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- ʻOkoʻa ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
- 1. Hoʻomaka me ka hana ʻana i kāu pili aloha
- 2. E hana i kāu pili moekolohe
- 3. Manaʻo hilinaʻi a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi i kou kino
- 4. Mai ʻike pehea e hoʻomaka ai? E kipa aku i kahi hoʻoponopono wahine
- 5. No ka moekolohe nui, mai lawe i ka huhū i loko o ka lumi moe
Pīhoihoi ka nui o nā kāne male ke ʻike lākou i ka moekolohe wela ʻaʻole ia he mea e kūlohelohe ke male ʻia kahi kāne. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, hōʻike nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a me nā kīwī iā mākou i ke kahe mau o nā kiʻi moekolohe, kahi e hiamoe ai ke kāne a me ka wahine i ka moena, hoʻomaka koke ke aloha aloha kiʻekiʻe, e leʻaleʻa ana kekahi i kekahi i ka manawa like (i ʻelima mau minuke, luna), a laila cuddle a hāwanawana i nā huaʻōlelo palupalu o ke aloha a lōʻihi i ka pō.
ʻOkoʻa ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
ʻAʻole kūlohelohe ka moekolohe maikaʻi a pono mākou e haʻalele i ka manaʻo "ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hana a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe iā mākou." Kūlike ʻole ka pili koke a me ka pili pono ʻole; hana kēia i ka manawa e kūkulu ma waena o nā kānaka ʻelua. He aha kekahi mau ala e hiki ai iā mākou ke hana leʻaleʻa i ka wahine male?
1. Hoʻomaka me ka hana ʻana i kāu pili aloha
Eia kahi ʻoiaʻiʻo ola: haku ʻia ka moekolohe nui i ʻelua mau mea: ka pilina a me ka pili wahine. Inā hoʻokahi wale nō o kēia mau mea, ʻaʻole e lawe ka wahine iā ʻoe i paradaiso, a ʻaʻole hoʻi ia he mea hoʻomanaʻo.
He aha kā mākou e manaʻo ai e pili ka naʻau? ʻO ka pilina aloha ka manaʻo o ka ʻike maoli i kāu wahine: kāna mau makaʻu āpau, nāwaliwali, nā kuko, ka huhū, nā ʻeha i hala a me nā leʻaleʻa o kēia manawa. ʻO ia ka manaʻo ʻo kāu wahine kāu puʻuhonua palekana no ka wā e hoʻolei ke ola iā ʻoe i kahi pōpō curve a ʻelua paha. ʻO ka manaʻo ke pili ʻoe me kāu pakanā, ʻo ʻoe ka "home."
Pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hoʻonui i ka pili o ka naʻau i kā mākou wahine i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka wahine?
Nui a hewahewa nā ala e hoʻonui ai i ka pili naʻau i loaʻa iā ʻoe me kāu hoa. E hoʻomaka me ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kekahi i kekahi ma ke ʻano kūpono ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i ka lā. ʻO kēia ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻana me ka puʻuwai me ka ʻole o nā mea hoʻonāukiuki: ʻaʻohe kelepona, ʻaʻohe pc, ʻaʻohe kīwī a papapa paha i hoʻokahi lima ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻolohe hapalua ana i kāu kāne i ka nānā pono ʻana i ka pakuhi. ʻAʻole ia he ala kūpono e hoʻopili aku ai me ia a hana ʻole i kekahi mea e hāpai i ka pilina aloha.
Ma waho aʻe o ka kamaʻilio maoli ʻana me kāu kāne, hiki ke hoʻoikaika ʻia ka pilina ʻuhane ma o ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ka manawa me ka hana pū ʻana i kekahi mea e hauʻoli ai ʻolua e aʻo. Hiki i kēia ke lilo i haʻuki hou, a i ʻole papa papa makua, a i ʻole kekahi mea e hoihoi hou e like me ka lomilomi a yoga paha o nā kāne ʻelua. Ke hoʻopiʻi nei i kou noʻonoʻo a me kou kino i kahi hana e pili ana iā ʻolua e kūkulu maoli i kāu waihona o ka pilina pili i ka naʻau.
2. E hana i kāu pili moekolohe
No laila ke ulu nei kou pili pili i ka naʻau i kēlā me kēia lā. E lawe kāua i kēlā a hoʻomaka i ka nānā ʻana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hauʻoli hou aʻe mai kou ola wahine.
3. Manaʻo hilinaʻi a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi i kou kino
Apo i kou kino, kahi kūpono i kēia manawa, a ʻike pehea ia e lawe pono ai iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia lā. Hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe iho ua aloha kāu kāne i kou kino a ua hauʻoli ia. Pēlā nō ʻoe! Inā ʻoe e hana nei i ke aloha ponoʻī, a he wahi hilahila iki ke nānā ʻoe i ke aniani a ʻike ʻoe ke hāpai nei i kahi kaona keu, a ʻaʻole makemake i kou mau ʻūhā a me kou ʻōpū, mai hopohopo.
ʻIke nā wahine he nui i ka mea huna i ka pīhoihoi i kā lāua kāne, a me ka uhi ʻana i ka mea e pale aku ai iā lākou mai ka manuahi i ka moena: lingerie. Inā ʻoe e hopohopo e pili ana i kou ʻōpū, e hoʻokomo i kahi kāmeka maikaʻi. ʻIghkū keu paha? Pehea e pili ana i kekahi mau stockings a me kahi kāʻei garter? E nani ʻoe; e manaʻo kāu kāne ua ʻoi aku kou mahana ma mua o ka wā ma mua. E ʻae kēia mau mea āpau iā ʻoe e hōʻike iā ʻoe iho a me kou mau makemake i loko o ka lumi moe, e hoʻonui ana i kou leʻaleʻa wahine.
4. Mai ʻike pehea e hoʻomaka ai? E kipa aku i kahi hoʻoponopono wahine
Inā he mau nīnau kāu e pili ana i ka mea a no ke aha ka hauʻoli o ka moekolohe, e hoʻomaka me kahi mea hoʻoponopono wahine. Mai kali a hiki i ka manawa e kūkulu ai ʻoe me kāu kāne i kahi pae o ka huhū ma muli o ka naʻaupō e pili ana i nā orgasms a i ʻole nā erogenous zones. Hiki i kekahi mau kau me kahi mea hoʻoponopono moekolohe ke lilo i mea ʻike nui a wehe iā ʻoe e ʻimi i kāu moekolohe a pau me ka hilahila ʻole a me ke kanalua ʻole.
Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka mea hoʻoponopono moekolohe, nui nā puke a me nā pūnaewele i hiki ke kōkua. E hoʻolōʻihi i kou manawa ma ka heluhelu ʻana i nā mōhai a pau a e kahakaha i nā mea hoihoi iā ʻoe. E kaʻana i kēia i kāu kāne a nīnau iā ia i ka mea maikaʻi iā ia pū kekahi.
E wehe i nā kapu kapu ma mua, e like me nā mea pāʻani a me ka masturbation. ʻO kaʻoluʻolu iho kahi ala maikaʻi loa e aʻo ai i nā mea āu e makemake ai, i ke kaʻina a me ka ikaika. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopili i kāu kāne i kēia hana. (E aloha ʻo ia iā ia, paulele iā mākou!). Hiki ke kōkua nui i nā hāmeʻa moekolohe i ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe e leʻaleʻa i ka moekolohe ʻoiai hiki iā lākou ke hāʻawi i kahi pae o ka hoʻonāukiuki āu i ʻike ʻole ʻole ai ma mua, e kōkua ana iā ʻoe e kiʻi maʻalahi i ka orgasm. E hoʻomanaʻo: ʻaʻohe mea hilahila i kēia, a ʻo nā hana āpau i consensual a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka leʻaleʻa he hana maikaʻi!
5. No ka moekolohe nui, mai lawe i ka huhū i loko o ka lumi moe
He paʻakikī, inā ʻaʻole hiki ʻole, e leʻaleʻa maoli i ka moekolohe me kāu kāne inā ʻoe e huhū nei a huhū paha iā ia. Hiki i kēlā mau manaʻo ʻelua ke lilo i knell make i kāu moekolohe. No laila inā he mau pilikia āu e paʻa nei, e kūkākūkā pono me kāu kāne. Hana i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kēlā mau pilikia i hiki iā ʻoe a me ia ke komo piha i ke aloha me ka huhū ʻole ʻia.
ʻO ke aloha leʻaleʻa e pili ana i kahi nui o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana, a makemake ʻoe e hiki ke hana a piha me ka makemake. Inā ʻoe e hiamoe malū i ka huhū no ka mea ua poina iā ia e lawe hou i ka hana hou ʻana i ka ʻaoʻao, e kamaʻilio i kēlā me ke ala akahai i hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i nā mea leʻaleʻa e like me ka wahine.