Anter
- 1. Nui loa nā ʻano
- 2. Ke kai o nā hoʻoholo maikaʻi ʻole
- 3. ʻOiaʻiʻo me ka pūnaewele
- 4. ʻO kahi nui o nā hoaaloha
- 5. Nā introverts, extroverts, a me nā mea lawe
- 6. He puna wai pili aloha
- 7. Hiki i nā mea pohihihi ke hoʻonāukiuki
- 8. Ka nele o ka ʻike
- 9. Nui nā ʻike hoʻopunipuni
- 10. Pepa, swipe, kamaʻilio a me fizzle
- 11. Lilo nā kamaʻilio kūkā
- 12. Nā papa hana paʻa a me nā kaohi manawa
- 13. Hana i nā manawa ma mua o ka leʻaleʻa
- 14. ʻO ka hōʻole a me nā hopena i ka manaʻo pilikino
- 15. E lawe mai i kāu pāʻani A
- 16. Kaohi iki ʻana
ʻO ka manaʻo o ka hele ʻana i waena o nā pūkana a me ka swiping pono ʻana i nā makemake i ka wā e noho ana ma luna o kāu moena e hoʻokani maikaʻi ai. A inā paha he kāne hou ʻoe a e hakakā paha i kēia lā no ka lōʻihi, ʻo ka pili pūnaewele pūnaewele kahi koho āu e noʻonoʻo ai.
Me ka manawa a me ka loli o ka ʻike kaiāulu, ʻaʻohe stigma o ka launa pūnaewele ʻana a he koho kūpono ia e pili ana i ka pili aloha. Mai nā kū hoʻokahi pō, nā hookupā maʻamau i ka pili aloha, nā pilina a me nā male, ke hoʻoikaika nei ka pili pūnaewele ʻana i nā aʻa i ka honua o ka noho aloha.
Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau kumu no ke ʻano he manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole ka ʻimi ʻana i ka pilina ma ka pūnaewele. No laila, ma mua o kou nosedive i loko o ka loko wai o ka pili pūnaewele, he mea maikaʻi e ʻike i nā ʻaoʻao maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole o ka pili pūnaewele.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana i ka pili pūnaewele
1. Nui loa nā ʻano
ʻAʻole maopopo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe ma nā pūnaewele pili pūnaewele i ka mea a lākou e ʻimi nei. ʻO ke ala wikiwiki a me ka aloof o ka launa pū ʻana me ka pūnaewele e hoʻonui ana i kēia likurability he ʻumi mau manawa. Me ia mea, ʻimi nui nā poʻe he nui i ka moekolohe maʻamau me ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana o kā lākou ʻikepili ʻē aʻe.
2. Ke kai o nā hoʻoholo maikaʻi ʻole
Ua wānana ʻia e 2040, 70% o mākou e hālāwai me kā mākou mea nui ʻē aʻe ma ka pūnaewele. Me nā ʻano o nā polokalamu aloha e loaʻa iā ʻoe, hoʻonui ka aupuni o nā koho i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO ka hapanui o mākou e hoʻoiho wale i nā polokalamu pili a pau a hāʻule i lalo i kahi puka lāpaki o ke kaʻe ʻana ma o ka ʻike ma hope o ka ʻike.
3. ʻOiaʻiʻo me ka pūnaewele
Me kahi ʻano o ka mahele, ka paku inā ʻoe, ma waena o ka honua maoli a me ka pūnaewele; he hiki ʻole ka hiki.
ʻO kēia ka hopena iā mākou e swiping pono i nā mea nāna e hōʻeha i kā mākou mau manaʻo hoʻohiwahiwa a wiwo ʻole paha. Kāhea mākou i ka ʻauhau haʻahaʻa i ka hoʻoholo ʻana i ke koho ʻana i ke koho ʻana mai kahi lālani ma mua o ke koho ʻana i ke ola maoli.
4. ʻO kahi nui o nā hoaaloha
ʻO ke kiko holoʻokoʻa o ka launa pū ʻana me ka pūnaewele ka kumu buzz-inducing o ka hui ʻana i nā poʻe hou āu i ʻole ai, i kou ola maʻamau ʻaʻole wau. Wahi a kahi ninaninau 2,373 kanaka, ʻoi aku ka nui o 18 a 34 mau makahiki i hālāwai me kā lākou mau mea nui e kū nei ma o nā hoa aloha ma mua o nā ʻano ʻē aʻe, e like me nā polokalamu aloha.
5. Nā introverts, extroverts, a me nā mea lawe
ʻO nā kōkua komo aloha ʻana ma ka pūnaewele, nā pi nīele a me nā poʻe mehameha i ka ʻimi ʻana i ka mea a lākou e ʻimi nei.
ʻO ka poʻe nona ka nohona kaiaulu ʻaʻole i hoʻonui i kahi o ka wahi hana, ʻike i ka launa pūnaewele me ka maikaʻi loa no lākou. Hele lākou i waho o kā lākou pōʻai koke a hoʻāʻo e hālāwai me nā poʻe hou.
6. He puna wai pili aloha
ʻO nā kānaka me ka hui nui o nā hoaaloha a me nā hoalauna, hoʻoliʻiliʻi paha ka launa pūnaewele ʻana.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pōʻaiapili nui e hoʻonui ai i ka likelike o ka hui ʻana me kekahi poʻe hou ma o nā hoa aloha. ʻO ka hapanui o ka poʻe e hui me ko lākou poʻe koʻikoʻi ma o nā hoa aloha ʻelua. A ʻo kahi kumu ikaika o nā hoa aloha e alakaʻi i kahi maikaʻi maikaʻi o nā ʻike pili a me nā pilina.
7. Hiki i nā mea pohihihi ke hoʻonāukiuki
Ke hui mākou me kekahi mea hou i ke kanaka, ʻohiʻohi mākou i ka nui o nā ʻike maʻalea me nā mea maopopo e kōkua iā mākou e hana i kahi manaʻo o kēlā kanaka.
ʻO ke ʻano o ke kino, nā ʻōniʻoniʻo, ka ʻōlelo, ka helehelena, a me ke kaila ke hiki ke ʻōlelo nui e pili ana i ke kanaka. Ma ke ʻano he kanaka, he maʻalahi loa mākou a kōkua kēia iā mākou e ʻike i ka vibe o kahi kanaka.
8. Ka nele o ka ʻike
ʻO ka nui o ka ʻike e hōʻike ʻia ai iā mākou, ʻo ka maʻalahi ka hana ʻana i nā manaʻo o haʻi.
Eia nō naʻe, hōʻike mai nā ʻike pili pili pūnaewele iā mākou me ka ʻike nui wale e pili ana i kā mākou pili pono. ʻO kēia ka mea ʻaʻole mākou e hōʻike ʻia me kēlā me kēia.
9. Nui nā ʻike hoʻopunipuni
Kuhi ʻia kahi o kēlā me kēia 10 pili pili pili i ka pūnaewele.
Wahi a ka FBI, ʻoi aku ma mua o $ 50 miliona i nalo i nā scam romance i kēlā me kēia makahiki. Hoʻoholo ʻia kahi polokalamu hoʻowalewale he 600 a ʻoi paha kālā i kēlā me kēia lā.
10. Pepa, swipe, kamaʻilio a me fizzle
E like me ka hapanui o nā polokalamu pili pūnaewele a me nā pūnaewele, hoʻokūkū ka poʻe a laila kūkākūkā ma mua o ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi lā.
Ma muli o ka nui o nā koho aloha pūnaewele a me nā miliona o nā ʻikepili e koho ai, hoʻopau ka poʻe me ka ʻoi aku o ka mea e pono ai. Alakaʻi kēia i kahi kūkā kamaʻilio pōkole ʻana, e pīpī nei kekahi a laila e lele ka pilina.
11. Lilo nā kamaʻilio kūkā
Inā ʻoe kekahi e hilinaʻi i nā kamaʻilio e hoʻopaʻa hou i ka paʻa, hoʻohoka paha kēia iā ʻoe.
Loaʻa i nā kānaka ʻelua ka manawa e loiloi ai, hoʻomaopopo a ana ai i kekahi. ʻO kēia kahi hiʻohiʻona o ka honua wikiwiki, hoʻololi mau a me kahi hanauna o ka poʻe e manaʻo e holo ana nā mea i ka wikiwiki.
12. Nā papa hana paʻa a me nā kaohi manawa
Inā ʻo ʻoe kekahi o kēlā poʻe e pau ka hana ʻana ma nā hopena pule a lawe mai paha i ka hana home i kēlā me kēia manawa, ʻaʻole paha no ʻoe ka pili pūnaewele. ʻO ke kanaka i paʻa ka papa kuhikuhi, nā hoʻohiki ʻē aʻe a me ka manawa ʻole no lākou e ʻike paha i ka pili pūnaewele ma kahi o ka nui.
13. Hana i nā manawa ma mua o ka leʻaleʻa
No ka launa pū ʻana me ka pūnaewele, pono e hoʻolilo i ka manawa i ka heʻe ʻana, ka heluhelu ʻana i nā meaola, ka helu ʻana i nā moʻolelo a laila e komo ana i nā kamaʻilio ʻana ma o nā leka a i ʻole nā kelepona.
Me he mea lā he hana luhi kēia no ka poʻe helu i kēlā me kēia minuke. Maʻaneʻi, ke kanana nei ʻoe ma waena o kahi loko wai nui maoli no hoʻokahi kanaka kūikawā. Hiki ke hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa a luhi hoʻi i ka naʻau.
14. ʻO ka hōʻole a me nā hopena i ka manaʻo pilikino
Inā ʻoe e hakakā me nā pilikia pilikino a hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho, e hoʻopau loa ka launa pūnaewele ʻana iā ʻoe.
ʻO ka hapanui o mākou e hakakā nei mai ka hopohopo kaiāulu, nā hopohopo o ka helehelena a me nā mea hou aku e hōʻino ai i ko mākou manaʻo pilikino. Me ka nānā, ʻoluʻolu a makemake ʻole paha, i nā hiʻohiʻona, nā helehelena, a me nā helehelena o ke kino, e laha ana ka hōʻole a me ka hoʻohoka.
15. E lawe mai i kāu pāʻani A
Inā maʻi ka manaʻo o "pāʻani i ka pāʻani" i kou ʻōpū, ʻaʻole paha no ʻoe ka pili pūnaewele ʻana.
I kahi honua e leʻaleʻa nei i ka pāʻani ʻana i nā hana maʻalea a me nā pāʻani a paʻa i kā lākou kāleka kokoke i ko lākou puʻuwai; ua lilo ka launa pūnaewele ʻana i mea pāʻani hoihoi, pīhoihoi. ʻImi ka hapa nui o kēia mau pūnaewele pili i ka hauʻoli i ka pohihihi, ka huki ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a i ʻole ke moe ʻana i nā niho.
16. Kaohi iki ʻana
ʻO ke kī i ka lanakila ʻana ma ka launa pūnaewele ʻana e pāʻani ana i ka pāʻani a ʻaʻole ia he mea e pono ai a makemake ʻole ʻia e makemake ʻia ʻoe e ka lehulehu.
I ka hanauna makaʻu i ka naʻau a me nā manaʻo, inā ʻoe e ʻike i ka poʻe ma Tinder a i ʻole Grindr e ʻike i kou mau manaʻo maoli, hoʻoweliweli wale paha ʻoe iā lākou me kou ikaika.
Ua koho ʻia aia ma kahi o 8,000 mau pūnaewele pili aloha ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa.
Hoʻopili kēia i ka Match, Bumble, Tinder a me Bristlr, kahi pūnaewele pili na ka poʻe aloha ʻumiʻumi. A ke komo nei ka poʻe mai ka honua holoʻokoʻa i kēia ʻike kū hoʻokahi. ʻO ke kī e hōʻoia i ka mea āu e ʻimi kikoʻī nei a inā ʻoe e komo i kēia ʻano o ka poʻe puni aloha pūnaewele.