Anter
- 1. E noʻonoʻo i kāu wahi
- 2. Ke kumuhana
- 3. Mele
- 4. Nā malihini
- 5. Lole lole
- 6. Mea ʻai
- 7. He pāʻina ia
- 8. Nā kuʻuna
- 9. Na lilo
- Pili ke aloha a me ka mahalo i kekahi i kekahi
Ua hiki iaʻu ke paʻi i kēlā kiko i koʻu mau makahiki iwakālua i kahi e ʻike ʻia ka male ʻana o kēlā me kēia mea iaʻu. Ua hoʻomaka ʻia me kahi hoahānau lōʻihi akā ua laki au i ka hala ʻana o ka pule me ka ʻole o ka hoʻolaha kūkā ma Facebook.
ʻO koʻu ʻawaʻawa ka mea e inaina mau ai au i ka male ʻana. Makemake lākou āpau e nānā a hana like - hele ka lole keʻokeʻo ma ke ala, nā wahi haipule, kahi nui, kahi waina liʻiliʻi, a me kahi pā i uku nui ʻia.
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kāne e pili ana i kā lākou papa Pinterest ma mua o ka male maoli, a inā e koi koʻu makuakāne e "hāʻawi iaʻu", ke noho nei wau iā ia no kahi kamaʻilio lōʻihi no ka wahine.
Akā ua hele au i kahi male male i kekahi mau hopena pule aku nei i hala he hauʻoli piha loa ia ʻaʻole wale no ka mea he mau minuke wale nō nā ʻōlelo i kēlā me kēia.
E aloha paha ʻoe i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kāu kāne ʻoi loa i loko o nā ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka no 30 mau minuke, akā ua luhi paha kāu mau malihini kipa a e nānā nei i ka pā.
Ua leʻaleʻa ka male male hou loa no ka mea ua hōʻole ia i nā kuʻuna a me nā kuʻikahi, akā ʻaʻole ia i hōʻole ʻia he male. Ma waena o nā wahine wahine ʻelua, nānā lākou i nā kuʻuna, pehea lākou e pili ai iā lākou, a me nā mea a lākou e makemake ai e hōʻike i kā lākou male.
ʻO kā lāua male male ʻana he kū hoʻokahi a me ka hoʻomehana ʻana o ka puʻuwai, ʻoiai ʻo ka hapa iki o kā lākou waihona kālā.
No laila, i kekahi mau mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hana maʻamau ʻole ai kāu male ʻana -
1. E noʻonoʻo i kāu wahi
Ua hoʻoholo kūʻē nā wahine mare i kekahi hale pule no ka mea ʻaʻole haipule lākou.
ʻIke paha kēia, akā ehia mau poʻe āu e ʻike ai i male i loko o ka hale pule no ka mea he nani nā kiʻi?
ʻO kēia kou lā male, kahi lā e hoʻolauleʻa ai i kou aloha me nā poʻe āu e aloha ai. Pāpaʻu paha ʻoe e nānā wale i nā kiʻi ma hope?
2. Ke kumuhana
ʻElima mau male ʻeono i hala aku nei aʻu i hele ai, me he mea lā he manaʻo like ko nā mea āpau. ʻUā wale nō ia, "He papa Pinterest koʻu chic shabby". Inā ʻo kēia ka mea āu e makemake ai, maikaʻi nā mea a pau, akā ua hele ke ono o ka male me kahi kumuhana moʻokalaleo no ka mea ua hoʻopaʻa mua nā wahine wahine ʻelua i kā lāua aloha i nā puke.
ʻAʻole wale kēlā me kēia malihini kipa i ka lua o ka lima e lawe aku (kahi e kuʻi ana i kahi hake o ka meli i kēlā me kēia lā!), Akā manaʻo ka male male kū hoʻokahi.
Ua kōkua ia i ke kaʻina o ko lākou kuko a me nā kuko i kaʻana like ʻia e ka ʻohana a me nā hoa aloha. ʻO kēlā a me nā puns nā mea kākau puke i hoʻomākaʻakaʻaka iaʻu.
3. Mele
Mahele like nā wahine wahine ʻelua i ka mele, a ʻo kēia kekahi mea a lākou e kaʻana like ai me ko lākou mau ʻohana. He mea nui ka mele iā lākou. A ke manaʻo nei au "nā mea maʻamau i ka hoʻolauleʻa mele lāhui kūloko" mea nui.
Ua koho lākou e hele i ke alaloa (a i ʻole komo i ke keʻena kikoʻī!) Iā Bastille. He pāina kēia a lākou e aloha ai a ʻokoʻa loa i ka huakaʻi male male maʻamau.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole ia he koho kuʻuna o ke mele, nui ia no lāua ʻelua.
Paipai ʻia - Papa Hana Mua ma mua o ka male ʻana
4. Nā malihini
Kanalua wau aia ma mua o 30 mau malihini no ka lā holoʻokoʻa. Hele mai kēlā me kēia malihini i ka hana mua a noho i ka pāʻina. A me ka hōʻalo ʻana i ka pilikia o ka mea i kono ʻia i ka ʻaha a me nā mea i kono wale ʻia i ka pāʻina, hāʻawi kēia i ka lā holoʻokoʻa i kahi ʻano pilina maoli.
Aia kekahi ʻohana pili palena i ka male ma ka male. Akā, ua kono lākou i ka poʻe i manaʻo nui iā lākou.
Hāʻawi ʻia nā kumu aʻo i ka poʻe i huakaʻi i kahi ala lōʻihi, a ʻo ka poʻo poʻo haʻahaʻa i mālama i nā kumukūʻai.
5. Lole lole
ʻO kekahi wahine i komo i ka ʻeke tweed a me nā jeans ʻeleʻele. ʻO ka lole ʻē aʻe i ka lole cocktail ʻōmaʻomaʻo. Ua huli nā malihini i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai, mai kahi kilt a i nā jeans a me nā flannel.
Hāʻawi kēia i ka lā holoʻokoʻa i kahi ʻoluʻolu, hoʻomaha. ʻAʻohe mea e hoʻopiʻi e pili ana i nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae a i ʻole nā lole paʻa i ke awakea.
Ua lohe mākou āpau i nā moʻolelo weliweli o kahi Bridezilla e koi ana i nā malihini e like me nā hiʻohiʻona o ke ala holo, akā no ke aha e pono ai kēia? No nā kiʻi anei? ʻOi aku ka nui o ka helehelena waho ma mua o ka hoʻolauleʻa a me ke aloha āu e kaʻana like ai?
ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i nā poʻe kipa ke huli i kahi lole ʻekolu ʻāpana inā makemake lākou. Ua ʻaʻahu ʻia nā makuahine o ka wahine mare.
ʻO kēia male e pili ana i ka ʻae a me ka hoʻomaopopo.
Hoʻohui, ʻaʻohe mea e komo i nā kuʻekuʻe lapuwale ke kumu o ka hulahula ʻana o nā mea a pau i ka pō.
6. Mea ʻai
Ua hele mua wau i ka male ma kahi o ke kumu kūʻai no £ 50 i ke poʻo, a ua pau wau me kahi puna o ka couscous. Ua hoʻāʻo wau e noʻonoʻo i kēia. Maliʻa paha, ʻo ke kumu kūʻai kiʻekiʻe no ka hoʻomākaukau kai no ka mea ua ʻaʻahu ʻia nā mea kali a lawelawe ʻia ka couscous me kahi kāwele lilina.
ʻOiai ʻono, ʻike wau ʻaʻole pipiʻi ka couscous.
I kēia male ʻana, he ʻai maoli kaʻu no ka mea ua hoʻolimalima nā wahine wahine i kahi kalaka meaʻai kūloko a lākou i aloha ai. Hoʻohui ʻia, ua lawelawe lākou i nā burger no nā puke i kākau ʻia i kūpono i ke kumuhana o ka male. ʻAʻole wale kēia i ʻoi aku ka manaʻo o nā wahine hou, akā he kumukūʻai a maikaʻi maoli nō ia.
He pā ʻaina hoʻi kā lākou i hui pū iā lākou iho me nā huakaʻi i ka hale kūʻai donut kūloko a me ka supermarket kokoke.
I loko nō o kēia, ʻaʻole ia i nike. Aia kekahi hehi wāwae i ka manawa i hoʻolaha ʻia ai nā gluten-free a me nā koho vegan. FYI, ua koho wau i ka burger "pipi a i ʻole ʻaʻole i ka pipi". Hoʻohui, loaʻa iaʻu nā popcorn i koe. Helu helu.
7. He pāʻina ia
Aia ia i kēlā me kēia kāne e hoʻolauleʻa ai i kā lāua male male pehea lā lāua i koho ai, no laila he hoʻokolokolo paha wau. Koe ʻo kēia male ʻana he pāʻina maoli nō. He hoʻolauleʻa.
Ma waena o nā cocktails me nā poʻomanaʻo, kahi papa inoa papa inoa i hoʻolālā pono ʻia, a me nā congas impromptu he nui i hohola a puni ke kahua, he pāʻina maoli nō ia.
ʻO koʻu ʻike i ka male male ʻana he puʻulu o ka poʻe minamina e noho ana a e kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi ana ʻoiai e hoʻāʻo ka DJ e paipai i ka poʻe e hulahula me nā hits maikaʻi ʻole o 2000 i makemake ʻole ʻia e kekahi.
Ma kahi o, ua hoʻolālā nā wahine mare i kahi papa inoa playlist a ʻo ke kāne ʻoi loa ka manawa i ka minuke i kāna makana iā lākou. Pau ke mele hope loa ma ke pani ʻana o kahi.
ʻOiai he male male ʻole ʻole ia, ua hulahula mua mākou me nā waimaka. He hoʻolauleʻa maoli kēlā i ka nui.
8. Nā kuʻuna
ʻO ke ʻano o ka moʻomeheu i nā mea like ʻole i nā poʻe like ʻole.
Moemoe kekahi poʻe i ka lole keʻokeʻo maʻamau, e hele wāwae i ke ala mai ko lākou wā liʻiliʻi. ʻO wau, he nui nā kuʻuna i loaʻa nā sexist undertones. Mai ka "hāʻawi" ʻana i ka wahine mare, i ka lole keʻokeʻo "virginal" e "lawelawe" i kāu kāne hou a lawe i kona inoa.
ʻAʻohe hele ʻana o kēia male male i ke ala, komo pū lāua i ka lumi. ʻAʻohe makua kāne 'hāʻawi' i nā wahine mare, ma kahi o, ua nānā lākou a hoʻāʻo ʻaʻole e haehae. Hoʻokahi ʻohana i hoʻomaloka i ka ʻohana, no laila ʻaʻohe o nā undertone e pili ana i ka haipule a lawe ʻia kekahi ʻōlelo hoʻomana i waho o ka hanana.
Ua mahalo ʻia kēia i nā ʻohana ʻelua a me ka poʻe hoʻomana haipule maoli. Ua wili ʻia nā kuʻuna a hoʻololi ʻia i ke ʻano o ka mea nui i nā wahine mare ʻelua.
ʻO ka mālama ʻana i nā kuʻuna no ka pono o ke kuʻuna hiki ke lilo i mea ʻawahia loa a hōʻeha a maʻamau hoʻi i ka male ʻana.
9. Na lilo
£ 50 ke poʻo. £ 10 no ka pia pia. Ua hele mākou a pau i ka male ʻana e like me kēlā. Manaʻo mau wau inā hauʻoli maoli paha ka wahine me ka £ 20k + a lāua e lilo ai ma kahi.
Mālama kēia male i ke kumukūʻai, akā ʻaʻole naʻe i ʻike he makepono. Ma waena o ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi kaʻi e lawe i nā mea kipa, a me nā hoa aloha e mōhai ana i nā sofas, no laila ʻaʻohe mea e pīhoihoi me ka makemake ʻole no kahi hōkele, ua ʻoluʻolu a maʻalahi hoʻi ka male ʻana. Ua kākoʻo lākou i kā lākou mau hale kūʻai aloha kūloko ma ke kūʻai ʻana i nā puke lima ʻelua e hāʻawi aku ai ma ke ʻano he aloha male.
Ua hoʻolimalima lākou i kahi pā cabaret kūloko a mālama i nā kumukūʻai inu me ke kumu kūʻai. ʻIke ʻia nā mea āpau e hiki a kōkua ʻia.
Pili ke aloha a me ka mahalo i kekahi i kekahi
Ke nānā nei i hope, nā kāne olakino olakino, hauʻoli loa loa aʻu i ʻike ai ua loaʻa nā male male ʻole. Ua male kekahi mau mea i ka lole nani, ʻoiai hoʻoholo ʻē aʻe i ka pop i loko o kahi keʻena keʻena e hele ana i Botswana.
Kupanaha kēia male, ʻaʻole no ka mea ʻo LGBT ia. Ua kūpale ʻo ia i ka ʻaʻa i ke kuʻuna me ka manaʻo he kuʻuna. Ua pili, pili, a pilikino wau. ʻAʻole kēia he male male wale ʻia ma nā kiʻi ma ka pāpili kaiaulu. He hoʻolauleʻa kūpono kēia o ke aloha ma waena o nā kānaka ʻelua.
Ma hope o nā mea āpau, pili ke aloha a me ka mahalo iā ʻoe kekahi i kekahi. Hoʻomanaʻo! Pāʻina kahi pāʻina. He hoʻolauleʻa ia o ke aloha aku i kekahi mea nui āu e hoʻohiki ai iā lākou no ke ola. Inā ʻoi aku ka nui o kāu mau kiʻi a me ka papa ʻo Pinterest iā ʻoe, inā e male ʻoe?
Ma hope o nā mea āpau, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kāu kuʻuna ponoʻī.