Anter
- 1. Wehe i kahi kokoke
- 2. Hana i nā kamaʻilio naʻau
- 3. E hoʻāʻo i kahi mea hou
- 4. Nanea i kāu hana maʻamau
- 5. ʻAʻole pono ke hele i kahi koho
- 6. ʻAʻole pono iā ʻoe e hūnā i waena o ʻoe
ʻO ka pilina ikaika ka mea a ka hapa nui o mākou e makemake ai. Loaʻa i kahi ʻano o ke ʻano a no ke kanaka pono ma ko mākou ʻaoʻao ma o ka hauʻoli, kaumaha, kūleʻa, a me ka holo pono ʻole. ʻO ka mea huna i ka pilina olakino ka pili aloha ʻana me kāu kāne. ʻAe mākou he mea ʻē aʻe kekahi e like me ke kuko, ka hilinaʻi, a pēlā aku.
ʻO ka pilina ke ʻike ka mea ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe āpau, i loko a aloha maoli iā ʻoe no wai ʻoe. Ua ʻae ʻo ia iā ʻoe me nā hemahema a pau a mākaukau e kaʻana like i nā moemoeā ʻano ʻē loa me ʻoe. ʻO ke ala wale nō e hoʻokō ai i kēia me ka hoʻopono hōʻino i kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka nui o kou ʻike e pili ana i kēlā me kēia, ʻo ka hohonu o ka pae pili.
ʻO ka pilina i loko o kahi pilina e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe a ma ka home i ke alo o kāu hoa. Manaʻo maoli ʻoe i ka hoʻomaha a puni a makemake pū kekahi i kekahi ke hele ʻoe. ʻO ka pili aloha kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lawe i kāu pilina i kahi pae hou.
Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka pilina me kāu kāne, mai hopohopo ua uhi mākou iā ʻoe. Ua hōʻuluʻulu mākou i kahi papa inoa o nā mea e hoʻonui ai i ka pae pilina ma waena o nā kāne. Ua kōkua maoli kēia i nā kāne he nui a kōkua iā ʻoe pū kekahi. E hoʻomaka kākou!
1. Wehe i kahi kokoke
ʻO ka pilina kahi hana hoʻomau e ʻike nei i nā mea hou e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi. He mea maʻamau ia i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa i ka makemake e ʻike i nā mea hou e pili ana i kekahi me ka lohi, ʻike a i ʻole subconsciously. ʻO ka poʻe makemake e wehe maʻalahi i hōʻike i kahi nui o ka hoʻokō i kā lākou mau pilina. ʻO ka poʻe i loaʻa ka pilikia i ka wehe ʻana i kā lākou pakanā e alo i ka paʻakikī i ka mālama ʻana i kā lākou pili.
2. Hana i nā kamaʻilio naʻau
Kūkākūkā kamaʻilio naʻau i nā poʻe kokoke loa. Ke kaʻana like ʻoe i kou lā, kou mau manaʻo, a me kou manaʻo me kāu hoa a maopopo iā ia. ʻO kēia ka manaʻo maikaʻi loa ma ka honua. ʻO kēia kahi ala maikaʻi e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ka pilina me kāu kāne.
3. E hoʻāʻo i kahi mea hou
Hiki i ka hana Ritualistic a me nā hana maʻamau ke hoʻoluhi i nā mea. Ke hoʻāʻo ʻoe i kahi mea hou e like me ka laʻana, ka hoʻomaha ʻana āu e makemake ai a hoʻokokoke loa iā ʻoe. Ke hoʻomaka ʻoe e hoʻolālā i nā mea like e like me ʻoe i ka lōkahi e hoʻopau ai i nā mea. ʻO nā mea liʻiliʻi e like me kēia ua hoʻololi i nā pilina nui.
4. Nanea i kāu hana maʻamau
ʻAe, ʻike mākou ua ʻōlelo wale mākou e hoʻāʻo i kahi mea hou akā ke hiki iā ʻoe ke leʻaleʻa me nā hana like o kēlā me kēia lā a hana ia i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai ka pili pili. ikaika ko mākou naʻau. ʻO ka hopena, me ka manawa, lilo kā mākou mau hana i mea nui aʻe i kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka hapanui, ʻike paha ka poʻe i kēia mea he mea maikaʻi ʻole, akā ʻaʻole ia no ka mea hiki i ka wānana ke alakaʻi i ka pilina. Ke hoʻopau mākou i nā ʻōlelo a kekahi me ka ʻoluʻolu i ka hāmau ʻo ia ka manaʻo maoli o ka pili aloha. E hoʻāʻo e kiʻi i aneʻi, a ʻo kēia ka mea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ka pilina me kāu kāne.
5. ʻAʻole pono ke hele i kahi koho
ʻO kekahi o nā kumu kumu o ka hemo a me nā pilina haki ka nele o ke kamaʻilio. Inā he paio ʻoe a i ʻole e hakakā ana ʻoe me kāu hoapili: MAI ALA KAHI. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa mau ka hana hāmau i nā mea āpau. He mea paʻakikī ia no ʻolua e alo aku kekahi i kekahi, a ʻaʻole loa pēlā ka hihia. Ke hoʻonāukiuki ʻia nā mea āpau a kamaʻilio ʻole mai hele. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻuwā a leo nui, akā ʻo nā mea e hoʻopilikia nei iā ʻoe i loko e haʻi aʻe. ʻO ke kamaʻilio a me ka hoʻokau ʻana i ka huhū ma laila kahi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka noho mālie.
6. ʻAʻole pono iā ʻoe e hūnā i waena o ʻoe
ʻO kekahi o nā ala paʻa i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka pilina me kāu kāne ʻaʻole ia he kulekele malu. ʻAe ʻae he pono ka hakahaka, a pono i kēlā me kēia mea i kahi manawa ʻuʻuku akā e hōʻoia i ka nui ʻole o kēlā wahi. Ke loaʻa nā mea hūnā i nā mea pili, e paʻakikī. E kamaʻilio pū me ia no ka haumia o ke kūlana. E hoʻomaopopo iā ia i hiki ai iā ia ma laila. Hoʻonui mau ka ʻoluʻolu me ka kaʻana waha, a ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokaumaha i kēia. ʻO nā kamaʻilio kūkā ʻole he pivotal loa.
He mea kūikawā kēlā me kēia pilina a me ka male. ʻAʻohe mea hemolele, a makemake ka poʻe āpau e hele ma waena o nā piʻi a me nā lalo o ke ola. ʻO ia ka hoʻoholo a me ke kūpaʻa o ʻoukou i kekahi i kekahi e ʻae ai i ka pilina e ulu a holomua. E mahalo a ʻae i kekahi i kekahi no ka mea ʻo ia ke ala ʻoi loa e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ka pilina me kāu kāne.