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- He aha ka psychopath?
- ʻAʻohe aloha
- ʻAʻohe lunamanaʻo
- ʻO kahi manaʻo hoʻonui ʻia o ka manaʻo nui
- ʻAno aloha ʻole lākou
- He poʻe aloha ʻole nā psychopaths
- Ke loiloi nei i kou pilina
ʻAʻole e makaʻu iā ʻoe akā inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina psychopathic, he mea ia e pono ai ʻoe e makaʻala. No kou olakino a no kou palekana hoʻi!
ʻOiai ʻike mākou ʻaʻole mākou e hōʻike ana i kahi psychopath a hana pēlā, pono ʻoe i kōkua kōkua i ka mea hope āu e makemake ai e hana ʻo ia i kahi pilina psychopath me ka ʻike ʻole. No ka mea ma nā hihia he lohi loa i ka pilina psychopath hiki ke maikaʻi a lohi loa - hiki paha ke pāʻani iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano maoli a i ʻole ma ka ʻōlelo metaphorically.
I kēia manawa he mea ʻano iki paha nā mea āpau, no laila ma mua o ka hāʻawi ʻana aku iā ʻoe i nā hōʻailona e hōʻeuʻeu iā ʻoe e ʻike inā he pilina psychopathic kāu pili a ʻaʻole paha, pono mākou e hoʻomaopopo pehea mākou e hoʻohana nei i nā huaʻōlelo 'psychopath.'
He aha ka psychopath?
ʻAʻohe manaʻo o ka psychopath, ʻaʻohe ʻano o ka lawehala, ke kuleana a me ka minamina ʻole, ʻaʻohe aloha, ʻaʻohe ʻike i nā waiwai o ke kanaka a me ko lākou ʻano ponoʻī e hoʻokau nui ʻia i ka noʻonoʻo nui (e pili ana iā lākou iho). Hilinaʻi lākou, helu, akamai a hiki (a hana pinepine i ka naʻau kanaka).
ʻIke nā Psychopaths pehea e leʻaleʻa ai, a ʻike lākou i ka pāʻani ʻana i ka poʻe i kā lākou pono ke kaukaʻi ʻia i kā lākou mau pahuhopu kahi pahuhopu e pili ana i nā ʻoihana a i ʻole nā pahuhopu e hōʻona i kā lākou mau pono wili a kekee paha.
ʻAʻole nā psychopath āpau e lawe i ke ola, akā ʻo kekahi o nā lawehala weliweli loa i lawe ʻia e kahi psychopath. Hōʻike pololei ʻo Hollywood i nā psychopaths pololei. Eia nō naʻe, nui nā kāne a me nā wahine maʻamau he psychopaths - ʻaʻole lākou āpau i hana i nā mea maoli i kūpono e hoʻokomo ʻia i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, akā hiki i nā psychopath āpau ke hana pēlā inā makemake lākou.
Ma kahi o 1% o ka heluna lehulehu a me 3% o nā alakaʻi ʻoihana he psychopaths e like me kahi noiʻi i paʻi ʻia ma Behavioural Science & the Law, 2010. No laila inā he holomua hihiu ʻoe akā kolohe ʻole ʻoe ma ke ʻano he luna, a ʻo nā hoa hana paha he psychopathic lākou. .
E haʻalulu paha ka hapa nui o ka poʻe 'maʻamau' e noʻonoʻo iā lākou iho i loko o kahi pilina psychopathic, akā ʻo ka pilikia, ʻaʻole e ʻike kekahi kekahi ʻo lākou nō!
Eia kekahi o nā hōʻailona aia ʻoe i ka pilina psychopath.
ʻAʻohe aloha
Inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina psychopathic, ʻaʻole e pili kāu pakanā a wahine paha, ʻaʻole mākou e ʻike hou i ke aloha o kāu hoa.
ʻAʻohe o lākou. ʻO ia ka mea e maopopo ai he hōʻailona iki ʻoe ma ka liʻiliʻi loa e hana pū ana me kekahi kanaka i loaʻa i ka maʻi maʻi a hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻoholo i kā lākou hana me ka nānā ʻole ʻia no ka pilikia o haʻi. ).
Eia nō naʻe, akamai nā psychopaths, ʻike lākou i ke ʻano e hoʻohālike a hana i ka naʻau o ke kanaka, a no laila, ʻaʻole maʻalahi paha e ʻike inā nele kāu aloha i kāu hoa i ka mua. Akā i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, keu hoʻi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻike iā lākou e nānā ana ʻoe no kā lākou ʻano o ke aloha e haʻalele lākou iā ʻoe i kekahi mau hōʻailona.
E hoʻomaopopo iā lākou e ʻimi nei akā e loaʻa iā lākou kahi ala e hōʻike ai - no laila he mea nui ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻike i kāu hoa i ka mea āu e ʻimi nei a ma ka manawa e hoʻomaka ʻoe e ʻike i nā kala maoli o kāu hoa. .
ʻAʻohe lunamanaʻo
ʻAʻole noʻonoʻo ka psychopath i ʻelua mau manawa e pili ana i ka wahaheʻe, ka hoʻopunipuni, ka hoʻokau ʻana i nā palena, ka hoʻowahāwahā ʻana i nā loina pono, ka haki ʻana i nā lula a pēlā aku.
Mālama wale lākou no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke mālama!
Aia paha ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina psychopathic me kahi 'psychopath functioning' nāna i aʻo pehea e hana ai iā lākou iho i kahi ala e ʻae ʻia i ke kaiāulu, akā mai hana i nā iwi e pili ana iā ia pono. Ke hana maʻalahi nei lākou i nā mea e pono ai lākou e hana e hoʻokō ai i kā lākou mau pahuhopu, a inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina psychopathic, ʻike maoli ʻoe i kekahi mau lepa ʻulaʻula ke pili i nā manaʻo o kāu hoa a me nā hana kūpono.
ʻO kahi manaʻo hoʻonui ʻia o ka manaʻo nui
ʻAno like kēia ʻano me nā hiʻohiʻona o ka narcissist. Eia nō naʻe, pono i ka narcissist e manaʻo he mea nui ia e kā lākou kūlana ponoʻī. ʻOiai he mea nui ka psychopath (e like me kā lākou), a ʻaʻohe o lākou mau kūlana e makemake ai a i ʻole pono e ola a ʻaʻohe pono a makemake ʻole paha e koʻikoʻi. I kahi psychopath ko lākou mea nui iā ia iho - ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe - inā paha ua hoʻonui ʻia a kūpono ʻole.
Inā ʻoe e ʻike i ka manaʻo koʻikoʻi i kāu hoa, me kekahi o kēia mau hōʻailona ʻē aʻe aia ʻoe i ka pilina psychopathic.
ʻAno aloha ʻole lākou
Hoʻonani nā Psychopaths i nā manawa āpau, akā ʻo kahi narcissist e waiho i ko lākou kiaʻi i lalo a hōʻike i kahi ʻaoʻao ʻeleʻele. Hiki i kahi psychopath ke mālama i ka hana no ka mea e pono ai lākou a ʻoi aku ka nui inā pono.
ʻO nā Psychopaths ke ʻano o ka ʻīlio hae i ka lole hipa.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻokuʻu i ko lākou kiaʻi iā ʻoe e nānā he hana kēia, ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi anuanu ma hope o ka leʻaleʻa, (ma ka liʻiliʻi o ka manawa) e hōʻike iā ʻoe (me kekahi o kēia mau hōʻailona ʻē aʻe) hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i kahi pilina psychopathic.
He poʻe aloha ʻole nā psychopaths
Hiki i nā psychopaths ke lilo i mea hana keaka maikaʻi akā maʻalahi hiki ke ʻike maʻalahi inā ʻaʻa ʻole lākou no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i ka naʻau e like me ka hana a ka poʻe 'maʻamau', a no ka hiki ʻole iā lākou ke mālama.
Kahi mea hiki ke maʻalahi ke ʻike inā he insopere kahi psychopath pono ʻoe e ʻike i ka hanu ʻana, ka neʻe ʻana o ka maka a heluhelu ma waena o nā laina (mai haʻi wale i kāu hoa i kāu hana).
ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohālike i nā mea āu e ʻike ʻole ai e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻohālike. Hoʻonui ka hilinaʻi o Psychopaths me ka nele o ka ʻike maoli e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka 'manaʻo' ʻo ia hoʻi e paʻakikī lākou e hoʻohālike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike inā aia ʻoe i kahi pilina psychopathic.
Ke loiloi nei i kou pilina
ʻO kēia wale nō kekahi o nā hōʻailona o ka psychopath - he nui hou aku. Inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina psychopath, ʻoiai inā ʻoe e manaʻo he 'palekana' paha he mea kūpono paha ia e noʻonoʻo inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻomau me ka pilina a manuahi paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho.
ʻAʻole ʻoe e loaʻa maoli i kāu pono. ʻAʻohe o ka psychopath i hiki ke aloha a mahalo paha (ʻoiai inā hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokamani). Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e haʻalele akā e nānā pono ʻoe i ka pehea e haʻalele ai i kahi pilina psychopath i hiki iā ʻoe ke hana me ka palekana a me ka uhi pū ʻana i kāu mau mele - me kāu mōʻaukala pūnaewele.