Anter
- 1. Ke kōkua ʻana i kāu wahine a puni ka hale
- 2. Ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi mana hoʻoikaika i kāu wahine
- 3. He hoʻolohe maikaʻi ʻoe
- 4. Hana ʻoe i ka mea liʻiliʻi loa i nā mea nui
- 5. Ua hoʻonohonoho pololei ʻoe i kāu mau makahiapo
- 6. Hoʻolālā mau ʻoe i nā huakaʻi aloha me kāu wahine
- 7. Ua hoʻomohala ʻoe i kahi huaʻōlelo hoʻonui
- 8. Hoʻomaikaʻi ʻoe iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa loaʻa iā ʻoe
Ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe inā ʻoe ke ʻano kāne e pono ai kāu wahine, no ke aha ʻoe e heluhelu ai a ʻike.
1. Ke kōkua ʻana i kāu wahine a puni ka hale
ʻAʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ka nani ma mua o ke kāne i ʻike i kona ala a puni ka lumi kuke a i ʻole ka holoi lole?
He pilikia nui nā hana a hāʻawi hāʻawi lima ʻoe e kaʻana like i kekahi o nā hana i hana maʻalahi i ke ola no kāu wahine.
Inā ʻoe kekahi o nā mea maikaʻi ma mua o kou kuʻi ʻana i kēlā me kēia manawa a laila holoi i nā pā, holoi lole, koho i nā keiki mai ke kula a i ʻole kūʻai aku no nā mea kūʻai no ka mea ʻike ʻoe he wahine ʻoe a aia pū ʻoe i kēia. ʻaʻole pono e hana hoʻokahi wale nō a hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi mau iā ʻoe.
2. Ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi mana hoʻoikaika i kāu wahine
Ke kāne male pono ʻoe e launa me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kāu wahine e like me ʻoe he mana ponoʻī kāna, nā moemoeā, a me nā moeʻuhane.
Hoʻonāukiuki mau ʻoe iā ia e alualu i nā mea āna e makemake ai e kākau ana i kahi blog, a i ʻole e hoʻomaka ana i kāna ʻoihana ponoʻī; ʻike ʻoe ua ʻike ʻo ia hilinaʻi ʻoe i kāna mākaukau a hilinaʻi ʻoe i kāna mau mākau a me kona hiki.
ʻAʻohe mea e kaena aʻe ma mua o ka hāʻawi iā ia e kū ikaika a hoʻokō i kāna mau pahuhopu.
3. He hoʻolohe maikaʻi ʻoe
ʻO nā mea a nā wahine e aloha maoli ai a pono ai ma mua o nā mea āpau o kēia ao kahi mea e hoʻolohe iā lākou, kahi mea e hāʻawi iā lākou i mea nui, a me kekahi mea mālama iā lākou.
Inā ʻoe he hoʻolohe leʻaleʻa a laila he gula ʻoe; Hoʻomaopopo ʻoe e hoʻolohe i kāu wahine inā paha no kāna lā, kāna kiʻi ʻoniʻoni punahele, a i ʻole kahi hoʻomanaʻo ʻana o ka wā kamaliʻi mai ka wā i hala, a i ʻole he mau makemake a hōʻike ʻole paha e hilahila ʻo ia e kamaʻilio.
Nīnau ʻoe i nā nīnau hāmama a hoʻolohe me ka hoihoi i kāna pane paha.
Kōkua kēia iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo pono i nā pono o kāu wahine a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke komo ʻana i ka ʻike kūpono e like me kēlā hale ʻaina āna i makemake mau ai e hoʻāʻo akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa kahi manawa a i kēlā lole āna i makemake ai e kūʻai i kēia e loaʻa iā ʻoe a me nā helu i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
4. Hana ʻoe i ka mea liʻiliʻi loa i nā mea nui
ʻO nā maʻa māmā o ke aloha ke hoʻohui ʻia i ka maʻa mau ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma mua o nā hana nui o ke aloha i kekahi manawa.
Mai kuhi hewa iaʻu, pīhoihoi ka pīhoihoi sporadic, a aloha nā wahine iā lākou.
Akā ʻo nā mea liʻiliʻi ma waena o kēlā mau hōʻike opulent o ke aloha, e lūlū i kahi ʻanoʻano o ke aloha a me ke aloha i loko o ka puʻuwai o kāu wahine lokomaikaʻi; ʻo ia kahi āna e ʻike ʻole ai a kupu mālie ia i loko o kahi māla o ke aloha nāu.
He ala kūpono kēia e ʻike ai he kāne maoli ʻoe inā lawe ʻoe iā ia i ke kīʻaha wai me ka ʻole o kāna noi ʻana, kuke iā ia i kahi pāʻina, hāʻawi iā ia i ka lomilomi wāwae ma hope o nā lā lōʻihi e hana a waiho paha i nā leka no kāna haʻi ʻana iā ia. Aloha ʻoe iā ia a laila ke hele nei ʻoe i ke ala kūpono.
5. Ua hoʻonohonoho pololei ʻoe i kāu mau makahiapo
Leʻaleʻa nā manawa i kou wā ʻōpio ʻōpio e kau pū ana me nā keiki, a i ʻole ke noho ʻana i ka pō i hala, a ke aloha nei me nā wahine ʻē aʻe.
I kēia manawa ʻokoʻa nā mea āu i aloha ai iā ʻoe e kali ana iā ʻoe ma ka home, a aia kekahi mau mea āu e pono ai e ʻokiʻoki mai kāu papa inoa o nā mea leʻaleʻa e hana.
Hele mua kāu wahine ma mua o kāu mau hoaaloha, a ma mua o kāu shenanigans keikikāne, a ʻaneʻane hoʻokomo mua ʻoe i kāu wahine i nā mea āpau; pili pololei kēia hana i kāu male.
6. Hoʻolālā mau ʻoe i nā huakaʻi aloha me kāu wahine
Ia ʻoe, ʻaʻole hōʻailona ka male i ka hopena o kāu aloha. ʻo ka hoʻomaka wale ia o ia.
Ke ʻimi mau nei ʻoe i nā ala hana e noho aliʻi ai i kou ola aloha e hoʻolālā pinepine nei i nā pō o ka lā a i ʻole nā pakele wale nō i hiki ai iā ʻolua ke noho i kekahi manawa me kekahi.
ʻO ke kumu āu e hana ai i kēia ke ʻike piha nei ʻoe i ka hauʻoli o kāu wahine, a ʻo kou pilina me ia he mea nui loa iā ʻoe.
7. Ua hoʻomohala ʻoe i kahi huaʻōlelo hoʻonui
Ma kahi o ka maʻalahi, monotonous, pinepine mau ʻōlelo hou o ka hōʻike ponoʻī āu e kamaʻilio ai ma o ka repertoire waiwai o nā huaʻōlelo e hōʻike i kāu makemake i ka naʻau a makemake i kahi ala e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻomaopopo.
ʻO nā ʻōlelo māpopo e like me "Sure meli nā mea āu e ʻōlelo ai," "ʻAʻohe oʻu manaʻo" a i ʻole "ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu e pili ana i kēia" me ka ʻole o kahi wehewehe kūpono a i ʻole ka wehewehe ʻana e hōʻike pono ʻole i ka mea āu e hoʻāʻo nei e kamaʻilio inā ʻoe maikaʻi loa ma kēia wahi ma mua o ke kāne kāne weliweli ʻoe.
8. Hoʻomaikaʻi ʻoe iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa loaʻa iā ʻoe
ʻAʻohe mea e aloha i kāu wahine e like me kahi mea momona e hoʻonaninani iā ia.
Hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻoe i kēlā me kēia hoʻoikaika ʻana e hana ai i kona helehelena ke ʻike a mahalo ʻia. ʻOiai ʻo ʻoe ke kāne hemolele āu, ʻo nā mea āpau āu e makemake ai i kāu wahine e aloha a hauʻoli.