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- 1. Hana i nā pō lā ʻaʻole hiki ke kamaʻilio ʻia
- 2. E hoʻolālā i kāu mau hana no ke aloha a me ke aloha
- 3. Hoʻolohe me kou pepeiao a me kou mau maka
- 4. Hoʻopā kekahi i kekahi
- ʻAʻole paʻakikī kēlā
Ke kani nā bele a hele ʻoe mai ka wahine a ka wahine i ke kāne a me ka wahine, pupule ʻoe e pili ana i ke kanaka āu e kaʻana like nei i kou ola.
Aloha nui ʻoe iā lākou.
Pili pili ʻoe.
Makemake ʻoe e hoʻolilo i kēlā me kēia minuke ala me kekahi.
Akā ʻo ka poʻe āpau a puni ʻoe e ʻōlelo mau nei, "E hauʻoli ia ʻoiai e mau ana!"
He mau kāne a he nui, a maopopo iaʻu ua ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mau mea, i hala i mau makahiki e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻi i kā lākou mea i ka wā i ʻōlelo ai lākou, "Hana wau."
ʻOiai aloha lākou i kā lākou hoa, ua ʻemi ke aloha ahi. He hoaaloha maikaʻi kā lākou i loko o kā lākou wahine, ʻaʻole naʻe kekahi mea ʻoliʻoli lākou e ola i ko lākou ola.
E kōkua ʻoe iā ʻoe e hōʻalo i kahi hopena. Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā manaʻo āpau e noho mesmerized e kāu kāne a wahine paha, a eia mākou e kōkua. ʻAʻole pono kahi uaki pana i kāu pili aloha. E mau ana inā e hoʻomau ʻoe i ke ahi.
1. Hana i nā pō lā ʻaʻole hiki ke kamaʻilio ʻia
E haʻalele ke ola iā ʻoe.
E kāwili ʻia ʻolua i kāu ʻoihana a i ʻole hoʻolaʻa ʻoe i kou ola i kāu mau keiki. Ma mua o kou ʻike, poina iā ʻoe ke hele i kahi lā hope loa. No laila, ma mua o ka ʻae ʻana i ke ola e kaohi i kāu pae o ke aloha a me ka pili, e lawe i nā ʻōpū a hana i kāu mau lā pili pili i kahi pō e pono ai.
ʻO kahi ala leʻaleʻa e mālama i kēia māmā "ʻaʻole hiki ke kūkākūkā" i nā māmā no nā mea e hoʻoponopono hou. ʻO ke kī naʻe, ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻonui i kēlā mau hopena i kāu pili a hana no ka manawa nalowale ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻi mai ka pō lā i hala.
Inā ʻaʻole hiki i ke kāne ke hana ma muli o ka hana, ʻaiʻē ʻo ia i kāna lede i ke kino holoʻokoʻa.
Inā ʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke hana no ka mea ua hele mai kāna hoa aloha mai waho o ke kaona me ka manaʻo ʻole, ʻaiʻē ʻo ia i kāna kāne i kahi lovin maikaʻi keu ke hoʻi ʻo ia i ka home.
Inā kū kēia mau hopena, ʻaʻole e alakaʻi ka pō lā hala i kahi pilina nāwaliwali ma waena o ʻolua. ʻO ka manaʻo wale nō e hana ʻoe i ka manawa e hoʻohui ai i kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa.
2. E hoʻolālā i kāu mau hana no ke aloha a me ke aloha
Aia kēia kaʻao e lana ana a puni inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻike me ke aloha ʻole i ke aloha, ʻaʻole ʻoe pupule i kāu hoa ma mua. ʻOiai he nui nā ʻike kūpono e hiki ke hele mai i kāu kūlohelohe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonāukiuki i ka nui o ke kuko mai kahi mea āu i hoʻonohonoho ai no kou lā-a eia ke kumu.
E like me kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai ma luna, e haʻalele ke ola iā ʻoe. E ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ʻoi aku ka ʻoi o kou paʻakai i kēlā me kēia lā e hala ana, a ke ʻoi aku kāu ʻoi, ʻoi aku ʻoe i ka ʻaoʻao i kāu mau hana pono ʻole. E haʻalele ʻoe i ka hana ʻana i kahi mea maikaʻi no kāu hoa no ka mea he hōʻike nui kāu ma muli a no ka mea e holo ana paha ʻoe i kou ala home. ʻAʻole ia e mālama iki i kāu wahine; pono ʻoe i mau hola hou i ka lā.
No laila, ma mua o ke kali ʻana iā ʻoe iho e ʻike kūlohelohe e pono ʻoe e hana i kahi mea maikaʻi na kāu kāne a wahine paha, e koho i kahi lā i ka pule aʻe a kākau i kāu mea e hana ai na lākou. Ma kēia ala e ʻike ai ʻoe ma mua o ka manawa e pono ai ʻoe e hāʻawi i kēlā aloha a me ka nānā iā lākou.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai iā lākou i kahi kāleka noʻonoʻo.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana iā lākou i kaʻaina awakea.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai i nā likiki i kā lākou punahele punahele ma ke kaona a kāhāhā lākou.
He aha hana ʻoe a He aha ʻaʻole ʻoe e like me ka nui o ka hoʻomau ʻana e hōʻike iā lākou i ka mahalo e pono ai lākou.
ʻAʻole ia e heʻe i kou manaʻo inā kākau ʻia ma kāu papa kuhikuhi. Pencil iā lākou i loko.
3. Hoʻolohe me kou pepeiao a me kou mau maka
Ke lilo ʻoe i ke ola me kahi kanaka, kānalua ʻoe e ʻike i kā lākou ʻano, kā lākou ʻōlelo punahele, a me kā lākou ala e kamaʻilio ai. Lohe pinepine mākou i ka ʻōlelo aʻo o ka "hoʻolohe hou ʻana," akā ke nānā nui mākou i nā huaʻōlelo e puka ana i ka waha o kā mākou hoa, ua hemahema paha mākou i ka leka.
Me ka ʻole o ka hemahema, hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi inā loaʻa iā lākou kahi lā maikaʻi ʻole, leʻaleʻa maoli iā lākou iho, a i ʻole ke ʻano “iki” wale nō. ʻAʻole pono lākou e ʻōlelo i kahi huaʻōlelo, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi e ko lākou kūlana a me kā lākou ʻōlelo kino.
E mālama i ke aloha a me ke kuko, ʻo kekahi o nā mea nui loa e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i kāu hoa ma kahi hohonu. Ma ka nānā ʻana i nā hōʻailona o ko lākou kino, ko lākou kani, a me ke ala a lākou e hōʻike ai i kā lākou mea e ʻōlelo ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike iā lākou i kou maikaʻi maoli ʻike iā lākou. E hana kēia i kahi pilina aloha a hohonu hoʻi ma waena o ʻolua i ko ʻolua ʻelemakule pū ʻana.
4. Hoʻopā kekahi i kekahi
Hiki i kēia ke hoʻopili i ka moekolohe, akā ʻaʻole ia. Aia ka mana i ka ʻili o kāu wahine, inā paha i ka wela o kahi manawa aloha a i ʻole ka hoʻopaʻa lima ʻana ʻoiai ʻoe e nānā nei i ke kīwī.
E hāpai kēia i ka pilina ma waena o ʻolua a mālama iā ʻoe a pili loa, ma ke kino a me ka naʻau. Inā ʻoe e nānā a puni i nā kāne ma mua i kou ola, e ʻike ʻoe i nā mea pupule kekahi i kekahi e hoʻopaʻa lima, e haki i nā honi momona, a loaʻa i nā ala e launa ai. He 80 paha ko lākou mau makahiki a ke pāʻani nei nō lākou i ka footsie ma lalo o ka papa.
ʻO kēlā pili kino i ʻae iā lākou e hoʻopaʻa paʻa i kā lākou pilina i loko o kēia mau makahiki. E lawe i kā lākou cue a kikoo aku a hoʻopā aku i kāu kāne a wahine paha i kēia lā. E haʻi iā lākou aia ʻoe ma laila a makemake ʻoe e pili iā lākou.
ʻAʻole paʻakikī kēlā
ʻAʻole paʻakikī ka hana ʻana a me ke kākoʻo ʻana i ke aloha a me ke aloha nui i kāu wahine. Inā manaʻo ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i hope loa, a laila ʻoe e. Inā ʻoe e hoʻolohe i nā poʻe a pau i hāʻawi ʻia i kā lākou spark, ʻike koke ʻoe iā ʻoe iho me kahi hoa noho aloha. No ʻoe nō kēlā koho. Pōmaikaʻi iā 'oe!