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- Pani 1: E aʻo e aloha iā ʻoe iho
- KaʻAnuʻu 2: E kiʻi maoli (me ka ʻole o ka hoʻokolokolo) e pili ana i kāu ʻano pilina
- KaʻAnuʻu Hana 3: E unapologetically ʻoe
Ke ʻike nei i ka pilina kūpono e like me ke kīkaha. Nui a hewahewa nā ʻāpana e neʻe nei i kahi pilina – ka maikaʻi, ka hilinaʻi, ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ka pilina, ke ola moekolohe, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe – e like paha me ka manaolana ʻole i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i kou ola.
ʻĀ, ma aneʻi wau e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe he lana ka manaʻolana. ʻAʻole paʻakikī ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kanaka “kūpono” no ka mea hiki ʻole. Paʻahana no ka mea hele hewa mākou i ke ala. Nānā mākou i waho i ka honua a lana ka manaʻo hiki iā mākou ke loaʻa i kekahi e hoʻopau iā mākou, ma mua o ka nānā i loko iā mākou iho a hoʻomaʻemaʻe iā mākou iho, ma mua.
Ke hana nei ke kī i nā pilina maikaʻi loa ma luna o ka mea āu me ʻoe iho.
E holo hou i kēlā no ke kumu o ka maopopo.
Ke hana nei ke kī i nā pilina maikaʻi loa ma luna o ka mea āu me ʻoe iho.
Hiki paha ke cliche iā ʻoe, a inā pēlā, e lilo ia i hōʻailona e hilinaʻi ʻoe i loko a nānā. Aia, i koʻu manaʻo, ʻekolu mau mea āu e pono ai e kamaʻilio ma mua o ka hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka pilina kūpono – a i ʻole, e ʻike ka pilina kūpono iā ʻoe.
E hāhai i nā ʻanuʻu, hāʻawi i kēlā me kēia i kou nānā piha, a hoʻomanawanui i ke kaʻina. ʻO kou moeʻuhane aia ma kahi o ke kihi.
Pani 1: E aʻo e aloha iā ʻoe iho
ʻO kēia ka ʻāpana paʻakikī loa, akā inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hala i kēia puʻupuʻu, loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa nui e hele i waena o nā mea ʻelua ʻē aʻe. ʻO ke aʻo ʻana e aloha iā ʻoe iho kahi hana ʻelua: ʻo ka mea mua, pono ʻoe e ʻike i kou mau ikaika a kou nāwaliwali. A laila pono ʻoe e mahalo a aloha iā lākou no ke ʻano o lākou.
I mea e loaʻa maoli ai me nā ʻelua o kēlā hana, pono ʻoe e hana i kahi i kou ola. E hana i ka mamao ma waena o ʻoe a me ka poʻe ʻona hiki ke ʻohu i kāu hoʻokolokolo. E hana i kahi nāu iho ma ka noʻonoʻo ʻana a i ʻole ke ʻohi ʻana i kahi leʻaleʻa āu e leʻaleʻa ai. Hana i kekahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho i kahi noʻonoʻo e pono ai e noho i hope a ʻike iā ʻoe iho no wai ʻoe.
He waiwai kēlā me kēia ʻāpana ou. E hauʻoli i kāu mea maikaʻi, e ʻike i kahi e hoʻomaikaʻi ai ʻoe. He ipu hoʻoheheʻe kupaianaha nō ʻoe āpau.
Eia ke kī, inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo e ʻike i kou nui ma nā mea maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana iā ʻoe, ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. A hiki i kou mahalo ʻana i kāu mau mea āpau a loaʻa iā ia, aia nō kekahi kānalua subconscious e hāʻawi aku ai ʻoe. Ua like ia me kahi "repellant pilina kūlana" o nā ʻano. Manaʻo ka poʻe he kānalua iā lākou iho a ʻaʻole makemake e ʻai i kēlā ukana.
MAI HOPE I KEIA HAKI.
Pehea ʻoe e mālama ai iā ʻoe iho kahi pālolo e hōʻike ana i nā poʻe āpau pehea ʻoe e mālama ʻia ai. E hōʻoia i ka maikaʻi o kēlā leka.
KaʻAnuʻu 2: E kiʻi maoli (me ka ʻole o ka hoʻokolokolo) e pili ana i kāu ʻano pilina
I kēia manawa ua aʻo ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi (ʻaʻole ia e hemolele, he kanaka wale nō mākou), ua hiki i ka manawa e hana i kahi papa helu i kāu hala.
He aha ke ʻano o ka poʻe āu i maʻa pinepine ai?
He aha ka mea i hewa i kāu pili pili?
Pehea ka hana a kāu hana i ka make ʻana o kēlā mau pilina?
Ke nānā nei ʻoe i kāu mau pilina koʻikoʻi mua, e hoʻomaka ʻoe e ʻike i kahi kumu. Hoʻomaopopo paha ʻoe ua koho ʻoe i ka poʻe āu i ʻike ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke maʻalahi i waho inā ʻano malumalu lākou. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka nui ʻole o ka hana a ka poʻe āu i kau ai i ko lākou ola. Malia paha makemake ʻoe e manaʻo kiʻekiʻe, a i ʻole makemake ʻoe e lilo i kikowaena o ko lākou honua.
ʻO kēlā me kēia hihia, e ʻike i kēlā mau hiʻohiʻona no ke ʻano o lākou. E hōʻike iā ʻoe iho i kahi lokomaikaʻi. E lokomaikaʻi i kou mua iho. Hewa mākou āpau, ʻaʻohe ou ʻokoʻa.
I kēia manawa ua ʻike ʻoe i nā lauana ʻaʻole hana, hoʻomaka e hoʻololi i nā mea i luna. E hoʻāʻo e pale i ka poʻe e hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe i kāu wā i hala. Hoʻololi maoli i kahi e hele ai a i ʻole nā hana āu e ʻai ai.
ʻO ka hana ʻana i nā mea like āu i hana ai i ka wā ma mua ʻaʻole e loaʻa nā hopena maikaʻi aʻe i kou wā e hiki mai ana. Hoʻomaikaʻi i kahi āu i hele hewa ai, a laila hoʻololi i kēlā ʻano hana e kono ai i nā poʻe maikaʻi aʻe i kou ao.
KaʻAnuʻu Hana 3: E unapologetically ʻoe
ʻO kēia ʻanuʻu ka leʻaleʻa loa, no ka mea ʻo ia ka kānana hope loa. E lūlū aku ʻoe i ka poʻe kūpono ʻole iā ʻoe, a huki i kēlā mau mea kūpono iā ʻoe. E ʻānai paha ia i kekahi poʻe i ke ala hewa, akā inā ... hana ʻo ia.
I ka manawa e hana ai i ka hana e aloha hou aku ai iā ʻoe iho, a ʻike i kāu mau hana hewa o ka wā i hala, hiki iā ʻoe ke heʻe i loko o nā kāmaʻa āu e hele wāwae ai. E hoʻonui ʻoe i ka hilinaʻi a lilo i magnet i nā poʻe kūpono e mahalo ai i kēlā me kēia ʻāpana no kou ʻano.
E hōʻoluʻolu ʻole paha ia i ka wā mua? ʻOiaʻiʻo.
Akā e nui aku ka nani ma aneʻi ma mua o nā mea āpau āu i ʻike ai i ka wā i hala e like me kou hina i kēlā me kēia kanaka. ʻO kēia kou hōʻailona i ka honua ua mākaukau ʻoe no ka mea hiki ke mālama iā ʻoe.
E hōʻike kēlā kanaka, hoʻohiki wau iā ʻoe.
He gula kēia mau ʻanuʻu ʻekolu, a e noʻonoʻo ʻoe e hāʻawi iā lākou inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i kāu Mr. a i ʻole ʻo Mrs. Right. Aia lākou i waho, akā ʻaʻole lākou e ʻike i ke ala iā ʻoe a hiki i kou hoʻomaka ʻana e aloha iā ʻoe iho a hōʻike i kēlā i ka honua a puni ʻoe.
Pōmaikaʻi iā 'oe. E pili maoli ana ia, maikaʻi loa nāu.