Anter
- 1. Mahalo i kāu hoa
- 2. ʻ Saylelo mahalo iā ʻoe no nā mea liʻiliʻi
- 3. Mālama i kou helehelena
- 4. Mālama i nā pilina ma waho o kou male
ʻIke mākou āpau ʻaʻole ka wahine ka mea āpau a hoʻopau i nā mea āpau i ka male. ʻIke mākou inā pili nui ka pili ma ka ʻaoʻao moekolohe o kahi pilina hiki ʻole ke hoʻokō ʻia, akā ʻike pū mākou he mea nui ka wahine. No laila pehea mākou e ʻike ai i ke kaulike?
He maʻalahi ka pane i kēlā nīnau akā poina pinepine ʻia.
Pono kahi pilina olakino a me ke kaulike e hoʻomau i ka hana, ka hoʻokō a me ka mahalo o kekahi i kekahi me nā helu he nui i ʻike ʻia he ʻano moe kolohe ʻole e mālama i ka olakino male.
Ma ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi mau manaʻo liʻiliʻi a me nā ala ʻole moekolohe e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke mālama i ka male olakino, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻoe e mālama pono ʻoe i kāu pilina a ʻo ka bonus, ʻoi aku ka nui o kāu hoʻopukapuka i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā hana hoʻopunipuni e mālama ai i kāu male. maikaʻi ke olakino e hoʻohuli maikaʻi i kāu pili moekolohe a me kou ʻike. He kūlana lanakila lanakila.
Eia kā mākou ala ʻehā ʻole moekolohe e mālama i ka male o ka male e hoʻāʻo ʻoe i kēia manawa.
1. Mahalo i kāu hoa
Hoʻomaopopo i kāu pakanā e mahalo iā lākou, a hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe iho e mahalo ʻoe i kāu pakanā (ʻano ʻē kēia, akā maʻalahi ka hele wale i nā neʻe). Eia nō naʻe, hana wale ka mahalo a mākou e kūkākūkā nei ma aneʻi inā he ʻoiaʻiʻo a noʻonoʻo hoʻi.
E ʻike i nā ala liʻiliʻi e hōʻike ai i kou mahalo, kākau i nā memo liʻiliʻi, honi pono i kāu wahine ke haʻalele lākou a hoʻi mai paha mai ka hana. A e like me ka lilo ʻana o kekahi mau kāne i mea nui i ka hiamoe ʻole ma kahi paio (ʻo ia kahi ala maikaʻi loa e hōʻike ai i kou mahalo no kāu hoa) e hana i kahi kiko o ka poina ʻole e mahalo i kekahi i kekahi a hōʻike i kēia i ka hiki loa.
2. ʻ Saylelo mahalo iā ʻoe no nā mea liʻiliʻi
Ma kahi o ka mālama ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi a kāu wahine e hana nei a hana ʻole paha e hoʻonāukiuki ai iā ʻoe, e hoʻoneʻe i kou nānā ʻana a ma kahi o ka mālama ʻana i ka helu o nā mea liʻiliʻi a kāu wahine e hana ai a hana ʻole e leʻaleʻa ai iā ʻoe a laila haʻi lākou.
Hana nā mea hoʻoikaika maikaʻi i nā mea kupaianaha no ka psyche o ke kanaka, ka hilinaʻi a me ke olakino no laila ʻo kēia hoʻolālā maikaʻi kahi ala maikaʻi ʻole ʻole e mālama i ke olakino male no ka mea e hoʻomau mau ana ka maikaʻi i kāu male.
Hana ka hapanui o nā kāne i ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, a i nā manawa he nui, ʻo ia ka kūkulu ʻana o kēia mau ʻōlelo loiloi liʻiliʻi e hiki ai ke hoʻokuʻi i kahi ʻelua. ʻIke ʻoe i ke ʻano - 'Ua hana wau x nāu no laila no laila pono ʻoe e hana noʻu', 'ʻaʻole ʻoe e holoi i nā pā', 'no ke aha mai mau wau ...' a pēlā nō e hoʻomau. ʻAʻohe o kēia mau ʻōlelo e hōʻoluʻolu.
Eia nō naʻe, ke hoʻohana ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo hōʻoluʻolu me ka manaʻolana, e hōʻoluʻolu ia a hoʻoulu i kou manaʻo no kāu wahine. No laila e hana like kāu wahine iā ʻoe a hōʻike iā ʻoe i ko lākou mahalo i kou positivity ma ke ʻano ʻokoʻa iā lākou.
3. Mālama i kou helehelena
Ua loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kahi ʻike ma kahi āu e hui pū ai me kāu wahine a pākana paha no nā makahiki he nui? ʻOluʻolu loa lākou iā ʻoe ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻāʻo i ko lākou helehelena. Inā ʻaʻole lākou e hele i waho. A iā lākou e haʻalele ai no kahi pō i waho, a i ʻole i kāu pō e hele pū ana ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e ʻoluʻolu pinepine i ka nani o kāu wahine. Maliʻa paha he paʻakikī loa e mālama i kou mau lima.
ʻĀ, like nō ia ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā ʻoe e noho pū, loaʻa he keiki a ke hana pū nei me kahi hana o kēlā me kēia lā ʻaʻole ʻoe e nānā maikaʻi loa. Akā ke hoʻāʻo nei e mālama i kou helehelena a nani ke nānā aku, e pale pinepine i ka hōʻoluʻolu mai ka mālama ʻana i loko, a e ola ka huna ahi.
Hoʻohui hou aia kahi pono ʻē aʻe i ka mālama ʻana i kou helehelena, a ʻo ia ʻelua a me kāu wahine e ʻoluʻolu e pili ana iā ʻolua iho, a laila hoʻi e lele ai nā huna ahi. ʻO ka pilikia wale nō, ʻoiai ʻo kēia ala he ala moe kolohe ʻole ia e mālama i ka olakino male e paʻakikī paha ia e noho i waho o ka lumi moe ma ke ʻano he hopena.
4. Mālama i nā pilina ma waho o kou male
ʻO ka hala ʻana i ka hopena pule me nā keiki a i ʻole nā kaikamahine, ke hele nei i kahi hanana kaiāulu hana maʻamau a mālama i kahi ola kūʻokoʻa ma waho o ka male ʻana e lilo i mea hoihoi i kou ola male.
E loaʻa iā ʻoe nā mea he nui e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu wahine i kou hōʻike ʻana i kāu mau ʻike iā lākou a e hoʻohoihoi ʻia ʻoe e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me nā wahi. ʻO ka manaʻo e lawe ʻoe i kēlā mea hoʻoulu i loko o kāu male a ʻo ka hope.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pilina ma waho o ka male ʻana i mea hoihoi a hoihoi hou kekahi i nā mea hou. E hauʻoli pū ʻoe i ka hoʻāʻo āu e hana ai me kekahi i ka wā kaʻawale ʻoe, kahi e lawe mai ai i kahi ala hou ʻole hoihoi ʻole e mālama i ke olakino o ka male.
Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻōlelo lākou i ka mamao e ulu ai ka puʻuwai.