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- 1. E kamaʻilio
- 2. Mai lawe wale iā ia
- 3. Mahalo iā ia
- 4. Kahaha iā ia
- 5. Mai hoʻoholo iā ʻoe iho
- 6. Mai hōʻino iā ia ma ka nānā ʻana i nā wahine ʻē aʻe
- 7. E hoʻopono, akā ʻaʻole i loko ʻole me ka brutally
- 8. E komo i nā hana aloha
- 9. E lilo i kāne ma ka hele ʻole ʻana mai nā pilikia
He paʻakikī loa ka hapanui o nā kāne e hōʻoluʻolu i nā wahine. ʻO kēia no ka hōʻole ʻana e hōʻoia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he ʻokoʻa loa nā kāne a me nā wahine. A ma luna o kēlā, ʻano ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia lede a makemake, manaʻo a makemake i nā mea like ʻole.
ʻO ia ke kumu i huli ai ka hapanui o nā kāne i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili maikaʻi loa no nā kāne i mea e mālama ai i kā lākou wahine a māʻona ʻo ia.
He mea nui ia e ʻike i ka hapa nui o nā wahine a me nā kāne i kā lākou mau pono kūikawā. I hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolako i kāu wahine i nā mea e pono ai, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo iā ia. Ke maopopo pono iā ia, hiki iā ʻoe ke māʻona i ka wahine āu i pili ai.
No laila he aha nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili maikaʻi loa e ʻike ai nā kāne?
1. E kamaʻilio
ʻOiai he mea paʻakikī paha iā ʻoe ke hōʻike iā ia i ka mea e hele nei i loko o kou poʻo akā he mea nui loa kēia.
E kamaʻilio me ia e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo a me ka huikau e hele nei i kou poʻo; e hele wāwae iā ia ma waena o ka huhū huna āu i ʻōmole ai ma muli o kāu pili.
E kōkua kēia i ka hana ʻana i kahi pilina olakino.
2. Mai lawe wale iā ia
Mai lawe wale i kāu hoapili.
E noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole lākou ʻaiʻē e hana i kekahi mea nāu. Inā kuke ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kekahi mea a hoʻomaʻemaʻe paha, a laila mai lawe wale iā ia a noʻonoʻo ʻo ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe kāna kuleana.
ʻAʻole ia! Hana ʻo ia no ka mea makemake ʻo ia ʻaʻole no ka mea pono ʻo ia.
3. Mahalo iā ia
Aloha ʻoe i kāu mau wahine, a he mea nui ia i kou ola akā no ke aha e paʻakikī ai ʻoe e haʻi iā ia. No ke aha e hōʻike ʻole ai i kou manaʻo i kēlā me kēia manawa?
Pono kēlā me kēia wahine i ka mahalo no laila e aʻo e mahalo iā ia me kāu ʻōlelo momona a hoʻohauʻoli iā ia.
4. Kahaha iā ia
Makemake kēlā wahine kēia wahine e pūʻiwa. ʻAʻole ia e ulana iā ia akā ua hauʻoli ʻo ia iā ia.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kahaha hou i kāu ipo wahine, a laila pono ʻoe e hoʻomaka e hana. Kahaha ka manaʻo ʻaʻole pipiʻi i nā mea nani a huakaʻi paha i kekahi wahi posh; hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopūʻiwa iā ia ma ka hoʻi ʻana mai i ka home i ke kakahiaka nui, ke kūʻai ʻana i nā pua, ke kiʻi ʻana i kāna ipo punahele a me nā mea hou aku.
5. Mai hoʻoholo iā ʻoe iho
He kuhi hewa kēia o ka hapanui o nā kāne ke hana i ka wā o ka pilina.
Heʻoiaʻiʻo nō ʻoe e kūpaʻa ana, a ʻo ia nā mea āpau āu, ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻoe e uku no nā bila a he kuleana kālā nui kāu, akā ʻaʻohe mea e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke kuleana e hoʻoholo ai i kāu wahine iho. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia.
ʻAʻole ʻoe iā ʻoe kāu hoa, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻoholo iā ia me ka nīnau ʻole ʻana iā ia a me ka noi ʻana i kona manaʻo.
Inā hiki mai kahi mea a ʻolua mau wahine e ʻae ʻole ai a laila e noho ʻoe, e kūkākūkā a e hoʻoholo i ka hoʻoholo like.
6. Mai hōʻino iā ia ma ka nānā ʻana i nā wahine ʻē aʻe
Ke komo i kahi ākea, alo i ka nānā ʻana i nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe me kāu kaikamahine a puni.
Inā ʻoe e ʻōlani i nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe, he mea hōʻino a hōʻino ʻole ia. Hana kēia i ka maluhia ʻole i ka pilina a hānau koke i nā pilikia hilinaʻi. Ma kahi o ka hōʻino ʻana i kou pilina, e kau mau kou mau maka i kāu mau wahine a waiho i nā mea mai laila.
7. E hoʻopono, akā ʻaʻole i loko ʻole me ka brutally
ʻAe, he mea nui e ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻoe i kāu pilina akā ʻaʻole pono i loko o ka brutally.
Hiki i nā wahine ke maʻalahi loa me ka loiloi i mea e kō ai i kāu mau huaʻōlelo a kiʻi i ka leka.
Aia kahi ala polite e ʻōlelo ai i kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole, e hoʻohana i kēia ala ma kahi o ka blunt.
8. E komo i nā hana aloha
ʻOiai ʻoiai ʻo ia me ʻoe a ua lanakila ʻoe ma luna ona, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo no ka pau ʻana o ka woo ʻana iā ia. ʻOiai inā ua noho ʻoe me kekahi i kekahi no kekahi mau makahiki e komo i loko o ke aloha aloha, no laila kekahi mea kūikawā pinepine.
E hoʻonohonoho i kahi ʻaina ahiahi ihoiho kukui, e hana i kahi pō ʻoniʻoni a i ʻole e hele no kahi pīkino. Hana i kahi mea e minoʻaka ai kāu kaikamahine.
9. E lilo i kāne ma ka hele ʻole ʻana mai nā pilikia
Mai huikau i ka manness me ka macho-ness.
ʻO kēia mau mea ʻokoʻa ʻelua- ʻo ke kāne ka maikaʻi ma ke ʻano o ke kāne e like me ka hoʻoholo ʻana, ka hilinaʻi, nā kūlana kiʻekiʻe, ka hoʻopono, ka hoʻopono, ka hoʻoponopono ponoʻī, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe. i kahi pilina me ka hele ʻole.
ʻOiai he mau pono ko kēlā me kēia wahine, makemake lākou āpau i ke aloha, mālama, mahalo, a me ka nānā. ʻO kēia nā kumu e kū ai kāu pilina. ʻAʻole paʻakikī nā wahine e ʻoluʻolu, ʻo nā mea āu e pono ai e holoi iā lākou me ke aloha, mahalo iā lākou, ʻaʻole e lawe iā lākou no ka lilo a nāu lākou āpau.
Inā ma hope o nā makahiki he nui e pili ana i ka wāwae o Homer Simpson ua hiki mai ʻoe ma kēia ʻatikala, a laila e nīnau i kāu wahine inā ʻo ia nā mea āna e makemake ai, e kahaha paha ʻoe i kāna pane.