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- He aha ka wehewehe o ka pili aloha
- ʻO ke ʻano o ka pili aloha - ALOHA?
- He aha ka pilina ma ka pilina?
- He aha ka pilina makua, a makua paha?
Ma kahi kokoke i 80% o nā mea pane e ʻōlelo ʻo 'sex' ka pane i ka nīnau, 'he aha ka pilina maoli?'
A, no ke aha mai? ʻO ka pilina a me ka moekolohe ka mea like, ma ka liʻiliʻi i makemake ʻia, no nā makahiki he ʻumi.
ʻO nā nīnau āu e loaʻa ai ma hope o ka lā maʻa mau ma kahi o hoʻokahi mana o, "ua pili paha ʻoe?" ʻOiai nā nīnau i nīnau i ka nīnau like i kā lākou mea kūʻai aku, "pehea ka lōʻihi o kou pili?" ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha e hoʻohana pono nā mea āpau i nā huaʻōlelo ʻelua i ka loli.
He aha ka wehewehe o ka pili aloha
ʻO ke kuhi hewa ʻole o ka huaʻōlelo 'intimacy ", alakaʻi pinepine i ka huikau a i ʻole, ka wehewehe hewa ʻana ke hoʻohana kekahi i ka huaʻōlelo" intimacy "i kāna ʻano maoli. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi, ua kanu ʻia ka wehewehe maoli o ka pilina ma ke ʻano he ʻano lua i ko mākou lolo, inā ʻike ʻia ia. ʻO ko mākou lolo ia nou - e aʻo ia ma o ka hana hou ʻana.
ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ka hui ʻana, ke aloha, ka hilinaʻi, ka pilina, ke kamaʻāina, ka maʻamau, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana, ka launa ʻana, ka pilina, ka pilina, ka pilina pili loa nā huaʻōlelo like i loaʻa ma lalo o kekahi mau kumuwaiwai thesaurus pūnaewele.
ʻAʻole helu ʻia ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano he synonym.
Wehewehe ka puke wehewehe ʻōlelo i ka pilina ma ke ʻano, "He pili, kamaʻāina, a aloha a pili aloha paha."
ʻO kahi huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, "komunion" hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia ma ke ʻano he synonym of intimacy. Aia kekahi mea laʻa a holoholo holoʻokoʻa hoʻi e pili ana i kēlā huaʻōlelo. Hōʻike ia i kekahi ʻano primacy a hiki ke wehewehe kūpono i ka pili maoli.
ʻO ke ʻano o ka pili aloha - ALOHA?
ʻAʻole pili ka pilina i nā pilina aloha.
No kekahi pilina ma waena o ʻelua mau kānaka, a i ʻole hoʻokahi kanaka a me kahi hui, e lilo i manaʻo nui, pono e pili ka pilina. I kēia manawa, no ke kumu o ka pōʻaiapili e pili ana i ka pilina ma ka male, ua kaupalena ʻia ka wehewehe ʻana o ka pilina i ka pilina pili paʻa i hana ʻia ma waena o nā kāne.
He aha ka pilina ma ka pilina?
"Kū ka pilina ma waena o ʻelua mau kānaka kahi i ʻae ʻia ka manaʻo like o ka makemake e hoʻokokoke aku - e pili hohonu - ma o ka palupalu a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo, nā manaʻo, a me ka ʻike, i hoʻoulu ʻia e ke aloha a me ke aloha."
ʻO ka moekolohe kahi ʻāpana o ka pili aloha. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ia wale nō kekahi o nā hopena o ka nui o nā hana pili pili pili ʻē aʻe - kahi hiki, inā kū mau nā ʻano pilina ʻē aʻe i ka pilina, ʻoi aku ka hohonu o ka pilina.
Ma hope o nā mea āpau, inā kahakaha ʻia kou pilina e ka nele o ka launa ʻana, ʻo ka moekolohe ka hopena, e hele a hakahaka paha.
No laila, pehea ka nui o ka pilina ma ka pilina? ʻO ka ʻōlelo i luna aʻe nei i pane wale i kēia nīnau Ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe mea e heluhelu ana i kēia ʻatikala i komo i loko o kā lākou pili pili paʻa e noho hoʻokahi.
ʻO ka maʻamau, loaʻa i kēlā me kēia hoa ka manaʻolana kūpono e ulu ai ko lākou manaʻo pili. ʻOiai makemake paha a hoʻomaopopo paha kekahi, ʻoi aku kēlā ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. Akā ʻo ka male ʻana ʻaʻole pono ia ka hopena o ka pili a me ka pili aloha.
No laila, he aha ke ʻano o ka pilina ma nā pilina? ʻĀ! ʻO ka pilina pili aloha ka mea i hoʻomaka ʻia no kahi huakaʻi lōʻihi, nani, a pilina hoʻi e loaʻa ana nā potholes a me nā ʻūpiki e koi ai i ke kūkā pū ʻana.
ʻO ke kaumaha, ke ʻano o ka male male a me ka meli e lilo i mea nui i nā pilina paʻa loa.
ʻO ia ka mea a kekahi e makemake maoli ai? A laila, no ke aha ka helu o ka hemo ma US ma mua o 50%? Ua komo paha kekahi o kēlā mau kāne hemo i kā lākou pilina me ka lana a i ʻole ka manaʻolana e pau ia ma mua o ka hopena o ko lākou ola. ʻO ia e hala ma mua loa?
He aha ka pilina makua, a makua paha?
Hoʻokahi i kahakaha ʻia e ka pilina - pili, nāwaliwali, empathy, a me ke aloha - e hoʻonui ana i ka manawa. Maliʻa paha aia nā puʻupuʻu a me nā plateaus akā ke holomua nei ka pilina i ka manawa e hui like ai kēlā me kēia kanaka me nā mea ʻē aʻe a hana pū kekahi e hana pū i kēlā mau manawa.
ʻO ke kūpaʻa, e kēlā me kēia hoa, i ka pilina maoli e hana.
ʻO ke kūpaʻa i ka pili aloha ka waiwai o kēlā me kēia ʻona o ka ikehu i hoʻokomo ʻia i loko. No laila, ʻo ke ola o ka pili a me ke aloha hohonu hiki ke hopena i ka waiho ʻana i ke kumu no kahi pilina paʻa a mau loa hoʻi.