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ʻLelo lākou he male maikaʻi, akā ʻaʻohe male hauʻoli. I loko o nā makahiki he nui nā kāne male e ʻike nei iā lākou iho e piholo ana i ka palaka a me ke aloha ʻole. Manaʻo lākou i ka lolo me ka manaʻolana ʻole, nā pilina hauʻoli ʻole, ka ʻole o ke kuko a me ke ola monotonous. ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻamau ka manaʻo o ka poʻe male e ʻālana nei lākou i kahi manaolana o ke ola aloha a me ka uku ʻana i kahi kumukūʻai no kā lākou kūpaʻa kālā a me ka naʻau a no ka noho maikaʻi o kā lākou keiki.
Aloha me ka lā palena pau
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Philosopher Palani ʻo Michel Montaigne ua lilo ka manaʻo o ka poʻe i aloha ʻia, akā ʻo ka male ʻana e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou i ka nalo. Kaumaha akāʻoiaʻiʻo - lawe ka male i kahi mahele nui loa o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo hiki ke hoʻoweliweli i ke ola i ke aloha o ke aloha.
He nui nā kāne male e ʻōlelo nei ua make ko lākou mau manaʻo o "aloha". I kekahi manawa hoʻololi a ikaika a maʻalahi a hiki i ke aloha o kekahi ke hāʻule make ʻole, akā i nā manawa he nui, hoʻololi ke aloha aloha i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe - akā ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ka pīhoihoi.
ʻO kahi mau mea hoʻopunipuni wale nō e manaʻo i kā lākou hoihoi nui i ke aloha, kuko, a me ka infatuation e noho loli ʻole e ka manawa a me nā hana. Ma hope o ka ʻona euphoria ʻona hele mau kahi hangover, ukali ʻia kēlā me kēia meli e nā makahiki a me nā makahiki o nā hana maʻamau o nā lā, nā waihona panakō pū, nā hana, nā keiki ʻuʻē a me nā diapers lepo.
ʻO ka poʻohiwi poʻo poʻo poʻo kuʻekuʻe wāwae mau loa ka lōʻihi ma mua o nā mahina a i ʻelua mau makahiki. No nā kāne he nui e pili ana no kekahi manawa a noho pū, he aloha aloha ikaika ʻo D.O.A. i ko lākou lā male
Eia kahi pilikia maoli o ka male - pehea e hoʻololi ai i kahi mahalo no ke keiki aliʻi / ke kamāliʻi wahine maikaʻi loa e aloha ana me ke aloha maoli no ka ʻiʻo kino a me ke koko maoli ʻole.
Pehea ʻo C.P.R. aloha
Manaʻo kekahi mau kāne i ko lākou aloha ma ke ʻano he mea kūʻokoʻa i hiki ke ola a make paha i ka pōloli i kēlā me kēia manawa, me ka nānā ʻole i nā hana a nā ipo. ʻAneʻane ʻaʻole pololei kēlā. ʻAʻohe o haʻi kuleana e koi i kahi aloha i hānai ʻia e mau loa ana, akā ʻo ka mea i mālama ʻole ʻia e luku ʻia ia mai kinohi mai.
Lohe pinepine ka poʻe i kahi ʻōlelo clichéd a nauseous hoʻi: "He hana nui ka male ʻana". E like me ka hōʻeha e ʻae aku, aia kekahi mea iā ia. "Paʻa", akā, he overstatement. He kūpono ia e ʻōlelo aku e pili ana nā pilina i kekahi hana a pono e hoʻopukapuka ʻia kekahi manawa.
Eia kekahi mau manaʻo maʻalahi hiki ke kōkua i ka mālama ʻana i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe a me ka pilina.
- ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi e lawe wale i ka wahine a kekahi. Ke hele aku ka poʻe ʻōpio i nā lā a lākou e hana nui ai e nānā i ko lākou ʻoi loa. Pehea e hele ai ma hope o ko lākou male ʻana ka hapanui o nā kāne a me nā wahine e ʻaʻahu no ka hana a haʻalele loa i ko lākou nānā ʻana i ka home? He mea nui loa ke nānā aku i mua o ke kāne a me ka wahine a hoʻāʻo e hōʻalo i kahi hoʻowalewale e komo i loko o nā sweatpants kahiko no ka mea ʻoluʻolu.
- ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manawa kūpono he mea nui ia no nā kāne male. Hoʻokahi i loko o ʻelua a ʻekolu paha mau hebedoma kipaku aku i nā keiki a loaʻa kahi lā lā i ka pō. He mea hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi loa ia no ke kau mua i kahi pilina - kahi aloha hou e puhi nei i ka manaʻo. E hōʻalo i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i nā keiki, nā hana a me nā pilikia pili kālā, e loaʻa i kahi pō lā maoli.
- Hana i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia. ʻAʻole hiki ke loaʻa nā butterflies i loko o kou ʻōpū a mau loa. E launa me ia. Hāʻawi nā hana Extramarital i ka poʻe me ka pīhoihoi, akā aloha nui ʻia ke kumukūʻai. He manawa pōkole ka pīhoihoi, ʻoiai ʻo ka hōʻino o ka wahaheʻe, ʻo ka hahau weliweli i ka wahine a me nā keiki e noho mau paha ia. ʻAʻole e haʻi ʻia nā pepepe e pau i ka nalowale.
- He mea nui nā hōʻailona liʻiliʻi o ka nānā. Ke hana nei i kā lākou papa ʻaina punahele i kekahi manawa, ke kūʻai ʻana i nā makana lā hānau a me ka piha makahiki, e nīnau wale ana: “Pehea kou lā?” a laila he maʻalahi nā mea e hoʻolohe ai akā hana lākou i kahi ʻano nui loa.
Ke kuʻi ʻana i kahi lio make
I kekahi manawa hiki i ke aloha a me ke aloha ke hoʻopau loa iā ia iho no ke Akua ʻike i ke kumu. Inā ʻo ia ka hihia, he mea nui e ʻae iā ia a mākaukau e neʻe i mua. Hana nā miliona o nā kānaka i kēlā me kēia lā; ʻaʻohe kumu e weliweli ai. Nui nā kāne a me nā wahine ma mua e noho hoa aloha ma hope o ka hemo ʻana. Eia nā hōʻailona ke make paha kahi male.
- Aia kekahi mea kānalua loa ma waena o nā kāne a me ke kamaʻilio e like me ke ʻano o nā hoa lumi ʻelua.
- Hoʻowahāwahā ka manaʻo maoli o ka moekolohe.
- ʻO ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka wahine me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe e lawe mai i kahi ʻano hoʻomaha, ʻaʻole lili.
- Ke hakakā mau nei ma luna o kēlā me kēia mea liʻiliʻi, ka manaʻo hoʻomau o ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole.
Inā loaʻa kahi kānalua ikaika i ka manawa i lilo ai nā mea ʻuhane i mau hoa paʻalima, he mea maikaʻi mau ke kamaʻilio me kahi loea. Hiki i nā hoaaloha a me nā ʻohana ke pili i ka naʻau a me kā lākou mau manaʻo maikaʻi loa hiki ke hōʻeha i nā pōʻino koʻikoʻi. ʻO ke kākāʻōlelo male, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē, ʻaʻole kōkua paha, akā ʻaʻole ʻeha. No kekahi mau kāne hoʻohoka, paʻakikī loa ia i mea pahuhopu a hoʻomaopopo loa i ka mea e hana nei. I kekahi hihia, he ʻike maʻamau he ʻekolu ʻaoʻao i kēlā me kēia moʻolelo “kāna, iā ia, a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo”.
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