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Mahalo nui! Ua ʻae ʻoe i ka mea āu i aloha nui ai, a ke hoʻolālā nei ʻoe i ka male o kāu mau moeʻuhane. E lilo ʻoe a me kāu wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana i kahi mau mahina e hoʻomākaukau ana no kekahi o nā hanana nui i kou ola (a lana ka manaʻo i kahi melemona hanohano a hanohano!). ʻOiai he maʻalahi ke kiʻi ʻia i ka hoʻolālā a me nā koho, mai poina i ka ʻāpana nui aʻe o ka lā maikaʻi o kou ola. ʻAe, nā pua, ka ʻaahu, kahi, nā makemake, ka ʻaina awakea, a me nā mele nā mea nui āpau. Akā ʻo ka "lā maikaʻi loa" he iwakāluakūmāhā mau hola wale nō o ka pāʻina ʻana. ʻO kāu male, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē, mau loa. ʻO kēia lā ka manaʻolana e lilo ia i mea āu e manaʻo ai, akā ʻaʻole e nalowale i ka hoʻolālā a hoʻopoina e hoʻomākaukau i kou puʻuwai a me kou noʻonoʻo no ka mea nui: ke hele ʻana i ke koena o kou ola ma kahi o kahi āu e aloha ai.
Kanini wahine hulahula
Ma ke ʻano he wahine male, he nui nā hoʻololi hou a pīhoihoi hoʻi e hiki mai ana. ʻAʻole wale ʻoe i kēia manawa ke kahu o kahi ʻohana, akā ʻo ʻoe kekahi o kahi ʻāpana. ʻO kāu kuleana ma ke ʻano he "mōʻī wahine hulahula" e kōkua iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine e hoʻololi i ke ola holoʻokoʻa. Ma ke ʻano he ʻelua pono ʻoe e aʻo pehea e hulahula ai me kekahi i kekahi ma nā ʻano pālua. Pono ʻoe i kēlā me kēia e ʻike i nā ʻanuʻu o kekahi akā hiki ke hoʻohui i kēlā mau ʻanuʻu i kahi hulina maʻalahi a me ka wai. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, akā nō naʻe, makemake ʻoe e lilo i kekahi e hoʻomaʻamaʻa nei i kāu mau solo ponoʻī. ʻAʻole kēia he mea maikaʻi ʻole. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, pili ka pilina ikaika a olakino i ʻelua mau kānaka kūʻokoʻa i kūpaʻa i ka lilo ʻana i hoʻokahi anakahi e hana pū ana. He hana paʻakikī ia ma lalo o ka lawe ʻana, akā he mea ia, i aʻo mua ʻia, ua like ia me ka holo kaʻa. E hele maʻamau mai ia.
Hāʻawi a lawe
ʻO ka male ʻana e pili ana i ka hāʻawi ʻana a me ka lawe ʻana i nā kaulike like. No ka wahine, ʻo ia hoʻi ka manawa pinepine o kā mākou hāʻawi ʻana i ke ʻano o ka ʻai, ka holoi lole, ka nānā ʻana, a me ka pili kino. ʻAʻole kau palena ʻia kā mākou hāʻawi ʻana i kēia mau mea, akā eia nā mea i ʻimi pinepine ʻia. I ka hoʻihoʻi, e hāʻawi ʻia ʻoe i ka nānā a me ka manawa, me kāu wahine a me waho. ʻO kekahi o nā manawa nui o ka lilo ʻana i wahine ma ke ʻano āu e noho kaʻawale nei a hauʻoli i ka noho kaʻawale a me ka maluhia o ka launa pū ʻana. Pono ka male olakino e ʻole ka kānalua a hewa paha ke koho kekahi a ʻelua paha e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa mai kahi ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole pono kēia manawa kaawale ma mua o ka manawa nui, akā pono i kēlā me kēia kanaka ke kūʻokoʻa e komo i nā pono i waho o ka male.
Paipai ʻia - Papa Hana Mua ma mua o ka male ʻana
ʻAʻole hiki i nā kini ke hiki
He kuhi hewa nui ka manaʻo ʻana i kahi pane koke inā ʻoe e noi i kāu wahine i kahi nīnau 'hiki' ma mua o kahi nīnau 'makemake'. ʻO kahi nīnau 'hiki' kahi e nīnau ai ʻoe inā hiki iā ia ke hana i kekahi mea. ʻIke nō, inā ʻoe e noi ana, hiki i ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo ke hana pēlā. Ma mua o ka waiho ʻana i kahi manawa kūpono, e wehewehe i kāu noi ma ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi ʻōlelo 'makemake' ma mua o kahi 'hiki' ʻōlelo. ʻAʻole hiki i kēia loli maʻalahi i ka ʻōlelo ke hoʻomaikaʻi i kou hiki ke kamaʻilio pū me kāu wahine, akā hiki ke hoʻololi i ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu noi. Ma mua o ke koi ʻana a koi ʻia paha e hana i kekahi mea, manaʻo paha ka wahine me he mea lā ua hāʻawi ʻia i kahi koho ... ʻOiai ʻaʻole ia pēlā.
ʻO Damsel i ka pilikia
Ma ke ʻano he wahine, ua lilo paha ʻoe i ka hapa nui o kou ola kūʻokoʻa a makemake e mālama iā ʻoe iho. Ma ke ʻano he wahine, ʻelua a ʻoi paha mau kānaka āu e mālama ai (e hilinaʻi ana inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e koho i kāu mau keiki). ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo he pono ʻoe e lilo i wahine wahine (ʻoiai maikaʻi paha ʻoe). Ma kahi, hāʻawi kēia iā ʻoe i ka manawa kūpono e pāʻani i ka kaikamahine i ka pilikia. Aia paha he manawa i loko o kāu pili ke ʻike ʻoe ua kahili ʻia i kou mau wāwae e kāu kāne. No ke aha e waiho ʻole ai i kēlā manaʻo me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu wahine i ka manawa kūpono e lilo i mea pale nona? ʻAe, ma ke ʻano he wahine kūʻokoʻa, kūʻokoʻa, hiki iā ʻoe ke lawelawe i kēlā mau mea iā ʻoe iho. Akā maikaʻi paha i kou pilina e hana maʻamau i ka ʻae ʻana i kāu wahine e pāʻani i ke Keiki Aliʻi hoʻopakele i kēlā me kēia manawa.
ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi loa no ka wahine mare e hoʻolālā i ka male āna i hoʻolilo ai i mau makahiki e moeʻuhane nei, he maʻalahi: e nānā i mua i ka wā e hiki mai ana ma mua o ke kau ʻana i kou ikaika āpau i ka lā hoʻokahi. He wā pōkole kāu male, akā ke ola nei kāu male ʻana.