokoke i kahi ala pilikino.
ʻO kahi mea liʻiliʻi e like me ka ʻapo a honi paha hiki ke pili, a i ʻole ke nānā like ʻana i ka lumi piha.
He ʻāpana nui ia o nā pilina olakino āpau no kahi hoa e manaʻo makemake ʻia ai i kahi pae pili a loaʻa iā ʻoe ka hoʻokō ʻana i ka naʻau.