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- Ka pili ʻāhiu loa
- Nā hōʻailona pono o ka haunaele moekolohe ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine:
- 1. Mālama i kahi maka makaʻala
- 2. E hoʻomākeʻaka a kolohe hoʻi, akā e ʻoki i ka hana keaka
- 3. Mai hoʻokuʻu i ka manawa e hoʻomaikaʻi
- 4. Kūkulu i kahi kokoke me ka hānai ʻana me ka pōʻino
- 5. Hōʻike i kāu waiwai maikaʻi loa, pāʻani i kou ikaika
- Hōʻalo i kēia kuhihewa kuhihewa ʻoiai e hoʻāʻo nei e kūkulu i ka huhū wahine
- E hoʻomanaʻo e hana ma ia inā pono ʻoe, akā mai hōʻalo
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka wikiwiki o ka huhū moekolohe kahi manaʻo hoʻohauʻoli, e lawe i mua i kāu kumu holoholona nui ʻoiai ʻoe e leʻaleʻa nei i kahi manaʻo lush, fuzzy e wahī ana iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia manawa a puni kēia kanaka.
Ma waho aʻe o ke kaniʻuhū ʻana, nā ʻū ʻana o ka naʻau i loko o ke kino, a me kahi vibe moekolohe ma waena o nā poʻe ʻelua i ʻume ʻia kekahi i kekahi, hiki ke hāʻawi maikaʻi ʻia ke kūkaʻi moekolohe i ka pili pili kino. Hiki iā ʻoe ke koho e hana a hana ʻole i kāu huki maka, ʻāhiu, a me ka leʻa i kekahi i kekahi.
Ka pili ʻāhiu loa
Hiki ke wehewehe pono ʻia nā ʻōuli o ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano he naʻau hoʻokiʻekiʻe kahi āu e makemake ai e kalaiwa i luna a hele wāwae paha e ʻike i kēia kanaka, e leʻaleʻa i kahi kokoke i kekahi i kekahi, a hoʻomaka pū me ka maikaʻi e pili ana i kou helehelena ke hele mua i mua o ke aniani i ke kakahiaka.
Hiki ke hoʻopau ʻia ka pili hihiu maoli a ʻike ʻia ke kūlike o ke kino i ka wāwahi honua, ka wahine cathartic a i ʻole noho wale paha e like me ia, e like me ka lewa e kau ʻia ana ka manaʻo e kau ana i kahi manawa a laila e nalo hope ana. (Eia nō naʻe, maikaʻi a kū mau ia!)
Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i nā hōʻailona e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai he pili kolohe ka legit a me nā ala e hoʻomau ai i kēia ʻano moekolohe, mai nānā hou aku.
Nā hōʻailona pono o ka haunaele moekolohe ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine:
- ʻO kahi maka maka i hui pū ʻia me nā nānā i ʻaihue ʻia e oscillate ma waena o kahi hoʻomaha a me kahi pānaʻi - e hōʻailona ana i kahi vibe kolohe.
- Awkwardness i kāu pilina kahi e hakakā nei me ka makemake e kī ʻole i ka pihi panic a puni kou manawa o kēia manawa.
- ʻIke ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e moemoeā pinepine ana e pili ana i ke kanaka maʻa mau i kahi hanana pakele moekolohe, aneane he ʻano maʻamau.
- ʻO kahi vibe uila ma kahi āu e hakakā ai i ka makemake e hoʻopā i ke kanaka a hoʻopau wale i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā lākou no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike koke i nā ahi ahi.
- Aia kahi pilina flirtatious i kēlā me kēia pilina āu e kaʻana like ai me lākou.
- ʻO kou mau hoaaloha a i ʻole nā hoapili, inā he wahi hana ia, e ʻōlelo iā ʻoe e kaʻana like i kahi kemika crackling.
- ʻO ka pīhoihoi āu e ʻike ai i kēlā me kēia manawa a lākou e hele aʻe nei he palpable. ʻO kā lākou hele wāwae, ʻakaʻaka, a i ʻole ʻo ko lākou alo ka mea hōʻeuʻeu wahine hope loa iā ʻoe.
- Maʻaleʻale kou ʻōlelo kino i mua o lākou a aia kou mau ʻōwili maka a me nā minoʻaka lopsided e ʻike ai a ʻike wale ia!
ʻAʻole paʻakikī ka wehewehe ʻana i nā hōʻailona hoʻopilikia moekolohe mai ke kāne a wahine paha. Hōʻike kēia mau hōʻailona o ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa moekolohe i nā kāne a me nā wahine he manawa kūpono no ka lawe ʻana i nā mea i ka pae aʻe.
Inā ʻoe e ʻike nei i kēia mau hōʻailona kemika moekolohe a ʻimi ʻoe i nā ala e kūkulu ai i ka haunaele moekolohe ʻoi aku ka nui, a laila eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ke kūkulu ʻana i ka moekolohe me kahi kāne a wahine paha.
Nā hōʻailona o ke kemika a pehea e kūkulu ai i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa moekolohe me kahi wahine a kāne paha, me ka ʻole o ka lawehala:
1. Mālama i kahi maka makaʻala
ʻO ka nānā maka maka a me nā nānā i ʻaihue ʻia ʻo kāu keu ʻoi loa loa ma ka hoʻopili ʻana i ke āpau ma waena o ka mahalo ʻana a me ka lilo ʻana i hoa hana hewa. E maʻalea, ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hele mai ma ke ʻano he predator ma ka prowl.
E nānā, e paʻa i kēlā maka me kahi mehana pumehana, uila i kahi minoʻaka pumehana wikiwiki a laila e nānā i kahi kekona.
Kēia ala, hana ʻoe iā lākou e haʻohaʻo inā ke nānā nei ʻoe iā lākou, a i ʻole he nānā iki iki paha ia he mea ʻole. Hiki i ke kaomi a me ka huki a me ka mokuʻāina o ka kānalua ke hāʻawi i kahi kuʻi nui i ka hoʻomaka o ke kūkulu wahine hoihoi.
2. E hoʻomākeʻaka a kolohe hoʻi, akā e ʻoki i ka hana keaka
Ma kahi o ka pīhoihoi nui, a i ʻole ke hana ʻana i ka alualu i ka mikiona o kou ola, e mālama i nā mea maʻalahi me ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi o nā pilikia a i ʻole nā hopena e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ka hoʻomākeʻaka a puni, e hoʻomākeʻaka ai, a me ka moekolohe akā ʻaʻole haumia. Eia kekahi, e hoʻomāmā i nā mea āpau, mai hana i kāu mea i hoʻokalakupua ʻia ʻo ke kiko nui hope loa. Hiki i kāu nānā pono ʻole i ke kanaka ke hoʻokau iā lākou a holo no ka uhi! Ma waho aʻe, ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hele mai ma ke ʻano he kanaka nele, hoihoi ʻole.
3. Mai hoʻokuʻu i ka manawa e hoʻomaikaʻi
Inā maikaʻi ke nānā aku kāu crush a i ʻole ko lākou lauoho, ʻala, ʻakaʻaka, a me nā kāmaʻa - kiʻi kekahi i kou makemake, e hoʻokuʻu i kahi mahalo. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e nuanced me ke ʻano o ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana. E hoʻomanaʻo e hoʻohana i ka meahana nunui-facetised o nā hoʻomaikaʻi maoli.
ʻO kahi mea noʻonoʻo, manaʻo maikaʻi maikaʻi hiki ke lilo i mea hoʻomaka kūkā kamaʻilio maikaʻi a me kahi mea hoʻoikaika naʻau no kāu mea hoihoi.
Noho mālie no kahi kamaʻilio pōkole pōkole, kamaʻilio ʻole ma hope o kou mahalo ʻana iā lākou a hoʻolohi i kāu mau ʻakaʻaka.
E maopopo leʻa ʻaʻole ʻoe i ka wikiwiki o ka haehae e hoʻi i kahi mea, a like me ke kū ʻana i ka haʻalele.
4. Kūkulu i kahi kokoke me ka hānai ʻana me ka pōʻino
ʻO ka hānai ʻana ʻo Accidental kahi ʻano akahai loa o ke aloha ʻana.
E hoʻomaopopo iā lākou i ke kani o ka piʻina o ka moekolohe ma ka hānai ʻana i kou lima e kūʻē iā lākou a i ʻole ka hoʻopā iki ʻana i ko lākou kua i ke ala maikaʻi ʻole. E hoʻomanaʻo e hana i kahi manaʻo noʻonoʻo i nā hōʻailona o ka pānaʻi a i ʻole hōʻoluʻolu ʻole.
E hoʻohana i kēia mau ʻōuli maʻamau ma ke ʻano he mea kūkulu kolohe moekolohe.
5. Hōʻike i kāu waiwai maikaʻi loa, pāʻani i kou ikaika
E flamboyant me ka hele ʻole mai ma ke ʻano he keiki hānai kō.
ʻOluʻolu ka exuberance. Hoʻokomo i ka hoihoi i kāu kamaʻilio ʻana. E paulele i ka hōʻike ʻana i kou kino a i ʻole kou minoʻaka nani me ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho.
ʻO ka lole e pīhoihoi i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i kekahi manawa ʻoiai ʻoe e ʻaʻahu ʻia no ka hana inā ʻo kāu hoa hana ʻo ia kou hoa hana a i ʻole ʻo ia kekahi ma ka papa leʻaleʻa. ʻAʻole wale ia e hoʻonui ai i kou pae hilinaʻi akā e hopu pū i nā maka maka mai kāu prospect a i ʻole kekahi mau hoa hele mua.
ʻAno ʻole ʻo Flashy. ʻO ʻoe ka luna kānāwai ʻoi loa o ka mea e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi me kāu hana. Hehi me ka akahele.
Hōʻalo i kēia kuhihewa kuhihewa ʻoiai e hoʻāʻo nei e kūkulu i ka huhū wahine
ʻAʻole e ʻokiʻoki ke kamaʻilio moekolohe iā ia inā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e kūkulu i kahi huhū moekolohe.
ʻO nā kāne a me nā wahine, makemake i nā mea ʻelua i ka wā o ka hoʻopunipuni. ʻO ke kamaʻilio kolohe ʻo Blatant ka buzzkill hope loa a lawe aku i ka hana ʻana o kahi wikiwiki hormonal. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele mai i kahi ʻilihune a me ka weliweli.
Pepehi kanaka ia i ka intrigue!
E hoʻomanaʻo e hana ma ia inā pono ʻoe, akā mai hōʻalo
E kāhea i ka hoʻokolokolo inā makemake ʻoe e hele i waho, a i waho paha.
Inā ʻoe e hana i ka haunaele ma waena ou a me ke kanaka, e make ia i ka hopena, a i ʻole makemake ʻoe e lawe i kahi pae aʻe - e noʻonoʻo i ka lōʻihi o kou ʻae e lawe.
Ma mua o kou hoʻohana ʻana i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kūkulu a hoʻomau i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa moekolohe nui, hoʻomaha e ʻike i kāu mea e makemake ai.
Inā koho ʻoe e waiho i ke kī haʻahaʻa, i kahi hūnā hūnā maikaʻi ʻia a i ʻole ʻike ʻia ka pili moe kolohe i loko o ka manawa hihiu loa ma waena o nā pale, e hoʻomanaʻo e ʻono i kēlā me kēia manawa o kēia vibe vibe hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke kau i nā huaʻōlelo.
ʻO ke kī e leʻaleʻa iā ia ʻoiai e mau ana!